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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 5:58:21 PM
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I've known her for years, since university. We were pretty good friends and still are. Our group mostly had females in them but I also knew other groups at uni with guys.

She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She recently had problems (Not sure what it was but sounded pretty down). I wanted to ask if it was boyfriend problems or problems with family, but never did because I thought it would be poking too much into her business.

Then as we're talking on Instagram as usual she starts asking me to come out and watch movies. Fair enough, I love watching horror with her, but never actually made plans for it in the end. Then one day out of the blue as we're talking she's like, "Hey Spiritsephiroth, you want to go Amsterdam for a few days?". I was thinking, oh she wants to go out with a few of us. Told her I'll think about it when I'm free and we can make plans. And then she's like, "yeah, its been a while going out, just the two of us", "Im sick of this place and everyone", "it'll be nice seeing you" ect ect.

This threw me off guard? I mean if I was her boyfriend this would set off alarm bells? His girl is going out with some guy he's never met for a few days in literally another country. Not to mention, I have a girlfriend too and she would NOT be happy about me going out with just one girl. Of course, I didn't tell my girlfriend about this, but I also said to the girl "I'll think about it, we can do something" just to kinda blow it off and maybe just go to a movie or something.

Keep in mind, we've been purely close friends for years.

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RISEofCHRISTIAN
02/12/22 6:00:19 PM
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I feel you TC. This reminds me of a girl I've known for years, since university. We were pretty good friends and still are. Our group mostly had females in them but I also knew other groups at uni with guys.

She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She recently had problems (Not sure what it was but sounded pretty down). I wanted to ask if it was boyfriend problems or problems with family, but never did because I thought it would be poking too much into her business.

Then as we're talking on Instagram as usual she starts asking me to come out and watch movies. Fair enough, I love watching horror with her, but never actually made plans for it in the end. Then one day out of the blue as we're talking she's like, "Hey Christian, you want to go Amsterdam for a few days?". I was thinking, oh she wants to go out with a few of us. Told her I'll think about it when I'm free and we can make plans. And then she's like, "yeah, its been a while going out, just the two of us", "Im sick of this place and everyone", "it'll be nice seeing you" ect ect.

This threw me off guard? I mean if I was her boyfriend this would set off alarm bells? His girl is going out with some guy he's never met for a few days in literally another country. Not to mention, I have a girlfriend too and she would NOT be happy about me going out with just one girl. Of course, I didn't tell my girlfriend about this, but I also said to the girl "I'll think about it, we can do something" just to kinda blow it off and maybe just go to a movie or something.

Keep in mind, we've been purely close friends for years.

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 6:01:17 PM
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RISEofCHRISTIAN posted...
I feel you TC. This reminds me of a girl I've known for years, since university. We were pretty good friends and still are. Our group mostly had females in them but I also knew other groups at uni with guys.

She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She recently had problems (Not sure what it was but sounded pretty down). I wanted to ask if it was boyfriend problems or problems with family, but never did because I thought it would be poking too much into her business.

Then as we're talking on Instagram as usual she starts asking me to come out and watch movies. Fair enough, I love watching horror with her, but never actually made plans for it in the end. Then one day out of the blue as we're talking she's like, "Hey Spiritsephiroth, you want to go Amsterdam for a few days?". I was thinking, oh she wants to go out with a few of us. Told her I'll think about it when I'm free and we can make plans. And then she's like, "yeah, its been a while going out, just the two of us", "Im sick of this place and everyone", "it'll be nice seeing you" ect ect.

This threw me off guard? I mean if I was her boyfriend this would set off alarm bells? His girl is going out with some guy he's never met for a few days in literally another country. Not to mention, I have a girlfriend too and she would NOT be happy about me going out with just one girl. Of course, I didn't tell my girlfriend about this, but I also said to the girl "I'll think about it, we can do something" just to kinda blow it off and maybe just go to a movie or something.

Keep in mind, we've been purely close friends for years.

Funny, but seriously for a second. I always tend to think I'm pretty bad at reading girls. And I'd hate to assume something that wasn't there.

