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ZannoL
02/27/24 3:49:23 PM
#1:


For me, I dont give a damn about height (my bf is only 56), penis size, or how much money a guy makes.

Things I look for in no particular order:

  1. Genuine kindness. I would never date a rude guy.
  2. Attractive face.
  3. Lives a healthy lifestyle (not saying he has to be physically fit btw).
  4. Not afraid to show feelings
  5. Have ambition


Thats kind of it for me. What about you guys?
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Dakimakura
02/27/24 3:50:53 PM
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  1. Not overly fat / lives an unhealthy lifestyle
  2. Not horrendously ugly
  3. No red flags of potentially being abusive

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TotallyNotAGirl
02/27/24 3:51:43 PM
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Oh dear. I feel attacked by your first sentence lmao. Imma just be quiet.

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Vokrent
02/27/24 3:52:29 PM
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if someone is willing to date me, i'm more worried about their standards.

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ZannoL
02/27/24 3:52:36 PM
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TotallyNotAGirl posted...
Oh dear. I feel attacked by your first sentence lmao. Imma just be quiet.
What?
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ai123
02/27/24 3:52:58 PM
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Honestly, I don't know. I don't really have a list of requirements, though I don't think I could ever date, say, a racist.

Obviously I have preferences, but if I really liked someone, I think I would tolerate most things.

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ZannoL
02/27/24 3:53:12 PM
#7:


Vokrent posted...
if someone is willing to date me, i'm more worried about their standards.
Not cool to say that about yourself. Youre probably way cooler than you think.

Dakimakura posted...
1. Not overly fat / lives an unhealthy lifestyle
2. Not horrendously ugly
3. No red flags of potentially being abusive
Solid list.
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ZannoL
02/27/24 3:53:38 PM
#8:


ai123 posted...
Honestly, I don't know. I don't really have a list of requirements, though I don't think I could ever date, say, a racist.

Obviously I have preferences, but if I really liked someone, I think I would tolerate most things.
Likewise.
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TotallyNotAGirl
02/27/24 3:55:20 PM
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ZannoL posted...
What?
Height and "size" are what will make turn me from a hard buyer to a sucker, I guess. Ofc personality is important.

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Vokrent
02/27/24 3:56:13 PM
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ZannoL posted...
Not cool to say that about yourself. Youre probably way cooler than you think.

Solid list.
i don't need to be cool though. i just need to stay alive (which my brain makes difficult at times) and do the things that make me happy. dating doesn't happen to be on that list, which means i would probably be a terrible partner

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SilvosForever
02/27/24 3:57:09 PM
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1) Preferably the same height as me or shorter
2) No kids
3) No drugs/smoking
4) Cute enough for me (7/10 is fine honestly)
5) Able to converse
6) Not crazy

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TotallyNotAGirl
02/27/24 3:57:47 PM
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BoomerKuwanger posted...

I JUST finished Megaman X. Nice user.

But you did remind me... 420 friendly is a requirement, for me.


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trappedunderice
02/27/24 3:59:09 PM
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Someone who doesn't smoke cigarettes
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BloodMoon7
02/27/24 4:00:18 PM
#15:


Alive....

Well actually I wouldn't say no to a ghost


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Will_VIIII
02/27/24 4:04:27 PM
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No MAGAs

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garan
02/27/24 4:06:52 PM
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1. No smokers
2. No tattoos
3. No kids
4. Not fat
5. Not mean/unpleasant
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Anony1125
02/27/24 4:06:58 PM
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  1. attracted to me


...as you can see, my standards have heretofore been a little too high
I may have to consider lowering them to find a partner

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MartavisBryant
02/27/24 4:09:46 PM
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Literally any woman who could ever want to be with me
She does not exist

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ZannoL
02/27/24 4:54:30 PM
#22:


Vokrent posted...
i don't need to be cool though. i just need to stay alive (which my brain makes difficult at times) and do the things that make me happy. dating doesn't happen to be on that list, which means i would probably be a terrible partner
Fair enough.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Really great list.

Emotional depth is especially so important.
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ArsGoetia
02/27/24 4:59:44 PM
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1- leaves me alone most of the day
2- doesnt want to have sex
3- doesnt make me eat food
4- does all the things i dont like to do in video games so i dont have to
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TheLiarParadox
02/27/24 5:02:16 PM
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No non-vegans, smokers, drinkers, theists, centrists/right-wingers, parents, or emotionally immature people.

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Crimsoness
02/27/24 5:03:07 PM
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6ft, 6 figures, 6 inches at minimum

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AlveinFencer
02/27/24 5:03:43 PM
#26:


N/A

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MartavisBryant
02/27/24 6:24:42 PM
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Crimsoness posted...
6ft, 6 figures, 6 inches at minimum
What if I only have two of those, BUT I can make up for it with debilitating self-loathing and a complete inability to hold a conversation?

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MrResetti
02/27/24 6:26:05 PM
#28:


My track record isn't the best.
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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/27/24 6:53:20 PM
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Lol I love it

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Will_VIIII
02/27/24 6:53:57 PM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Lol I love it
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/d/d54783a7.jpg

Hope this helps!

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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/27/24 6:57:11 PM
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Will_VIIII posted...
Hope this helps!
There's nothing wrong with having preferences, it's just funny to have "open mindedness" as a value moments after saying a broad class of people with very varied beliefs within it are all disqualified. Those two things separately are cool but together it comes off pretty funny.

