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gamepimp12
02/21/24 11:58:41 PM
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With my ex

first time weve hung out In over a year.

Really got to the bottom of our expectations of each other and why we didnt work last time.

Which despite what everyone on here saying otherwise. The root of the problem is exactly what I thought it was. Her mistaking my timeline for us, and it making her uncomfortable.

with all the cleared out its nice to be able to just enjoy each other.


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PraxagoraKassan
02/22/24 12:00:41 AM
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Arcanine2009
02/22/24 12:00:58 AM
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Timeline for you guys? Care to elaborate?.

Did you guys ever talk about it before. Like in person or over the phone?

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gamepimp12
02/22/24 12:16:20 AM
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Arcanine2009 posted...
Timeline for you guys? Care to elaborate?.

Did you guys ever talk about it before. Like in person or over the phone?


she thought I wanted us to be in a committed relationship fairly quickly. Like if we had a few good months Id ask her to be official with me.

In reality while I want a committed relationship with her, I was looking a year or two down the road for that. We had too much outside circumstances that kept it From working.

we talked about this before, but emotions would typically be running high when wed have this convo so points werent being made

PraxagoraKassan posted...
gamepimp12 topic

I mean every topic I post is a gamepimp topic.

I do feel a little vindicated that I knew I was right about us

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PraxagoraKassan
02/22/24 12:19:17 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

A unique, emotionally intuitive relationship between a slightly domineering woman and a man who tries to sift through the pondscum. In these topics the TC usually exchanges a series of distressing text messages with his partner.

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GuerrillaSoldier
02/22/24 12:30:55 AM
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this gimmick has being going on for years now?


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gamepimp12
02/22/24 12:45:55 AM
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GuerrillaSoldier posted...
this gimmick has being going on for years now?
I mean weve been dealing with each other on and off for 3 years now.

PraxagoraKassan posted...
A unique, emotionally intuitive relationship between a slightly domineering woman and a man who tries to sift through the pondscum. In these topics the TC usually exchanges a series of distressing text messages with his partner.

7/10 pretty close.

shes not really domineering, if anythings shes passive, Too passive.


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boomgetchopped3
02/22/24 12:52:59 AM
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So where did you leave it with her? Are you going out again?

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gamepimp12
02/22/24 1:08:33 AM
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boomgetchopped3 posted...
So where did you leave it with her? Are you going out again?


with the mutual understanding anything committed between us is at the very least 8 or so months out, and likely much longer in the 18 month range.

we kinda also talked about how its easier to date other people because at this point were looking at marriage if we make it official, which neither of us are ready for.

were supposed to hang out in the next 2 weeks.


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buddah86
02/22/24 3:07:10 AM
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What I read from this is you're fine being strung along while she does it with other dudes in hopes that maybe one day you'll magically be together?

That doesn't sound healthy in the slightest

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tripleh213
02/22/24 3:10:47 AM
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Why date an ex though?

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Axiom
02/22/24 3:58:14 AM
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projectpat72988
02/22/24 4:43:55 AM
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buddah86 posted...
What I read from this is you're fine being strung along while she does it with other dudes in hopes that maybe one day you'll magically be together?

That doesn't sound healthy in the slightest

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tripleh213
02/22/24 11:52:24 AM
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I get it now

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Cephalopods
02/22/24 11:59:32 AM
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I'm a bit confused by this. Were you in an open relationship, just hooking up? Based on the context of the posts itt it seems like you weren't actually dating at all.
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R1masher
02/22/24 11:59:50 AM
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Just got back from a date and boy is my hand tired

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ItsNotA2Mer
02/22/24 12:04:16 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Which despite what everyone on here saying otherwise. The root of the problem is exactly what I thought it was.


gamepimp12 posted...
I do feel a little vindicated that I knew I was right about us


I knew more about my relationship than a bunch of random people who knew nothing about my relationship did. Yay me!

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gamepimp12
02/22/24 1:53:37 PM
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buddah86 posted...
What I read from this is you're fine being strung along while she does it with other dudes in hopes that maybe one day you'll magically be together?

That doesn't sound healthy in the slightest


cause you misread it.


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gamepimp12
02/22/24 2:05:41 PM
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tripleh213 posted...
Why date an ex though?

when we where dealing with each other earlier it was a real right person wrong time situation

ItsNotA2Mer posted...
I knew more about my relationship than a bunch of random people who knew nothing about my relationship did. Yay me!

I mean it wasnt just yall. A lot of our friends thought the situation was weird. Mainly because they werent privy to certain conversations we had.

Cephalopods posted...
I'm a bit confused by this. Were you in an open relationship, just hooking up? Based on the context of the posts itt it seems like you weren't actually dating at all.

hooking up/hanging out/situationship whatever you wanna call it.

basically we where hang out going on dates and talking about exclusively dating. But neither of us planned on it until the situation was ideal

i tend to call her my ex to simply thing.


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Arcanine2009
02/22/24 3:24:33 PM
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so you guys both want a serious relationship now?

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NoxObscuras
02/22/24 4:19:38 PM
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Arcanine2009 posted...
so you guys both want a serious relationship now?
I'm wondering this too

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TheoryzC
02/22/24 4:39:49 PM
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Someone else is gonna fill that "relationship hole" for either one or both of you literally and figuratively at some point

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Naves7
02/22/24 4:47:14 PM
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sounds like she's wasting her time on TC. why string her along man.
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gamepimp12
02/23/24 12:03:49 AM
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Yes, I dont think either of us are looking for something to serious or distracting, but yes, I have no plans to stop dating other women, and I know for a facts shes seeing another dude.

Its just so much feeling and history there that its kinda the expectation that if we finally decide to be official it cant be to wasted.

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gamepimp12
02/23/24 12:05:07 AM
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Naves7 posted...
sounds like she's wasting her time on TC. why string her along man.

forgot to add this.

Im not stringing her along, Im madly in love with her, I just refuse to date her in a situation that not ideal for us.

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gamepimp12
02/23/24 5:24:17 PM
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Bored bump

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gamepimp12
02/24/24 10:49:23 PM
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Bored bump.

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BucketCat
02/24/24 10:50:07 PM
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I wish I could go on a date with my ex. She called me last year but I didn't answer, I kinda wish I did.

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Irony
02/24/24 10:50:51 PM
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I went out on a date with a girl a bit late she had so many friends.

I brought my pogo stick just to show her a trick she had so many friends

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