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Danish MP Mike Fonseca has defended his relationship with a 15-year-old girl.

Danish politician Mike Fonseca says his relationship with a 15-year-old girl works well for us and we love each other. He returned to work in parliament on Thursday after taking sick leave when the relationship was made public.

Fonseca, 28, was reported to police in November after he admitted having a relationship with a 15-year-old. He claimed in comments to Danish media at the time that the relationship was true love.

He was subsequently thrown out of his party, the Moderates, whose leader Lars Lkke Rasmussen said that he had been "speechless" when he learned of Fonseca's relationship. Fonseca told broadcaster TV2 that he had broken the Moderate Party's code of conduct by dating someone under the age of 18.

While reports at the time claimed he began the relationship when the girl was in Year 8 at school, he has always held that the relationship only began once she passed the age of consent. In January, police in Central and West Zealand confirmed that a grooming report had been received, and that the case had now been closed. They did not confirm the case related to Fonseca specifically.

A police spokesperson told news wire Ritzau that there was "no reasonable suspicion that the law has been broken.

Fonseca returned to parliament as an independent on Thursday after two and a half months of sick leave, after originally announcing he would be off for three weeks when his relationship was first made public.

His return as an independent came after he said he could see himself joining the Social Democrats, Liberal (Venstre) or the Liberal Alliance. All three parties responded by saying he would not be welcome.

In comments to news wire Ritzau, he said he could understand if his relationship was perceived as strange.

But I can tell you that my girlfriend and I are doing well, it works for us and we love each other, he said.

He also wrote a column for media Altinget ahead of his return to parliament, in which he said his sick leave had actually begun before the relationship was reported by the media and that he had not done anything against the law.

I will continue to be true to myself, not least my girlfriend, my loved ones and my mandate now as an independent member of parliament, he wrote.

The rules become strangely irrelevant when a couple loves each other. Maybe its crazy. But love doesnt follow the rules. Love has a plan for every one of us and love makes you blind, he wrote.

The lawmakers relationship has seen him ostracized by his former party and several others and would conceivably cost him his job entirely in countries where the age of consent is 16, such as the UK. In the United States, the age of consent is 16 in most states and 17 or 18 in a smaller number.

In Denmark, where the age of consent is 15, Fonseca is not breaking the law by being having a relationship with a person of that age and police have stated they do not reasonably suspect grooming laws have been broken.

Denmark is not the only European country to set its age of consent at 15 or even lower. Nordic neighbours Norway and Sweden place it at 16 and 15 respectively, though in Sweden this rises to 18 if theres a position of trust on one side.

In Spain it is 16, while in France it is 15 although until recently, France did not have a specific age of consent at all.

Denmarks age of consent applies to all forms of sexual situations, but this is not the case in all European countries.

In Austria, for example, the age of consent is 14 but this does not apply to sexual contact if the age difference between two adolescents is not more than four years and the younger partner is over the age of 12. If the contact is in the form of sexual intercourse, the permitted age difference is three years and the minimum age 13, according to Austrian law.

Similarly, Italys rules state the age of consent in Italy is 14, but it rises to 16 when one participant is in a position of authority (such as a teacher, clergyman, etc). Italy also has a close-in-age rule where 13-year-olds can legally consent to partners who are less than three years older than them.

Full Article: https://www.thelocal.dk/20240208/why-has-a-danish-mp-with-a-15-year-old-girlfriend-not-been-forced-to-quit

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Imagine having to work with this man

If your best defense is "it's technically not illegal" then you probably need to have some self reflection on what you are doing.

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I believe so.

That's defo true for states. If you're dating a 17 year old in a state where the age of consent is 16. you can't go to a state were the age of consent is 18 and fuck

Penn and Teller did a whole bit on this

Where the fuck are her parents? My daughter is soon to be 15 and if any 28 year old came near her I would fucking rip him a new one.

Cuticrusader09 posted...

Where the fuck are her parents? My daughter is soon to be 15 and if any 28 year old came near her I would fucking rip him a new one.

Groomers tend to target victims who either have no parents/support systems or uncaring ones.

It's doubtful she has decent parents who support her in her life.

He's a sick piece of shit and I feel sorry for that kid that's he's going to "legally" fuck up.

He should move to America and become a Republican. He would fit right in. I'm 34, and the thought of dating even someone who's 18 to even their early 20s sounds gross. Even besides the creepiness, how do "couples" like this even bond? Like what would you even have in common?

UnfairRepresent posted...

Groomers tend to target victims who either have no parents/support systems or uncaring ones.

It's doubtful she decent parents who support her in her life.

Facts.

Southernfatman posted...

He should move to America and become a Republican. He would fit right in. I'm 34, and the thought of dating even someone who's 18 to even their early 20s sounds gross. Even besides the creepiness, how do "couples" like this even bond? Like what would you even have in common?

This, except I'm 35. My niece is going to be 18 in less than two weeks, and her friends just look like children to me.
Or at the bars, the ~21 year olds mostly look like children and all act like children.

I mean can you blame them lol

FolkenRawr posted...

This, except I'm 35. My niece is going to be 18 in less than two weeks, and her friends just look like children to me.

They grow up so fast man

Why is half the article just listing age of consent laws in various different unrelated countries?

UnfairRepresent posted...

I believe so.

That's defo true for states. If you're dating a 17 year old in a state where the age of consent is 16. you can't go to a state were the age of consent is 18 and fuck

Penn and Teller did a whole bit on this

Well unless you're Matt Gaetz.

Too young in my view. If shes in high school, then a 3 year gap is most Im ok with. Once in college and an adult I could care less (seen couples 20 years part that function well, but they were adults when they met)

So, the Danish version of Gaetz?

I will get modded if I say what I'm thinking and he ain't worth me getting banned

Heineken14 posted...

Well unless you're Matt Gaetz.

Republicans never face any consequences for their actions sadly

Typical politician.

Southernfatman posted...

He should move to America and become a Republican. He would fit right in. I'm 34, and the thought of dating even someone who's 18 to even their early 20s sounds gross. Even besides the creepiness, how do "couples" like this even bond? Like what would you even have in common?

The bond is sex, and once she's too old for him, he'll find someone younger again while tossing this girl aside.