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Letron_James
02/12/22 6:02:49 PM
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I understand TC. This reminds me of a girl I've known for years, since university. We were pretty good friends and still are. Our group mostly had females in them but I also knew other groups at uni with guys.

She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She recently had problems (Not sure what it was but sounded pretty down). I wanted to ask if it was boyfriend problems or problems with family, but never did because I thought it would be poking too much into her business.

Then as we're talking on Instagram as usual she starts asking me to come out and watch movies. Fair enough, I love watching horror with her, but never actually made plans for it in the end. Then one day out of the blue as we're talking she's like, "Hey Christian, you want to go Amsterdam for a few days?". I was thinking, oh she wants to go out with a few of us. Told her I'll think about it when I'm free and we can make plans. And then she's like, "yeah, its been a while going out, just the two of us", "Im sick of this place and everyone", "it'll be nice seeing you" ect ect.

This threw me off guard? I mean if I was her boyfriend this would set off alarm bells? His girl is going out with some guy he's never met for a few days in literally another country. Not to mention, I have a girlfriend too and she would NOT be happy about me going out with just one girl. Of course, I didn't tell my girlfriend about this, but I also said to the girl "I'll think about it, we can do something" just to kinda blow it off and maybe just go to a movie or something.

Keep in mind, we've been purely close friends for years.


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DrizztLink
02/12/22 6:04:27 PM
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Oh fuck no, I remember what happened last time we gave you girl advice.

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Damn_Underscore
02/12/22 6:05:20 PM
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DrizztLink posted...
Oh fuck no, I remember what happened last time we gave you girl advice.

Is TC the guy who got his sister pregnant?

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SydneySweenHero
02/12/22 6:05:42 PM
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*didn't read*

She wants to bang you

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 6:05:58 PM
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DrizztLink posted...
Oh fuck no, I remember what happened last time we gave you girl advice.

Hmm?

Damn_Underscore posted...
Is TC the guy who got his sister pregnant?

What the fuck? NO

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 6:07:51 PM
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DrizztLink posted...
Oh fuck no, I remember what happened last time we gave you girl advice.

Are you talking about the church girls or the college girl? (From a lifetime ago >_>)

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DrizztLink
02/12/22 6:09:57 PM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
the college girl? (From a lifetime ago >_>)


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knightmarexx
02/12/22 6:12:54 PM
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You know TC.... this reminds me.... of a guy I've known for years, since university. We were pretty good friends and still are. Our group mostly had males in them but I also knew other groups at uni with girls.

He has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. He recently had problems (Not sure what it was but sounded pretty down). I wanted to ask if it was boyfriend problems or problems with family, but never did because I thought it would be poking too much into his business.

Then as we're talking on VR Chat as usual he starts asking me to come out and watch movies. Fair enough, I love watching re-runs of Die Hard with him, but never actually made plans for it in the end. Then one day out of the blue as we're talking he's like, "Hey Kris, you want to go Easter Island for a few days?". I was thinking, oh he wants to go out with a few of us. Told him I'll think about it when I'm free and we can make plans. And then he's like, "yeah, its been a while going out, just the two of us", "Im sick of this place and everyone", "it'll be nice seeing you" ect ect.

This threw me off guard? I mean if I was his boyfriend this would set off alarm bells? His guy is going out with some guy he's never met for a few days in literally another country. Not to mention, I have a girlfriend too and she would NOT be happy about me going out with just one guy. Of course, I didn't tell my girlfriend about this, but I also said to the guy "I'll think about it, we can do something" just to kinda blow it off and maybe just go to a movie or something.

Keep in mind, we've been purely close friends for years.
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Arcanine2009
02/12/22 6:14:24 PM
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Dude wtf that is weird. It's even weirder when you already have a gf and she says "just the two of us." If you can't get your gf along, I wouldn't go man. You are asking for trouble.

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darkmaian23
02/12/22 6:16:07 PM
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What the hell is going on with people reposting the exact some thing someone else said? This is the second topic I've seen today with that going on.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
02/12/22 6:16:21 PM
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SydneySweenHero posted...
*didn't read*

She wants to bang you
The fuck, what kind of fucked up family is he in ?!

