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Blo
09/29/22 7:09:19 PM
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If you could answer in the next half hour or so that'd help me out a lot

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DespondentDeity
09/29/22 7:10:17 PM
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either way

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Virgalyssa
09/29/22 7:12:18 PM
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This topic makes me think tbh. You're not required to do anything. Casual sex is so normalized and common that people think a relationship absolutely needs it as a foundation. Some do, of course, but there's also a sizable number of asexual/low sex drive relationships that shouldn't be seen as abnormal or weird.

TlDR People shouldn't be shamed for not being horny.

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SauI_Goodman
09/29/22 7:12:19 PM
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Youre supposed to ask them to be your girlfriend? I thought it just happened naturally after dating for a while.

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silverpine
09/29/22 7:12:33 PM
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i say before. everything could change after the sex.
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NoxObscuras
09/29/22 7:13:30 PM
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There's no right or wrong answer there. It just depends on how your relationship is progressing. I'd at least have the exclusivity talk after you start having sex. But you don't have to force anything.

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Glob
09/29/22 7:58:41 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
Youre supposed to ask them to be your girlfriend? I thought it just happened naturally after dating for a while.

Yeah, Ive never asked somebody if they would be my girlfriend, it just became obvious that they were because we spent loads of time together, had sex and talked about the future.
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NightRender
09/29/22 7:59:54 PM
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Glob posted...
Yeah, Ive never asked somebody if they would be my girlfriend, it just became obvious that they were because we spent loads of time together, had sex and talked about the future.

smh you have to give them your class ring and ask them to go steady.

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furb
09/29/22 8:00:05 PM
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supposed to

There's no right or wrong way to end up in a relationship really. You just want to be sure whatever type you do get into is healthy and supportive for all parties involved.

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Dakimakura
09/29/22 8:00:36 PM
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Don't have sex until the woman is in love with you so she doesn't know you only last a few seconds. At the point she loves you she will put up with anything.

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Hoodroar
09/29/22 8:01:25 PM
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The youngins these days often have sex first, entering relationships first can feel too pressuring.

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Glob
09/29/22 8:03:06 PM
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You could, but Ive never felt the need.
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Evening_Dragon
09/29/22 8:03:32 PM
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Glob posted...
Yeah, Ive never asked somebody if they would be my girlfriend, it just became obvious that they were because we spent loads of time together, had sex and talked about the future.

500 Days of Summer was the scariest movie for my young self.

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Glob
09/29/22 8:04:20 PM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
500 Days of Summer was the scariest movie for my young self.

Never seen it and dont know what its about. Sorry.
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Strider102
09/29/22 8:04:35 PM
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Just ask for casual sex

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Evening_Dragon
09/29/22 8:06:11 PM
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Glob posted...
Never seen it and dont know what its about. Sorry.

Basically what you have going on, except the girl never thought it worked that way. Not that your thing is like the movie, just that I also thought things were like that, until they weren't, and now I make sure things are open and clear.

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Glob
09/29/22 8:09:30 PM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
Basically what you have going on, except the girl never thought it worked that way. Not that your thing is like the movie, just that I also thought things were like that, until they weren't, and now I make sure things are open and clear.

I think of the three things I listed, the talking about the future thing is key. It lets you know whether youre having a casual fling or something more long term.
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PoundGarden
09/29/22 8:12:26 PM
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During

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KainWind
09/29/22 8:48:37 PM
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Dakimakura posted...
Don't have sex until the woman is in love with you so she doesn't know you only last a few seconds. At the point she loves you she will put up with anything.

This is what I'm waiting for

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SauI_Goodman
09/29/22 11:29:29 PM
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Or you can just eat her out for an hour beforehand. Or after.

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Returning_CEmen
09/29/22 11:36:12 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
Youre supposed to ask them to be your girlfriend? I thought it just happened naturally after dating for a while.
One would think, but the reality is that if they dont make that agreement sometimes the other person thinks its okay to see other people.

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VampireCoyote
09/29/22 11:37:11 PM
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whenever the mood strikes both peoples

that is the time for love

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Mia_K97
09/29/22 11:38:53 PM
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I couldn't possibly date a girl before having sex with her lol.
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JTilly
09/29/22 11:42:43 PM
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Dont ask her to be your gf. Thats what teenages do and its cringe. Just do whats natural.

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MICHALECOLE
09/29/22 11:43:56 PM
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I havent begun exclusively dating a girl I hadnt already banged since high school
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dameon_reaper
09/29/22 11:47:31 PM
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Glob posted...
Never seen it and dont know what its about. Sorry.

Good movie and a movie to really think about once its over.
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