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ReDaZnDraGoN97
08/08/22 4:43:46 PM
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MIL thinks no one can truly be happy unless they are married and have kids

Some people agree with her believe it or not. What exactly is going on in your lives outside of working if you arent married and dont have a family? Its a lonely life

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Irony
08/08/22 4:44:28 PM
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Work and play video games

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SamsungGearS2
08/08/22 4:45:14 PM
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Nothing, really.

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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
08/08/22 4:46:40 PM
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Absolutely whatever I want to do. I work 40-50 hours a week usually. When I get home I do whatever I want. Some days it's nothing, other days I do stuff.

I don't get lonely. I socialize at work and I hang out with friends and stuff too.

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HovaRex
08/08/22 4:47:45 PM
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Get to see the places she watches movies about.

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ReDaZnDraGoN97
08/08/22 4:49:00 PM
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HovaRex posted...
Get to see the places she watches movies about.

lol to be fair, she travels too though

In fact, she believes its better to travel with kids

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HovaRex
08/08/22 4:49:45 PM
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ReDaZnDraGoN97 posted...
lol to be fair, she travels too though

In fact, she believes its better to travel with kids

There's no way she actually believes that part lol.

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Evillink2000
08/08/22 4:51:04 PM
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Whatever we want.
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Questionmarktarius
08/08/22 4:52:40 PM
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shitpost on gamefaqs
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Lost_All_Senses
08/08/22 4:53:47 PM
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HovaRex posted...
There's no way she actually believes that part lol.

As much as I love kids, you definitely would be wishing you didn't have to bring them. Best case scenario would be trips where you brought them every other time. Because it's awesome to show your kids experiences, but you also sacrifice how much you get to take in on trips. You can never just stand there and look off in the distance, absord the beauty knowing no one is gonna disturb you. Also, not having intrusive thoughts about if you forgot to do something for your kids.

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PrettyBoyFloyd
08/08/22 4:54:54 PM
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Working or being drunk.

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KINDERFELD
08/08/22 4:56:22 PM
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I'm constantly fucking hot youngins with daddy issues.
Great life.

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random_man9119
08/08/22 4:58:37 PM
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Work, play video games, and play D&D...

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Garioshi
08/08/22 5:05:34 PM
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Going through grad school, spending time with friends, and playing video games, and I'm a very happy camper.

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TaylorHeinicke
08/08/22 5:05:55 PM
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literally whatever i want

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NoxObscuras
08/08/22 5:11:28 PM
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I'm not married, but I have a 7 year old. I love my son, but having a kid makes your free time much more limited than without.

I have friends that are traveling to different countries multiple times per year. Just get up and go. Luckily, I never got the "travel bug" so I'm not too bothered lol. It's just different lifestyles.

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furb
08/08/22 5:12:49 PM
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I'm 38 and I have a good job. No children and no significant other.

I do whatever I want most of the time. Outside of my work obligations, I have an open calendar. I want to go somewhere this week for a night or two? I go. I want to eat take out, I order it. I want to stay up late, I do it. Sleep late, I do it. I do chores when I feel like it. The only standards are mine.

That whole man in under pants follows duck is pretty accurate.

I like it. I've been in a handful of serious relationships. I've turned more than that down. I sometimes get lonely, but I end up preferring my independence more. I used to feel like I would trade my ordered life into a compromise to be with someone else. However, around 4 years ago I was seriously dating somebody I really cared about. I was about ready to have her move in and we had discussed marriage and kids more than once. I just felt a tug inside I wasn't ready and I ended things then. I really have leaned into solo life since because I don't want to hurt somebody like I did then again. I'm not sure I'll ever be ready to trade in solo life.

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FigureOfSpeech
08/08/22 5:15:57 PM
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I enthusiastically celebrate the fact that I don't have to deal with, provide for, be around or structure my life around children. As for being unmarried, I'm indifferent to that, but I do really enjoy my privacy and not having to share living space.

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nfearurspecimn
08/08/22 5:17:56 PM
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videogame immersion

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Spurner
08/08/22 5:21:12 PM
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I do what I want when I want.
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HovaRex
08/08/22 5:22:42 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
As much as I love kids, you definitely would be wishing you didn't have to bring them. Best case scenario would be trips where you brought them every other time. Because it's awesome to show your kids experiences, but you also sacrifice how much you get to take in on trips. You can never just stand there and look off in the distance, absord the beauty knowing no one is gonna disturb you. Also, not having intrusive thoughts about if you forgot to do something for your kids.

100% to all of that, and then add on top your kid just bitching at you that they want to go back to the room to use their iPad. It would ruin it. There are alot of family destinations though where I could see it might add to the experience.

Same time I've lived in FL for the past 19 years and Disney does nothing for me anymore.

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WingsOfGood
08/08/22 5:25:06 PM
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ReDaZnDraGoN97 posted...
MIL thinks no one can truly be happy unless they are married and have kids

Majority of married people with kids aren't happy and will divorce.

What makes people happy is not one specific path. Everyone has to seek their own.