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Jiek_Fafn
02/12/22 6:19:38 PM
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She's unhappy with things in her life, emotionally unstable and she's all ready to make some bad decisions. I've taken advantage of this situation dozens of time.

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Alteres
02/12/22 6:26:46 PM
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Just ask your gf if she wants to go, tell the friend it has to be the three of you... blah, blah, blah

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Aressar
02/12/22 6:28:01 PM
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That copypaste response has got to be one of the lamest fads CE has ever had.

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Flauros
02/12/22 6:28:27 PM
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Ever see Hostel?

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 6:39:55 PM
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darkmaian23 posted...
What the hell is going on with people reposting the exact some thing someone else said? This is the second topic I've seen today with that going on.

No idea but it should be modded for trolling or at least disruptive posting.

Arcanine2009 posted...
Dude wtf that is weird. It's even weirder when you already have a gf and she says "just the two of us." If you can't get your gf along, I wouldn't go man. You are asking for trouble.

Yeah, although I've known this girl longer than my girlfriend and I trust her. But even I can tell this situation is weird. Going alone with her to another country for a few days. A country known for people to get away to and do "business" (Amsterdam is known for that kinda stuff).

Jiek_Fafn posted...
She's unhappy with things in her life, emotionally unstable and she's all ready to make some bad decisions. I've taken advantage of this situation dozens of time.

Yeah but something major must have happened for her to be implying what I think she's implying.

Alteres posted...
Just ask your gf if she wants to go, tell the friend it has to be the three of you... blah, blah, blah

Nah I'm not even going to do that. Going to downplay it and go out to see a movie with a group or something.

Flauros posted...
Ever see Hostel?

Don't remember it, sounds familiar though.

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jumi
02/12/22 7:43:57 PM
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Sounds like either:

A. She wants the D.

B. She wants to make someone jealous.

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Guerrilla Soldier
02/12/22 7:47:01 PM
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we all believe you
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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 7:49:45 PM
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jumi posted...
Sounds like either:

A. She wants the D.

B. She wants to make someone jealous.

Yeah but I wouldn't do that to a close friend or my girlfriend tbh

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SydneySweenHero
02/12/22 7:50:38 PM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
Yeah but I wouldn't do that to a close friend or my girlfriend tbh
You wouldnt want to bang your girlfriend?

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 7:50:57 PM
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Guerrilla Soldier posted...
we all believe you
really

There will always be doubters on the internet, I know that. But this is serious advice I ask and because CE is a smaller knit community than others, I feel more comfortable asking here than anywhere else tbh.

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SpiritSephiroth
02/12/22 7:51:26 PM
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SydneySweenHero posted...
You wouldnt want to bang your girlfriend?

No I mean I wouldn't bang my friend lol. I wouldn't hurt her or my girlfriend.

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SydneySweenHero
02/12/22 7:51:53 PM
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ohhh, lol

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DarkChozoGhost
02/12/22 8:04:30 PM
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She probably doesn't actually want to cheat with you but just wants to be in a situation where she could. She wants to have a nice little vacation with a good guy, toy with the idea of an affair or leaving him for someone that actually cares, but at the end of the day she doesn't want to be unfaithful.

You still shouldn't go because that wouldn't be fair to your girlfriend, but not everything is actually about cheating.

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SpiritSephiroth
02/13/22 6:02:56 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
She probably doesn't actually want to cheat with you but just wants to be in a situation where she could. She wants to have a nice little vacation with a good guy, toy with the idea of an affair or leaving him for someone that actually cares, but at the end of the day she doesn't want to be unfaithful.

You still shouldn't go because that wouldn't be fair to your girlfriend, but not everything is actually about cheating.

That sounds almost as bad. As if shes using me as some sort of revenge object which is kinda sick.

But yeah I'm gonna try to steer the convo away from a holiday abroad with her.

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DarkChozoGhost
02/13/22 7:54:17 AM
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It's not a revenge object. She just wants to feel appreciated.

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