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I4NRulez 02/06/24 1:41:11 PM #1: |
Whenever women message me first its always a hi :) or hey hows it going
seems like minimal effort all around --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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R1masher 02/06/24 1:42:45 PM #2: |
Fine.
^look now the conversations dead --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssb_yunglink2 02/06/24 1:48:04 PM #3: |
Men and women are objectively on different playing fields when it comes to dating apps. Men have to try harder if they want to get a womans attention, because she probably has like 3 times as many matches to sift through.
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NoxObscuras 02/06/24 1:51:51 PM #4: |
That's your in. Be the message that stands out from the crowd. But if she doesn't hold her side of the conversation, then you have just as much right to bail as she does
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VampireCoyote 02/06/24 1:55:08 PM #5: |
Stop worrying about the women who complain, theyre always gonna complain theyre complainers
There are other women --- Go eat a pancake ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Solid_Sonic 02/06/24 1:56:56 PM #6: |
VampireCoyote posted...
Stop worrying about the women who complain, theyre always gonna complain theyre complainers Yeah but how do you know who you're dealing with? Personally I question if coming into a conversation by immediately drawing attention to things you observed on someone's profile might be too aggressive and potentially come off as a scammer. --- What is the equivalent of taking a shower in an online community? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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berlyman101 02/06/24 1:58:21 PM #7: |
dating apps aren't like real life so it's useless to complain about it from either side.
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Will_VIII 02/06/24 2:00:25 PM #8: |
berlyman101 posted...
dating apps aren't like real life so it's useless to complain about it from either side.Dating apps are the most common way to get a date these days though, if you're under 40 --- Advice from a dryer: Open the door to amazement. Don't shrink from your true calling. Accept life's wrinkles. Avoid overload. Reach into mystery! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VampireCoyote 02/06/24 2:00:38 PM #9: |
Solid_Sonic posted...
Yeah but how do you know who you're dealing with? You dont which is why you just be yourself in a fun and bold way Personally I question if coming into a conversation by immediately drawing attention to things you observed on someone's profile might be too aggressive and potentially come off as a scammer. Dont worry about how you will be perceived, youll paint yourself into a corner and feel like you cant say anything. Just say what you actually want to say --- Go eat a pancake ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jupiter 02/06/24 2:00:40 PM #10: |
I would almost always get a response on dating apps since I'd usually say something specifically about their profile or them in general instead of a generic response or pickup line. I did notice though that at least 90% of the girls who messaged me first on Bumble would just say something like hi.
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Hayame_Zero 02/06/24 2:00:45 PM #11: |
It's a boring opener for men or women.
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ai123 02/06/24 2:01:00 PM #12: |
I4NRulez posted...
Whenever women message me first its always a hi :) or hey hows it goingDo you find those openings off-putting and weak, or are they fine to you? If they are, say so. If not, you don't have an issue. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guns_of_Verdun 02/06/24 2:01:47 PM #13: |
I feel like you dodged a bullet if a girl will dump you because your greeting message wasn't unique enough
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ArsGoetia 02/06/24 2:04:05 PM #14: |
ssb_yunglink2 posted... 3 times as many matches to sift through. try 30 times opening my inbox to a few dozen "hi"s aint really a seller unless youre stupid handsome id rather talk to the dude that clearly read my profile and wants to talk about something we could maybe bond over tbqh sucks that dudes dont get many replies but unfortunately theyre the de facto beggars in the "beggars cant be choosers" idiom and no amount of whinging is going to change it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jupiter 02/06/24 2:04:37 PM #15: |
Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I feel like you dodged a bullet if a girl will dump you because your greeting message wasn't unique enoughNot really. It's more that a girl typically gets 20 "hi" messages a day. She doesn't have the time or energy to start up a conversation with every single person. So it makes more sense to go with something that stands out more. --- Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/kid_prodigy23 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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berlyman101 02/06/24 2:05:28 PM #16: |
Will_VIII posted...
Dating apps are the most common way to get a date these days though, if you're under 40 Yeah and I think that's fucked --- "They think it don't be like it is, but it do." -Oscar Gamble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 02/06/24 2:12:58 PM #17: |
Solid_Sonic posted...
