Current Events > Does anyone else feel like they're going to die as a forever virgin?

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Unknown580 posted...

Thank God I lost mines in my early age, feel sorry for those that still are.

No need to feel sorry for me; I'm proud of it.

-Unowninator- posted...

No need to feel sorry for me; I'm proud of it.

And another weird take by you

I am not saying you should feel ashamed, but to feel proud of it? Weird

Cocytus posted...

If you want that companionship sex/relationship, YOU CAN GET IT.

Uh-huh. Sure.

33, never had a girlfriend, etc. Probably gonna die alone and unloved.

I wouldn't say sex is over-hyped. Sex is one of the best things in life! It's totally possible to have bad sex, of course, but with really good sex, it's like everything in the universe just clicks into place and it's awesome.

Nobody in this thread should lose hope if it's something you really want to experience. There's somebody out there for everyone. You might have to get out of your comfort zone a little to meet new people, but it's totally worth it.

Prestoff posted...

I'll be honest, I get a better experience taking shrooms than I ever did having sex.

Well, mushrooms are a whole other thing. I can see why you'd rate them higher. I don't think I personally would. But I've also had psychedelic breakthroughs during sex where it gets so intense, and I'm so in the moment, that I'll start tripping even though I'm sober. Probably because I've done so many psychedelics at this point that I've rewired my brain a little, though.

I know and accept it.

Pretty much, yeah.

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It's not legal but it's very easily accessible to anyone online, and many indulge in it regularly. To say they dont because of that is like saying nobody buys weed in states its illegal still. Also if a few hundred bucks is to expensive for someone.....they have much bigger things to be worrying about then sex. Like working up towards a decent career, and job. They have no GF or kids, so what's the excuse?

As for the experiance they generally charge by the hour. And offer a multitude of services aside from sex, like a typical date for example.

The rest of your post varies person to person. To many. Sex is just sex, and they care nothing for except the physical aspect.

Prismsblade posted...

To many. Sex is just sex, and they care nothing for except the physical aspect.

I wonder how many? Personally, I can't imagine feeling this way.

I'm not going to lie and say anyone can get laid but you can significantly increase your chances of it by doing a specific set of things.

darkmaian23 posted...

I wonder how many? Personally, I can't imagine feeling this way.

One night stands are pretty common.

That and how many guys do you believe would deny sex to a 10/10 woman on the spot who offered it? Preferring rather to get to know her first?

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It was just a hypothetical scenario I made up, not meant to reflect real life, at all. Which should have been obvious.

So either you're desperate for some sort of gotcha moment, trolling, or both.

I understand you and empathize with you TC. As long as you don't have physical defects like me though you can overcome

I'd rather die a virgin then date someone I'm not attracted to. Not many choices after 30 after all.

Not with that attitude

tripleh213 posted...

Not with that attitude

This is true people told me"JuST bE confIDENt BRuh!!!!!!!!!" and overnight my height went from 5'5 to 6'0, my skin lightened up, and I had long flowing blonde hair with beautiful baby blue eyes....... its all about your mindset TC

assassingriskel posted...

This is true people told me"JuST bE confIDENt BRuh!!!!!!!!!" and overnight my height went from 5'5 to 6'0, my skin lightened up, and I had long flowing blonde hair with beautiful baby blue eyes....... its all about your mindset TC

Most people in relationships don't have those things. Though "just be confident" doesn't make sense, that's something you have to build upon.

@tc Lots of people out there want nothing more than to lounge around watching movies and playing games all day, and they would prefer to do it while cuddling.

Most people were raised wrong since the 1980s. You can see the results of it everywhere. It's not worth marrying someone who was probably raised wrong.

Im not a true virgin (lost it when i was 14) but ive been on a dry streak long enough that ive become a pseudo virgin.

Silver lining for me is that I started taking finasteride since last year and it has noticeably lowered my libido. So i dont really feel frustrated about being a reborn virgin atm. I have to watch porn or look at pics for like 30 mins to an hour before i get horny. I do plan to find new partner someday but i have to change my current lifestyle before i do that.

assassingriskel posted...

This is true people told me"JuST bE confIDENt BRuh!!!!!!!!!" and overnight my height went from 5'5 to 6'0, my skin lightened up, and I had long flowing blonde hair with beautiful baby blue eyes....... its all about your mindset TC

Dude, you are a little short. That's it. Plenty of short guys do well. The problem is your shit, sexist attitude. But the even bigger problem is that I know you can do better.

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Yes

Superficially, women tend to focus on security and experience while males tend to focus on looks and youth. Saying it's impossible to get a girl because you're physically not a "chad" just does not match reality. I've seen ugly fat fucks get 10/10 women. I'm a 5'6 Asian and I'm married to my wife who is honestly out of my leagues in terms of looks. It might be because I'm used to being in an Asian community, but it's not uncommon to see a fat guy nerdy asian male get with a slim petite asian female.

Prismsblade posted...

As long as you have a few hundred bucks of disposal income, any guy can have sex whenever they want. At that point its just a matter of choice that's blocking you.

This is the way.

-Unowninator- posted...

The risk of getting an STD/someone pregnant makes me not want to even try it, and I'll never understand why anyone does it.

This is not the way.

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You also missed the fact his skin is "too dark" as well...

Slowking199 posted...

I'd rather die a virgin then date someone I'm not attracted to. Not many choices after 30 after all.

Really dating after 30 is so much better than in your 20s.