Current Events > Do you take it personally if someone ghosts you?

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If it's someone who I considered my friend, yes

That would instantly not make me trust the person because that means there's a pretty good chance the person that's a liar and is unreliable

real life people yes but online people idc as much for some reason

It depends on who it is. If its on a dating site, then no. But I've been trying to sell a used computer for a year now for over half off, and I'll get a buyer to contact me wanting to pick it up and then doesn't text back after that? I'm not trying to date you, be a fucking adult and tell me you aren't interested anymore.

super_felicia posted...

real life people yes but online people idc as much for some reason

I don't care about online people either because I don't know them personally like that

Hickey_Blvd46 posted...

I don't care about online people either because I don't know them personally like that

What annoyed me was the guy I was chatting must have done it out of ignorance or something I knew him personally hes not a busy dude so why blank on me? I asked if he was doing good and he just didnt respond ok theres a possibility he forgot but if hes personally bored randomly he comes back talking to me until hes not bored so i
just left it on my final how are you doing? And dont intend to try anymore its clear Im just a last resort chat person so im gonna stop bothering and that was 2 years ago. Its kinda frustrating tbh I feel like I worded this badly but you dont understand how crap it feels until it happens I used to see people have the same happen to them and I was like why keep them around? but i
get it now cos its like they use you for their occasional vents and its just annoying

Yup. Especially if were close / getting close and then all of a sudden she just stops talking to me without warning or reason.

I dont care how much of a loser incel that makes me or whatever. Getting ghosted and lied to and shit like that has genuinely fucked me up (might even be a light form of trauma tbh) so much more than being told Im not into you, Ive met someone else, etc. etc.

I used to, but I've come to realize that people might feel social anxiety, fear confrontation, have stuff going on that I'm not aware of, etc., so I try not to let it affect me as much as it used to.

obviously, it would be nice to have an explanation, but I'm also fine letting it pass as long as it's not a pattern.

No, i don't really take it in anyway. If we had plans and they just ghosted then maybe, but if we just lose connection I don't hold it against anyone.

No. I basically added a stupid attractive girl on a whim. She ghosted me. But I didn't feel bad, because I couldn't compete with the guy who took her on a trip to Jamaica.

^gold digger in the making

I take everything personally :/

I did when it happened to me a couple of times when i was in highschool. Flirted around with a couple of girls and after like a week they lost interest stop texting completely and never really saw them again.

Depends on the circumstances and why

If I lended someone money then soon after they ghost my to avoid paying it back, yeah I'm going to take it very personal

I aint fraid of no ghosts