Yeah but how do you know who you're dealing with?Nah, trust me it works. Even if it's something basic. You relate it to yourself while also asking her a follow-up question about it. "I saw that you like hiking. I recently got into it myself and went hiking at 'X' last weekend. Do you have any good trails you'd recommend?" Something like that would get the conversation going and doesn't just end with a yes or no question. Obviously don't lie when you're messaging her and make it about something you're actually interested in. All of the women that agreed to go out in a date were women that I bonded with about common interests first. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Will_VIII 02/06/24 2:14:21 PM #18: |
berlyman101 posted...
Yeah and I think that's fuckedIt's safer --- Advice from a dryer: Open the door to amazement. Don't shrink from your true calling. Accept life's wrinkles. Avoid overload. Reach into mystery! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 02/06/24 2:19:14 PM #21: |
ai123 posted...
Do you find those openings off-putting and weak, or are they fine to you? I just look at their profiles to see how descriptive it is. If its minimal effort all around I just ignore them --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Background_Guy 02/06/24 4:10:04 PM #22: |
I've never had a good opening message from a woman on bumble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BloodMoon7 02/06/24 4:15:04 PM #23: |
Mfw I don't even get a hi
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ArsGoetia 02/06/24 4:15:47 PM #24: |
BloodMoon7 posted... Mfw I don't even get a hi hi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BloodMoon7 02/06/24 4:17:50 PM #25: |
ArsGoetia posted...
hi*sees profile* So you like burying people in the woods eh? I too like to live dangerously. --- My maid will hear about this. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SauI_Goodman 02/06/24 4:19:27 PM #26: |
"Hey"
Vs "HI there you're really cute id like to take you out on a date I see you like viddya I like viddya too what kind of games do you like me I like action games how about movies for when we go out please respond. --- Italian, French, German. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 02/06/24 4:20:13 PM #27: |
low rizz topic
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DarthDemented 02/06/24 4:22:10 PM #29: |
I4NRulez posted...
Whenever women message me first its always a hi :) or hey hows it goingAre they the same women, who say in their profiles, that won't respond to the exact same thing? --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LightningThief 02/06/24 4:22:26 PM #30: |
Jupiter posted... Not really. It's more that a girl typically gets 20 "hi" messages a day. She doesn't have the time or energy to start up a conversation with every single person. So it makes more sense to go with something that stands out more.That said, woman are no better with the bad openers. Bumble is a great example where woman are suppose to initiate the conversation first. I can't tell you how many, "Hi", "Hey", "How are you" messages I've gotten. My point is, it's not just men giving low effort openers. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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haloiscoolisbak 02/06/24 4:22:32 PM #31: |
This complaint thankfully died off a bit once bumble got popular and women realised how difficult it is to entertain a stranger with one message
When tinder was everybody's primary app, the complaints were very very annoying as a guy But I honestly don't see it much anymore in online spaces. --- Started from the bottom now we here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 02/06/24 4:27:03 PM #32: |
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:
"Hold up I am on the last level of Donkey Kong Country. I am about to beat it." --- Currently Playing: FFXIV, TES games, Baldur's Gate 3, Cyberpunk 2077, Overwatch, Forza Horizon 5, Pokemon, and various random Gamepass games. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BloodMoon7 02/06/24 4:28:40 PM #34: |
Dakimakura posted...
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:"I can clean the bottom of any size snack cup with my tongue." --- My maid will hear about this. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 02/06/24 4:28:40 PM #33: |
Dakimakura posted...
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:"If cats could talk, do you think their testimony would hold up in court?" --- He/Him http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hayame_Zero 02/06/24 4:52:43 PM #35: |
Dakimakura posted...
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:I didn't really have an opener for every message. If there's something pop culture related, I make a joke about that. --- ...I think I'm done here... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 02/06/24 5:14:00 PM #36: |
Dakimakura posted...
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:Well I'm not single anymore, but I tried to relate my first message to something in their profile or photos. If their profile was very bare bones and gave me nothing to work with, I'd go with some variation of "Hi [her name], I'm [my name]. What do you like to do in your free time? I like to [lists some of my hobbies]." I really tried not to do that too much though. It felt really impersonal. The women that stuck around the longest, were the ones that had something in their profile that I could talk about in my first message. My opening message to my now girlfriend was pointing out that on our profiles, we had both taken a picture at the same aquarium, doing the same thing. I asked her when did she go and what was her favorite thing there. The conversation just took off from there. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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