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Crow0000
11/11/23 3:49:28 PM
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As someone who is mixed in terms of pure looks ,there are no precautions for being discriminated against. If a cop decides to attack me or if the system decides to treat me worse in the eyes of the law, I have no say.
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asdf8562
11/11/23 3:51:11 PM
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This alone is not even true nevermind the rest of your post perpetuating exactly what I'm talking about. It's not "Every. Single. Women" as not every single woman actually had to deal with the same problems.

As for the rest of your post, men and woman go through different very real struggles that they both should be cautious about for specific reasons that pertain to the specific struggles each specific gender may or may not face.

I also never called being cautious sexist. I said regardless of gender, being cautious shouldn't be prized for one, but blown off or seen as irrelevant or even shunned for the other. Something that certain types of people most certainly do.
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metralo
11/11/23 3:57:41 PM
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Shishiwakamaru posted...
Why did this turn into a topic with multiple paragraph-long debates

Weird men get really really upset that women have to be more cautious

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asdf8562
11/11/23 4:05:46 PM
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This line of questionnaire is just bad as the same applies to you?

"You know every women on the planet, and including all the woman in my life whether that be family or friends? You are able to just declare each female in anyone's life has had unwanted advances? Had people try to push the point when told no? And also doesn't know anyone else who has? I also don't believe you."

I also love how it perpetuates that literally every single woman on the globe MUST be around a man that's a sexual predator who specifically made some kind of unwanted advance on the woman.

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Your attitude is still blowing it off. As two problems can be awful for two different reasons. Using your example of a man paying money. Things such as paying for a child that isn't yours and the legal system fucking a man over financially can definitely devastate a man's life for totally different reasons.

You seem to have this false notion that a woman blowing off a date, or eating some expensive dinner is the most devastating thing a woman can do to a man.

Or let's use your accusations of rape, and the life devastation even a false accusation can do to a person. As this country has a lovely history of white woman screaming rape on innocent non white men. With that lovely history costing some years in prison they can't get back, or worse their life. False accusations of rape haven't disappeared either, and the accusation alone is a devastating blow regardless if it's true or not.

Two traumatizing events can be horrible for two totally different reasons.
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asdf8562
11/11/23 4:26:07 PM
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Taking it literal? You literally said and I quote, "Every. Single. Woman."

When pressed on this you doubled down that it's every single woman. Sp spare me on the weak argument thing you're going for given it was the argument you doubled down on.

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Ofc you don't want to talk about that. Like I said, any struggles a man faces that statistically men faces more than a woman, "we don't want to talk about that." Struggles that can indeed hit a man's life for years, and can indeed hit them mentally and even physically, with yes even years they can't get back.

As for frequency, this disingenuous ask is no doubt highly contingent on what sources you deem as acceptable and still ignores there is not just ONE issue at play here that you ofc dismiss. You didn't even give a backed frequency, and once again, it's false to paint this as only a one issue thing when it's not.

The idea that men and woman can both face horrible problems for 2 totally different and specific reasons and that both should be cautious for totally different specific reasons is very taboo to you.
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asdf8562
11/11/23 4:30:48 PM
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If that's what you need to tell yourself, more power to you.

But thank you with the case in point with the goto "red pill" buzzword.
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asdf8562
11/11/23 4:38:04 PM
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Again, something you can't claim.

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This claim is about as credible as your "every. Single. Woman" claim you originally doubled down on. Especially given how in this topic alone you seem to think devastating struggles a man can face is limited to only spending a lot of money on a date.....

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Try to cut "have a nice day" theatrics, when we both know you're coming back one way or another.

As for you claiming Im arguing you said men shouldnt be cautious too, that isn't what I was arguing, but you knew that. Your argument blows off men having hard struggles for totally different reasons that yes can be horrible too. Horrible things that go beyond your examples which seems to be things like dick shaming or wasting money on some expensive date like you seem to think.
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Blackestmage
11/11/23 4:40:57 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Yeah this. There's implications that they have to consider, so they're more wary. Once they see that you don't have ulterior motives, they'll relax a bit more.

So that's when you make your move? C'mon, don't leave it hanging like that.

