Current Events > Advice guys on a woman.

(+) Yeah! (+)

I met a chick off Tinder before thanksgivingm shes 43 btw (I'm 37)
Watched a movie, we started making out, she mentions she's on her period, and we discuss havin sex on it and she's like "Well you wouldn't have to wear a condom"
So we had sex, watched the rest of the movie, she was tired left.
Keep on texting, but a couple days later she informs me she got an infection from it "My body is crazy like that" she said.

So she used that for a few weeks, then her car was breaking down so she got a new one, then the holiday was last week.

She mentioned a few weeks ago she was still upset over that night, not sure she wants to have sex again, but still texts me.

I bring it up this week she says mid week to the end of the week, but then when I said I am looking forward to seeing her again she brings up shes doesn't want to have sex and how the thought of sex is freaking her out and how the thought of me not using a condom upset her. I know not to bring up that she was the one who brought it up back then not to use a condom.

Now I typically text her good morning, and she texts back, is that too much?
What should I do? Should I still try to see her? I would like to see her still, I told her we wouldn't have sex, but would like to do other stuff which she seems to agree to.

I figure if we don't see each other by the end of this weekend I should really move on (I mean I have been seein other chicks, but stop communicating with her)

This is a CE topic if I've ever seen one

DoubleDare posted...

Keep on texting, but a couple days later she informs me she got an infection from it "My body is crazy like that" she said.

So she used that for a few weeks

how do you use an infection for a few weeks?

stop stop stop
you started watching a movie....had a talk...made out, had sex...and the movie wasnt over? thats why she left

Also, get checked...cuz STDs can cause infections

AbstraktProfSC2 posted...

stop stop stop
you started watching a movie....had a talk...made out, had sex...and the movie wasnt over? thats why she left

Also, get checked...cuz STDs can cause infections

No we watched the rest of the movie (she nodded off the last half hour)

Also, you can still impregnate if you have sex during their period. It is rare and depends on the length of their cycle and whether it's the beginning or their period or toward the end. But also consider that your sperm can survive in her for up to 5 days. So even if you have sex before she ovulates, there's a chance your sperm could survive until then.

I wouldn't do that again.

Ar0ge posted...

Also, you can still impregnate if you have sex during their period. It is rare and depends on the length of their cycle and whether it's the beginning or their period or toward the end. But also consider that your sperm can survive in her for up to 5 days. So even if you have sex before she ovulates, there's a chance your sperm could survive until then.

I wouldn't do that again.

Yea, the next morning I regretted that and started gettin those paranoid thoughts about that, I will def wear a condom (also mentioned this to her too)

...high school drama

LMAO

Is her vagina magical?
Because this seems like a lot to go through. Find someone normal.

Jiek_Fafn posted...

Is her vagina magical?
Because this seems like a lot to go through. Find someone normal.

its name is pillowpants

roos1046 Reborn posted...

...high school drama

LMAO

@roos1046_Reborn man I ain't gonna lie, I don't blame you for your responses to me lol

bump

No one gave me advice on whether to try & see her again still.

But I ended up deciding to just stop texting her now. I don't know why I got so attached to her, I did think we may see each other again but then she brought that she up again this week bein upset with me.

And I got other girls lined up (and some I seen anyway in the past month) so buh bye.