Current Events > i hate how dead bars/clubs are during the winter

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makes it much more difficult to go and pick up girls

Sure, blame winter.

Xavier_On_High posted...

Sure, blame winter.

what else would it be?

One's own failings?

Xavier_On_High posted...

One's own failings?

LMAO, yeah that isn't the issue

can't really pick up girls if there's no girls out

Really? There's no girls. Literally NO girls?

Xavier_On_High posted...

Really? There's no girls. Literally NO girls?

no girls i would sleep with

No_U_L7 posted...

LMAO, yeah that isn't the issue

can't really pick up girls if there's no girls out

Maybe try women...>_>

No_U_L7 posted...

no girls i would sleep with

So it is a you problem, as suspected.

Xavier_On_High posted...

So it is a you problem, as suspected.

nothing you are saying makes any sense lmao

No_U_L7 posted...

nothing you are saying makes any sense lmao

Maybe you're incapable of introspection? We must examine ourselves if we are ever to correct our shortcomings.

Que mal.

Xavier_On_High posted...

Maybe you're incapable of introspection? We must examine ourselves if we are ever to correct our shortcomings.

so, let's be clear. you're saying the solution is to lower my standards?

BaphometFlux posted...

Que mal.

it's too cold, was all the way down to 48 deg tonight

No_U_L7 posted...

so, let's be clear. you're saying the solution is to lower my standards?

I'm saying that you can't blame the season. People get off all over the world all the time, so the problem is likely closer to home.

Xavier_On_High posted...

I'm saying that you can't blame the season. People get off all over the world all the time, so the problem is likely closer to home.

answer the question

i'm not trying to "get off". i'm trying to meet girls that i want in my life, and will not settle...why the fuck would i settle lol

No_U_L7 posted...

answer the question

i'm not trying to "get off". i'm trying to meet girls that i want in my life, and will not settle...why the fuck would i settle lol

Well then, meeting people to spend time with is even easier than getting off, so if anything that shifts the onus even more onto you. Hypothetically, if it wasn't the fault of the season, what do you think you would be the cause of your failure? Just hypothetically.

Xavier_On_High posted...

Well then, meeting people to spend time with is even easier than getting off, so if anything that shifts the onus even more onto you. Hypothetically, if it wasn't the fault of the season, what do you think you would be the cause of your failure? Just hypothetically.

please explain how i meet attractive girls to spend time with if none of them are out ?_?

i screw up all the time, thing is with enough volume i adjust very quickly. the first girl i talk to in a night may think i'm a loser, not remember me and a few weeks later when she's the last girl i talk to in the night she'll think i'm james bond

i can adjust with less margin of error if i'm more zoned in...but if there's literally no attractive girls out there's not much i can do. i'm good, but i can't turn an unattractive girl attractive in the same night

No_U_L7 posted...

please explain how i meet attractive girls to spend time with if none of them are out ?_?

i screw up all the time, thing is with enough volume i adjust very quickly. the first girl i talk to in a night may think i'm a loser, not remember me and a few weeks later when she's the last girl i talk to in the night she'll think i'm james bond

i can adjust with less margin of error if i'm more zoned in...but if there's literally no attractive girls out there's not much i can do. i'm good, but i can't turn an unattractive girl attractive in the same night

Again, I don't believe that there are literally no attractive girls out, and again, you're externalising your failure, as well as your success. "She thinks I'm a loser." "She thinks I'm James Bond." Talking about "volume" as if other people are something to be gamed and discarded. Maybe the impersonal way you approach social interactions is off-putting? It might help to examine where that stems from. Were you a lonely child?

Xavier_On_High posted...

Again, I don't believe that there are literally no attractive girls out, and again, you're externalising your failure, as well as your success. "She thinks I'm a loser." "She thinks I'm James Bond." Talking about "volume" as if other people are something to be gamed and discarded. Maybe the impersonal way you approach social interactions is off-putting? It might help to examine where that stems from. Were you a lonely child?

lol it's not impersonal, it's non-neediness. are you trying to say that my standards are unrealistic?

i literally have no issue in any other seasons, so idk what else to tell you

No_U_L7 posted...

lol it's not impersonal, it's non-neediness. are you trying to say that my standards are unrealistic?

i literally have no issue in any other seasons, so idk what else to tell you

Your standards are your own business, and no one should question them. It just sounds like the way you interact with people is inherently impersonal, even if you try to project an aura of affability and gregariousness. You seem to have convinced yourself, but people have an uncanny ability to detect fakeness.

Xavier_On_High posted...

Your standards are your own business, and no one should question them. It just sounds like the way you interact with people is inherently impersonal, even if you try to project an aura of affability and gregariousness. You seem to have convinced yourself, but people have an uncanny ability to detect fakeness.

i'll just say that it's never been an issue. it's fine to be analytical about things as long as you can still be genuine. i'm an engineer, so being analytical comes naturally to me