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Damn_Underscore
11/22/21 4:54:13 PM
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?????


if so, why aren't you trying to get one?

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Heartomaton
11/22/21 4:55:51 PM
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With every fiber of my being.

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CRON
11/22/21 4:56:47 PM
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I was previously in a very emotionally abusive relationship which destroyed my mental health and confidence. I'd rather much focus on getting better, myself, without needing validation from someone else.

I get pretty lonely at times, though. I feel like I'm too old to really get back into the dating game.

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KogaSteelfang
11/22/21 4:57:08 PM
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Yes.

Damn_Underscore posted...
if so, why aren't you trying to get one?
No point.

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brotrrwinner
11/22/21 4:57:32 PM
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skermac
11/22/21 5:04:31 PM
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I want but im too lazy and not confident enough to look

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Wii_Shaker
11/22/21 5:04:39 PM
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Not particularly. I'm dating again and I kind of wish I was just alone. I think there might be something wrong with me.

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GMAK2442
11/22/21 5:04:48 PM
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A lot of girlfriends.

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bnui_ransder
11/22/21 5:05:45 PM
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I wish I had anyone in my life that I could shower with the love, adoration and affection I have but everyone sees is just a 6ft nice guy that is dependable when you have problem

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Garioshi
11/22/21 5:07:06 PM
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Very close to having a boyfriend

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nfearurspecimn
11/22/21 5:07:53 PM
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Mostly just so I'd have someone to play stuff with and talk to.

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Garioshi
11/22/21 10:55:30 PM
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Garioshi posted...
Very close to having a boyfriend
Update: I have a boyfriend

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NoxObscuras
11/22/21 10:57:28 PM
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Not at this very moment no. Maybe in a couple of years I'll get back out there.

Garioshi posted...
Update: I have a boyfriend
Congrats

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The Catgirl Fondler
11/22/21 11:02:34 PM
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No point in trying, I don't have anything to offer.
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Wii_Shaker
11/23/21 1:57:56 AM
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Garioshi posted...
Update: I have a boyfriend
Yay!

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Mistere Man
11/23/21 1:59:21 AM
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No as I am a horrible failure of a person if I can even be called that, and have nothing to offer anyone in anyway.

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Rowdy54
11/23/21 1:59:57 AM
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I do have a wife. Pretty great!
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ArchangelBaruch
11/23/21 2:07:13 AM
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4-5 years ago I really wanted a girlfriend, so I bit the bullet and went into online dating. After over a year, I finally met someone.

As of last month I'm married. So the moral is keep trying.

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Mistere Man
11/23/21 2:08:02 AM
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ArchangelBaruch posted...
So the moral is keep trying.

Why?

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ArchangelBaruch
11/23/21 2:10:29 AM
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Because if you give up and don't put up any effort, a girlfriend isn't going to magically appear through the door?

If you are fine as a single person that's another thing, but if you want to be in a couple you need to work for it.

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dj1200
11/23/21 2:11:26 AM
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Gf yeah but Im picky

also poll should had option for already have one

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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 2:12:18 AM
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Yes, but without being the ideal version of myself. I just want to b myself and also have a gf

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ArchangelBaruch
11/23/21 2:15:55 AM
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You are probably better than you think you yourself are. Just trust that if you are honest in how you present yourself and if someone chooses you, that you are OK. Both me. and my wife have huge flaws which for other people would be an instant red flag, but for us particularly they don't matter than much, and it's worth overcoming them.

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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 2:17:14 AM
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ArchangelBaruch posted...
You are probably better than you think you yourself are. Just trust that if you are honest in how you present yourself and if someone chooses you, that you are OK. Both me. and my wife have huge flaws which for other people would be an instant red flag, but for us particularly they don't matter than much, and it's worth overcoming them.
Aren't you an engineer or something? I think we lead different lives lol, but I'm not sure if that was directed to me

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ArchangelBaruch
11/23/21 2:19:23 AM
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Yes I'm an engineer, and it was directed to you.

So what? I'm handicapped and my left leg is way shorter than the right. For the longest time I thought that girls would think I'm deformed and never even give me a chance. And here I am.

Your flaws aren't as bad as you may think they are.

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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 2:21:25 AM
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ArchangelBaruch posted...
Yes I'm an engineer, and it was directed to you.

So what? I'm handicapped and my left leg is way shorter than the right. For the longest time I thought that girls would think I'm deformed and never even give me a chance. And here I am.

Your flaws aren't as bad as you may think they are.
Ok. I guess I shouldn't judge based off limited information. But personally I think a high status job outweighs a handicap many times over. Idk

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Wii_Shaker
11/23/21 2:30:20 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
Ok. I guess I shouldn't judge based off limited information. But personally I think a high status job outweighs a handicap many times over. Idk
Sounds to me like you are making excuses.

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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 2:33:01 AM
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Wii_Shaker posted...
Sounds to me like you are making excuses.
Maybe? I also have standards issues because my first gf was a


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ArchangelBaruch
11/23/21 2:35:19 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
Ok. I guess I shouldn't judge based off limited information. But personally I think a high status job outweighs a handicap many times over. Idk
Depends on the person. I vividly remember a girl stopping the conversation after a few messages because I told her I worked in the oil industry and that went against her morals.

If you get in a relationship because of your status alone, would you really see yourself in a longterm relationship with that person? Would you feel yourself loved?


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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 2:39:13 AM
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ArchangelBaruch posted...
Depends on the person. I vividly remember a girl stopping the conversation after a few messages because I told her I worked in the oil industry and that went against her morals.

If you get in a relationship because of your status alone, would you really see yourself in a longterm relationship with that person? Would you feel yourself loved?
No, lol, I guess it's not that important. But people who are more in my milieu usually leave that info out, and obviously people who have industrious lives aren't going to be interested. So it's just a matter of knowing the people I would get along with.

Most people my age have their lives together and I don't, by a lot, so I'm limited to people in my situation more or less. Maybe that's untrue though

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DarthAragorn
11/23/21 2:39:45 AM
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I wish I had one

But I'm not trying because I know I can't get one

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GGuirao13
11/23/21 3:22:01 AM
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Yes.

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BipBapBam
11/23/21 3:25:07 AM
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Nah, I'm genuinely happier alone.

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MedeaLysistrata
11/23/21 3:26:00 AM
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DarthAragorn posted...
I wish I had one

But I'm not trying because I know I can't get one
I think you could. She just might not be your first or second choice.

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Damn_Underscore
11/23/21 6:08:49 AM
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Garioshi posted...
Update: I have a boyfriend

Good for you

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Solo_Wing
11/23/21 6:15:21 AM
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Feel like I can't commit fully to relationship rn. I'd take an exclusive fubu tho, if that even exist

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KogaSteelfang
11/23/21 11:12:39 AM
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ArchangelBaruch posted...
Just trust that if you are honest in how you present yourself and if someone chooses you, that you are OK.
That line of thinking goes both ways, and is a huge reason I'm not trying.

Anyway, I'm really happy for you.

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