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UnfairRepresent
11/11/23 4:42:31 PM
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Women do this when offered things by other women too

They're just being polite

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asdf8562
11/11/23 4:56:22 PM
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No, I made the argument that both men and woman have reasons to be cautious for totally different and specific reasons that can ruin and devastate both genders lives. That it shouldn't be acceptable to embrace one gender has having good reasons to be cautious when non gender specific reasons are given, but blow off/dismiss/shun the same thing being applied to a man as "red pill" like some like to do.

That's actually what I argued. I also more importantly said TCs alleged scenario is not some gender specific behavior. Both men and woman do what the TC is allegedly claims these supposed woman do to him.

My analogy is just fine as struggles are not limited to just some expensive date, and I also did not limit struggles fo some expensive date like you are claiming. You did that.
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asdf8562
11/11/23 5:03:12 PM
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I did not use that as some prized lone example. That idea was literally from another user. You just ran with that.

Despite me repeatedly saying struggles aren't limited to something small like some expensive date. Even now you are still trying to make my argument to be all about some expensive date.
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NoxObscuras
11/11/23 5:13:40 PM
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asdf8562 posted...
No, I made the argument that both men and woman have reasons to be cautious for totally different and specific reasons that can ruin and devastate both genders lives. That it shouldn't be acceptable to embrace one gender has having good reasons to be cautious when non gender specific reasons are given, but blow off/dismiss/shun the same thing being applied to a man as "red pill" like some like to do.

That's actually what I argued. I also more importantly said TCs alleged scenario is not some gender specific behavior. Both men and woman do what the TC is allegedly claims these supposed woman do to him.

My analogy is just fine as struggles are not limited to just some expensive date, and I also did not limit struggles fo some expensive date like you are claiming. You did that.
Honestly at this point I feel that you're arguing just for the sake of arguing

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KookyCouture
11/11/23 5:13:44 PM
#76:


don't feed the trolls

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pauIie
11/11/23 5:26:58 PM
#77:


being denied by women and then going to ce to complain about it

come on bruh

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Flauros
11/11/23 5:31:15 PM
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Its all about presentation.

This is how you offer some pizza

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Villain_S_Fiend
11/11/23 6:16:10 PM
#79:


Flauros posted...
Its all about presentation.

This is how you offer some pizza

https://i.imgur.com/PgonbkJ.gif
Yo, ding dong, man! Ding dong!

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Trumble
11/11/23 6:18:15 PM
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Maybe they just don't fucking feel like pizza?

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deathproof12
11/11/23 6:21:17 PM
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They don't want to feel like they owe you something. A lot of these entitled nice guys are nice in the hopes women will fuck them and get bitter when they don't reciprocate their affections. Women have their guard up to protect themselves from nice guys.
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Flauros
11/11/23 6:39:17 PM
#82:


Villain_S_Fiend posted...
Yo, ding dong, man! Ding dong!
Ding Dong, yo!

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CloudThunder
11/11/23 7:00:26 PM
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a lot of women today think kindness means you're trying to "do it" with them,even the unattractive ones........
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Ivany2008
11/11/23 7:29:52 PM
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deathproof12 posted...
They don't want to feel like they owe you something. A lot of these entitled nice guys are nice in the hopes women will fuck them and get bitter when they don't reciprocate their affections. Women have their guard up to protect themselves from nice guys.

sadly, I was actually told this on a date I was on. I literally looked at the woman and said "It's coffee....". I'm not trying to screw you over coffee. Hell, I wouldn't do this on a first date regardless. It's extremely sad that we've gotten to the point in our society where we as men can't pay for coffee without the woman walking out on us.

Then on the other side of the spectrum you have women who want you to pay for a 120 dollar meal on the first date. Like.... no. My money is more valuable to me than that. I can spend 1/4 of that, cook us up a nice picnic, as I enjoy cooking. But I'm not wasting money on something that isn't going to work.
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ZannoL
11/11/23 7:49:53 PM
#85:


Ivany2008 posted...
Then on the other side of the spectrum you have women who want you to pay for a 120 dollar meal on the first date. Like.... no.
Good on you for knowing your worth.