Also I like the implication that your dating partner will kill you if they're conservative

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Glob
02/27/24 6:58:18 PM
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Aside from what I assume is a typo on number 5, this matches fairly closely with me. Obviously I need to be physically attracted to them too but I feel like thats a given for most people.
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DarthAragorn
02/27/24 6:59:12 PM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
There's nothing wrong with having preferences, it's just funny to have "open mindedness" as a value moments after saying a broad class of people with very varied beliefs within it are all disqualified. Those two things separately are cool but together it comes off pretty funny.

Also I like the implication that your dating partner will kill you if they're conservative
I don't see anything wrong with it

Conservatives are by definition closed-minded

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Will_VIIII
02/27/24 6:59:17 PM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
There's nothing wrong with having preferences, it's just funny to have "open mindedness" as a value moments after saying a broad class of people with very varied beliefs within it are all disqualified. Those two things separately are cool but together it comes off pretty funny.
Conservatives at minimum are supporting a rapist who paraphrases Hitler and appointed SCJs that repealed roe v wade. Not to mention project 2025.

It is absolutely not closed minded to immediately reject conservatives as a potential partner.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/27/24 7:01:34 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
I don't see anything wrong with it

Conservatives are by definition closed-minded
The stipulation isn't needed, then. If they're that closed-minded then they wouldn't be willing to date you if you aren't conservative, anyway.

A lot of couples are liberal woman - conservative man. Naturally, because men tend towards conservatism more. I know lots of such couples

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_____Cait
02/27/24 7:02:15 PM
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Can communicate clearly
Can talk about emotions
Able to see and understand other points of view (doesnt mean they have to tolerate bad ones)
Wants to spend time together.
Can work together to find solutions to problems.

One of the huge issues i had recently was someone i really liked, for years. We matched very well in many areas, had similar interests, and passions. Then one day she told me that most foreigners in Japan (where we live) are bad. Im a foreigner. She says oh but youre one of the good ones.

She also told me my boss (the nicest person i have ever met) was using me. I think she said this to drive a wedge between us.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/27/24 7:02:23 PM
#37:


Will_VIIII posted...
Conservatives at minimum are supporting a rapist who paraphrases Hitler
That's not even true, I know a couple who said outright they won't support trump again after jan 6

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NeonOPPAl
02/27/24 7:03:08 PM
#38:


Not fat
No kids
No smoking
No tattoos >_>
Not crazy lol

Otherwise I'm cool with whatever

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haloiscoolisbak
02/27/24 7:06:48 PM
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A very solid understanding of fairness and honesty - I have experienced dating some absolutely emotionally lazy people. It's something I cannot handle anymore

Curiosity
Non judgemental attitude
Paitence

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ForsakenHermit
02/27/24 7:22:28 PM
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Physical
  • No nipple piercings or nipple tattoos
  • Not morbidly obese
  • Not bald as a fashion statement


Personality
  • Not overassertive
  • Not a neat freak
  • Not outspoken about religion/humanism/atheism/skepticism
  • Needs to be kind & compassionate
  • Can't support Slug Virus
Habits
  • Doesn't smoke
  • Doesn't drink or use recreational drugs in excess
  • Must have a balance between wanting to stay at home here and there and going out and having fun, I can't be with someone who is never or always home.

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GuerrillaSoldier
02/27/24 7:31:28 PM
#42:


hm...

talks to me
is interesting
creative mind
pretty face


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Will_VIIII
02/27/24 7:32:37 PM
#43:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
The stipulation isn't needed, then. If they're that closed-minded then they wouldn't be willing to date you if you aren't conservative, anyway.

A lot of couples are liberal woman - conservative man. Naturally, because men tend towards conservatism more. I know lots of such couples
Single conservative men under 40 are by far having the hardest time dating and they complain about it.

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Will_VIIII
02/27/24 7:33:22 PM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
That's not even true, I know a couple who said outright they won't support trump again after jan 6 and they're like 70 years old.

This is common sense. You know not all left-leaning people support biden so you should also know the other side has similar dissidents.
Not voting for Biden is enabling Trump and project 2025. I didn't create the scenario but that's where we're at.

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Scardude
02/27/24 7:33:41 PM
#45:


Be a decent person with liked interests. Dislikes can overlap and we both need to find each other attractive. How well conversation can go.

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STEROLIZER
02/27/24 7:37:17 PM
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  • Not Fat
  • Does not have to be extroverted but must be willing to do extroverted activities with me
  • Can be religious, but we still need to have sex before marriage


That is about it.

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Voidgolem
02/27/24 7:37:54 PM
#47:


somebody that legit appreciates my company and likes pets. The rest we can probably figure out eventually

the only super dealbreaker that comes to mind is if they're some kind of turbo asshat to other people, in which case...they probably wouldn't appreciate my company anyway.

If they've got themselves relatively sorted out that's good but also probably an unfair ask given I'm still figuring things out too

Granted, never even tried. Maybe this is an unfair standard in general. Kinda a hermit.

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BeantownHero
02/27/24 7:39:22 PM
#48:


Steady income

liberal politics

no more than 1 kid

everything else is negotiable

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Goldenguy
02/27/24 7:43:14 PM
#49:


I don't have like an itemized list per se but:

I gotta be physically attracted to the woman

I won't date a smoker with the exception of infrequent pot or hookah

No drugs outside of medications..

I'm not into STDs

She has to accept that I have kids (I myself am open minded in that regard) and she's gotta be cool with the fact that I am not and most likely never will be religious

Intelligence level needs to be at least a step above backwoods hillbilly

No Trumpers, anti-vaxxers, or major conspiracy theorists

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IceCreamOnStero
02/27/24 7:44:58 PM
#50:


Beyond standard attractiveness and not being a crazy person, my main dealbreakers are no smoking and no kids.

Also

Vokrent posted...
if someone is willing to date me, i'm more worried about their standards.


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