Current Events > i very often see Large women dating super skinny/lanky dudes

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what's the deal with that

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i've heard others make the observation too. is it one group often fetishizing the other or a two-way street?

Those lanky guys have the biggest penises, according to my friends who date men.

gunplagirl posted...

Those lanky guys have the biggest penises, according to my friends who date men.

i've definitely heard that too. wonder if it's an actual correlation, or if their lankiness means they haven't lost any length to any amount of "fat pad" in that area whereas normal/overweight men have, or both

These guys are called chubby chasers.
There was a guy on my 600 lb life who said if his girlfriend lost any weight he'd leave her. So she stayed big.

Also i am lanky and average. 5 inches -_-

SauI_Goodman posted...

These guys are called chubby chasers.

ok but why would they be notably skinny

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pretty sure being a really skinny white dude over 5'10" is as easy-mode as it gets, they're definitely not limited to overweight women

which makes it all the more perplexing really

I had a crush on my one obese coworker years ago. When my brother learned it, he said we'd be a 10 as a couple. I'd be the 1 and she'd be the 0(talking body shapes not ratings or whatever).

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there are standup bits by both louis ck and russell peters explaining this better than i can

SauI_Goodman posted...

Also i am lanky and average. 5 inches -_-

You're only 5 inches tall? I have hentai anime figures taller than you and they're 1/6th or even 1/8th scale figures.

KhlavicLanguage posted...

pretty sure being a really skinny white dude over 5'10" is as easy-mode as it gets, they're definitely not limited to overweight women

which makes it all the more perplexing really

Since when to girls tend to like skinny dudes? Fit yeah but scrawny? Nope.

KhlavicLanguage posted...

i very often see Large women dating super skinny/lanky dudes

what's the deal with that

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i've heard others make the observation too. is it one group often fetishizing the other or a two-way street?

both

• some fat women will try for gorgeous gym dudes, strike out and shoot for "lean" guys instead cause they feel its better than nothin at all
• some fat women prefer skinny guys
• some women see a tall man as highly attractive to the point they overlook him being a skinny beanpole (mans height is a big deal to most straight women)
• some skinny guys prefer fat women (in the US its the guys more likely to approach, as still socially expected)

skinny lanky dudes hookin up with fat women is a thing because its two demographics considering each other an option

"group x" (unilaterally) "has trait y"

yeah, that seems like a rational and intelligent thought.

"according to (group with whom i have a personal connection)"

nope! not a fallacy at all! nope nope nope!

Jack Sprat and all that and whoever knew Jack was aware of that too!

I would struggle to be with someone that doesnt care about their health or have any discipline. To each their own just not my cup of tea.

Honesty it's probably a case of both can't do any better and are desperate. I have no issue with bigger women but when it looks like they are about to die soon then geez....

I often see large women with black dudes

These fat girls think fat guys are gross and don't want to date them. Fit guys think fat girls are gross and don't want to date them. Lanky guys are not ideal but they aren't fat. These fat girls go for them since the fit guys typically won't date them.

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are marketing departments ignorant
or quite the opposite

Drumiester posted...

I often see large women with black dudes

I hate to fill a sterotype, but... guilty lol. I'm black and I date a lot of bbw women. It's not a "settling" thing, large women, just have bigger, better asses.

But I usually don't go too far beyond 300 pounds. Because after that, you start running into problems, like "oh I can't fit in the seats at movie theaters" >_>

There are plenty of fat/fat and skinny/skinny couples. You just likely notice fat/skinny couples more since it is quite the size difference between the two people so they stick out.

TentacleDemon posted...

These fat girls think fat guys are gross and don't want to date them. Fit guys think fat girls are gross and don't want to date them. Lanky guys are not ideal but they aren't fat. These fat girls go for them since the fit guys typically won't date them.

I don't really see a definitive difference between skinny and fit at least visually. If you run 5 days a week and don't bother with other exercises for the most part, you're probably pretty fit and look rather skinny.

they like nice/fun people and dont care so much about body type

Skinny dude glory days died with the popularity of hipsterdom. There are women who like skinny guys, that's a thing, but it's hardly easy mode.

Evening_Dragon posted...

Skinny dude glory days died with the popularity of hipsterdom

have you not seen pete davidson and machine gun kelly taking over
it's back, baby

KhlavicLanguage posted...

have you not seen pete davidson and machine gun kelly taking over
it's back, baby

who

Evening_Dragon posted...

who

LMAO

Once you get fat enough, it becomes really hard for fat men and women to have sex unless the guy is hung like a horse. Like a pair of 500 pounders are probably never going going to have PIV penetration. Fat woman needs a scrawny little dude thats like 80% dick, so that's who they go after.

I'm a skinny guy and I gladly date larger women. I've had partners with all sorts of body types, and I definitely prefer the thick side of the spectrum. (Although I do have limits when you're talking really big. Tried it, since I'll try almost anything once, and wasn't into it.) The thing about bigger women is they tend to have bigger asses. And sex with a woman with a huge ass is incredible. I'm also larger than average below the belt, which probably does factor into it somewhat.