No one (man or woman) should be paying that much on the first date.
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SomeGuyUO
11/13/23 1:53:12 AM
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The funny thing though is that the male coworkers who do accept your offer almost never return the gesture lol. The female coworkers that do take your offer appreciate it and remember for next time that they have food or whatever and return the gesture.
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Dark_Arbron
11/13/23 2:40:58 AM
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metralo posted...
Weird men get really really upset that women have to be more cautious

I mean, if what Gladius_ said is true then one of them is a self-admitted incel with a history of banned accounts, and judging by the direction this topic has taken, the other one probably is too.

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BloodMoon7
11/13/23 2:55:58 AM
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Good day m'lady. May I interest you in a greasy slice of homemade pizza with extra sausage and a side of m'penis?

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Sufferedphoenix
11/13/23 3:39:57 AM
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I've never had this problem. I don't make a habit of it though

But at work they where doing a charity thing where they cooked pancakes and what not for us and it was 5 bucks a plate. Had a girl who it was literally her first day so she didn't know about it and didn't bring money. I offered to buy her a plate and she accepted.

Long time co worker later called me up and she started bitching me out that I've worked with her longer and had never offered to buy her anything so I bought her a plate too.

Fast forward a couple of weeks I wanted a honey bun from the vending machine but thr card reader was offline so that new girl gave me the money and refused me paying her back despite she paid me back for that plate I bought her.

But I will say co workers offering to pay for others stuff is somewhat common around here if said co worker knows the other ain't got the money on them. People always say the rank saying we are family is corny but it's kinda true in how we act.

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NOM
11/13/23 3:50:00 AM
#91:


Women are weird in general. I find for me it's best to avoid them altogether as much as I can because there's so many caveats and and general weirdness involved in interactions with them. They are very finicky creatures IMO.

I'm sure they don't mind my inclusion from the potential gene pool lol.

Eh, whatever. God bless them and the men who are able to navigate those those strange waters and have success with them.

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PBusted
11/13/23 4:30:37 AM
#92:


NOM posted...
Women are weird in general. I find for me it's best to avoid them altogether as much as I can because there's so many caveats and and general weirdness involved in interactions with them. They are very finicky creatures IMO.

I'm sure they don't mind my inclusion from the potential gene pool lol.

Eh, whatever. God bless them and the men who are able to navigate those those strange waters and have success with them.

Can the mods actually deal with these incels
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ItsNotA2Mer
11/13/23 4:30:52 AM
#93:


NOM posted...
Women are weird in general. I find for me it's best to avoid them altogether as much as I can because there's so many caveats and and general weirdness involved in interactions with them. They are very finicky creatures IMO.

I'm sure they don't mind my inclusion from the potential gene pool lol.

Eh, whatever. God bless them and the men who are able to navigate those those strange waters and have success with them.

WTF? Women aren't mythological fairytale creatures. Just treat them decent, and with respect. It's not some big mystery.

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DarthWendy
11/13/23 5:43:06 AM
#94:


OP is bait lol

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Crow0000
11/13/23 11:53:01 AM
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I would argue that both are completely different in terms of expectations, treatment, struggles, commonality, and more.
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BloodMoon7
11/13/23 6:21:18 PM
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ItsNotA2Mer posted...
WTF? Women aren't mythological fairytale creatures.
I mean have you ever seen a woman? I haven't. I participated in the Great Woman Hunt where thousands of men stormed the forests in search of women and all we found was Bigfoot.

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TripleDouble
11/13/23 6:22:44 PM
#97:


PBusted posted...
Can the mods actually deal with these incels
Can you actually shut the fuck up

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PBusted
11/14/23 4:40:14 AM
#99:


TripleDouble posted...
Can you actually shut the fuck up

We know you garbage accounts that the new mods/admins are piling up can't.
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Akagami_Shanks
11/14/23 4:48:45 AM
#100:


topic is false equivalency

it's not weird to decline stuff. i decline stuff all the time just because i don't really like being gifted or helped but i'd damn near offer both lungs to help someone.

As others have said, if you get declined ALL the time they probably think you're creepy

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