What she actually means is, what makes you a normal standard person who doesn't break the mold is that. She likely doesn't know any better.
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WilliamPorygon
08/08/22 5:25:10 PM
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I would sleep 24 hours a day but my body and family won't let me, so shitpost on CE, watch pointless crap on Youtube and play godawful mobile games that I fucking hate but at least are free

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garan
08/08/22 5:27:30 PM
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Mostly, I shit post on the internet
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NeonOctopus
08/08/22 5:28:03 PM
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Fuck every single night and enjoy double income

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IfGodCouldDie
08/08/22 5:30:11 PM
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HovaRex posted...
There's no way she actually believes that part lol.
Honestly, I feel the same way. I've traveled quite a bit before kids and I still travel with them. I enjoy the trips we take with our kids way more than the trips I took with GF's, friends or solo.

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NeonOctopus
08/08/22 5:31:34 PM
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ReDaZnDraGoN97 posted...


In fact, she believes its better to travel with kids
What the actual fuck is this nonsense?

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gunplagirl
08/08/22 5:32:37 PM
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Get. Revenge.

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WingsOfGood
08/08/22 5:33:21 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
Get. Revenge.

do tell
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Smackems
08/08/22 5:34:07 PM
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Take care of old people and animals and get suspended on game eff ay ques

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Gobstoppers12
08/08/22 5:34:37 PM
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Whatever I want to, with all the money I'm not spending on children.

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Unknown5uspect
08/08/22 5:35:37 PM
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Having kids is soul crushing. Don't do it.

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Wetterdew
08/08/22 5:37:11 PM
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when your friends want you to have kids
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HovaRex
08/08/22 5:39:40 PM
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IfGodCouldDie posted...
Honestly, I feel the same way. I've traveled quite a bit before kids and I still travel with them. I enjoy the trips we take with our kids way more than the trips I took with GF's, friends or solo.

I'm glad you had that experience. I just can't believe it would be true for me.

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NoxObscuras
08/08/22 5:42:35 PM
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Unknown5uspect posted...
Having kids is soul crushing. Don't do it.
Lmao having kids isn't for everyone, but calling it soul crushing is so melodramatic.

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gunplagirl
08/08/22 5:42:48 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
do tell
Insofar as the societies of the world have been concerned, trampling over others for perceived gain is acceptable and regrettably we should find that stripping others of life and liberty to be acceptable all too often even when the only perceived gain is punishing those who dare to walk a different path through life from the norm. As such it is important for such persons who stray to find a strong sense of personal and self identity through which they might stand tall as they navigate a society that would gladly attempt to do them harm simply for existing. I should find myself to be one such described people and as such must find my own way through life and to try and embrace and accept those parts of myself which others would attempt to deny me access to. Therefore it would not be inaccurate to describe the simple act of existing a form of defiance and revenge, but this should not entirely be the case as one must also take in to account the fact that my happiness is one which must be wrought in to existence, almost entirely by my own two hands. Which is to say my revenge I'd existing openly in a society that seeks my death and to erase that I and any like me ever existed as well as to accept and embrace myself and lastly to be happy when it is not simply the world that seeks to prevent me such things but most other humans. To which I must say, I trust this answers your query and I shall close this line of questioning at once.

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HovaRex
08/08/22 5:56:28 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
Insofar as the societies of the world have been concerned, trampling over others for perceived gain is acceptable and regrettably we should find that stripping others of life and liberty to be acceptable all too often even when the only perceived gain is punishing those who dare to walk a different path through life from the norm. As such it is important for such persons who stray to find a strong sense of personal and self identity through which they might stand tall as they navigate a society that would gladly attempt to do them harm simply for existing. I should find myself to be one such described people and as such must find my own way through life and to try and embrace and accept those parts of myself which others would attempt to deny me access to. Therefore it would not be inaccurate to describe the simple act of existing a form of defiance and revenge, but this should not entirely be the case as one must also take in to account the fact that my happiness is one which must be wrought in to existence, almost entirely by my own two hands. Which is to say my revenge I'd existing openly in a society that seeks my death and to erase that I and any like me ever existed as well as to accept and embrace myself and lastly to be happy when it is not simply the world that seeks to prevent me such things but most other humans. To which I must say, I trust this answers your query and I shall close this line of questioning at once.

Thatsa big yikes

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Gobstoppers12
08/08/22 5:56:33 PM
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Kids are work, but they're also lifelong family, and they can be your best friends.

I like my free time, money, and privacy too much. I can see the appeal, but it's not for me.

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WingsOfGood
08/08/22 5:57:43 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
but they're also lifelong family, and they can be your best friends.

true
or sometimes kids hate their parents or are greedy jerks
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RedLuigi
08/08/22 6:00:39 PM
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Get married and have kids


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gunplagirl
08/08/22 6:31:02 PM
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HovaRex posted...
Thatsa big yikes
Beep boop shut up

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nfearurspecimn
08/08/22 6:41:10 PM
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HovaRex posted...
Thatsa big yikes
it's a yikes that her "revenge" against the world is to simply exist?

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Gobstoppers12
08/08/22 6:47:23 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
it's a yikes that her "revenge" against the world is to simply exist?
it's a yikes that she typed all that lol

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Killmonger
08/08/22 6:49:56 PM
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Work, work, and work.

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UltraDeku
08/08/22 7:15:01 PM
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I enjoy myself and indulge in my hobbies. I dont want the responsibility that comes with raising a child and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship. For now I'm gonna enjoy my me time.

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LordOfTheCats
08/08/22 7:16:34 PM
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Cope with depression by myself.
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Ving_Rhames
08/08/22 7:18:35 PM
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Everything that I actually enjoy

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thronedfire2
08/08/22 7:19:22 PM
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work, weed, video games, stare into the void

I got a kitten a few weeks ago

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