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Atralis
02/13/24 1:06:02 AM
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My mom wants to meet and talk. This rarely happens. My only sibling is in prison right now because she is addicted to heroin and did a lot of horrible shit related to that.

I'm married to a 35 year old woman but our relationship is a bit of a mess and we are living day to day.
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2Pacavelli
02/13/24 1:08:47 AM
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I hope it's nothing too sad
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Atralis
02/13/24 1:09:36 AM
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2Pacavelli posted...
I hope it's nothing too sad
Me too!
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Dakimakura
02/13/24 1:13:24 AM
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What is happening with this poll?

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2Pacavelli
02/13/24 1:14:59 AM
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Atralis posted...
I'm married to a 35 year old woman but our relationship is a bit of a mess and we are living day to day.

I hope it gets better. Or if not I hope you get whatever makes you happy. And her happy as well
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Atralis
02/13/24 1:21:12 AM
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2Pacavelli posted...
I hope it gets better. Or if not I hope you get whatever makes you happy. And her happy as well

Life is complicated is all I can say. Two days ago my wife dropped on me that she wanted a divorce because I wasn't listening to her talking about whatever shit she was watching on TikTok and then she said "Are you even listening to me?" and I had to say no because since we met a few years ago she has started to believe in all sorts of silly shit involving "WitchTok" and crystals and other bullshit that I have always stressed to her I think is total bullshit.

So that is my life. But its fine because then we made up and she got a haircut and she doesn't want a divorce anymore because maybe that was just her time of the month. Because of course. Because none of this shit makes sense.

So on the one hand I have my wife believing in silly new age shit.

On the other hand my Mom, mega catholic, is going to talk to me about old age shit involving the Church and having kids and all that good stuff.

Fuck me.

Meanwhile I exited religion when I was about 12 and it stopped making sense to me except for those moments when I feel like sanity has exited the building and I ask Jesus, God, and every one of the saints to HELP ME!!!!
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LeoRavus
02/13/24 1:36:58 AM
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I don't know how your mom operates but if mine told me that I'd assume she was dying. Family tragedies and non-life threatening illnesses are usually told in texts. A special mystery meeting to talk, I'd expect her to have less than 6 months.

I mean I hope it's nothing like that.

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Naysaspace
02/13/24 1:52:53 AM
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mony

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darkmaian23
02/13/24 1:55:04 AM
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Atralis posted...
Life is complicated is all I can say. Two days ago my wife dropped on me that she wanted a divorce because I wasn't listening to her talking about whatever shit she was watching on TikTok and then she said "Are you even listening to me?" and I had to say no because since we met a few years ago she has started to believe in all sorts of silly shit involving "WitchTok" and crystals and other bullshit that I have always stressed to her I think is total bullshit.
Are you sure wanting a divorce isn't less about TikTok and much more about you not supporting her beliefs and sharing her interests?

Atralis posted...
So that is my life. But its fine because then we made up and she got a haircut and she doesn't want a divorce anymore because maybe that was just her time of the month. Because of course. Because none of this shit makes sense.
Maybe you need to have a moment with your wife where you try and be more understanding about her interests, and she agrees to be less flippant about super hurtful stuff? That might help.

Anyway, I hope your Mom is doing OK.

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