Current Events > How do you deal with two different women getting jealous over you?

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I know this probably isn't a problem that most people on CE have often, if ever, dealt with. Having said THAT, if two female friends, or two girls you're hooking up with get jealous of the other, what, if anything, is the solution? How is this resolved? Sweet talking the girls? Buying something nice for the girl who thinks she's somehow been wronged? Just leave the girls to resolve things themselves? Although, I get the impression this is an unresolvable problem, and thus fatal to any three way relationship of any kind, whether it be platonic, romantic or sexual in nature.

If its casual then leave both alone. If not pick one.

Get a third, maybe a fourth.

What if they're a bundle deal?

Only time I dealt with this was in my teen years. And that's back when I didn't respect people properly. I did shit like have them both knowingly on 2 different lines simultaneously and then thought it was funny when they got irritated. But, literally no repercussions for me came out of it. I was giggling out in the open at their frustrations and shit. I really didn't give a shit back then. It was fun, but it's no way to actually create bonds. Which is why all my relationships were extremely shallow. And tbh, I didn't want anything deep. I wasn't a full scumbag, I was just self aware I was young and took almost nothing serious.

But that's all forgivable in teen years. You're a kid. Doing shit like that as an adult is just corny and sad. You gotta grow up and build deeper connections with people and not have everything on the brink of sabotage. And if you can treat an adult woman like that and get away with it to their face, that's not a good look for anyone tbh.

Be open and honest if you wanna make real connections or if you wanna just play around and you won't have intrusive thoughts about being a piece of shit when you lay your head down at night. If you can be a piece of shit without those thoughts, that's even a deeper issue lol

Get the proper treatment to treat the schizophrenia

I once dated two women. There came a time to make a choice. Only one could come to the house Halloween party. I chose the kinder, sweeter girl, instead of the bossy girl who thought of herself as a princess. I made the right choice. The other one got pissed off and didn't want to see me anymore.

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This happened to me ONCE in my very early 20's.

There were two girls that I worked with. Unknown to me, one of them REALLY liked me. She left that job to go away to college, and me and a few co-workers went to visit her for her 21st Birthday. I got a little tipsy and we ended up hooking up (all above the waist stuff).

Fast forward to that summer, where I was kinda seeing the other girl. Original girl came back from college and starting working there again for the summer. We all went out one night for post-work drink that the original girl made a bit of a scene because I wanted nothing to do with her (not in a rude way, but in a "I though we moved past this" way).

From what I could tell, the animosity really didn't last much past that night, and I left that job after the summer was over to start a new one. Never saw the original girl again. Kept seeing the other one off and on for about another year.

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Was this aimed at me?

I have no reason to make up a story of something that happened nearly 25 years ago.

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Gotcha.

Just buy one of them a pack of Werthers or maybe a new cane.