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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 12:40:26 PM
#51:


gunplagirl posted...
Follow your fucking heart, ask her to break things off and get with her.


This is horrendous advice, what's wrong with you? You never, ever tell someone to be a homewrecker.
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dj1200
10/14/21 12:41:12 PM
#52:


whatever you do don't cheat. and don't get with her because she'd cheat on you. even if you were married. you have firsthand proof.

anyway...

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Solid Snake07
10/14/21 12:42:10 PM
#53:


From a third person perspective, she sounds like an unstable person if she got engaged to one of your friends while harboring feelings for you strong enough to blow up her engagement now.

So you basically need to choose between being with her or your friend. Cause there's probably no way you get to be with her without absolutely wreaking your friendship with him.

My advice would be to back off. If she really wants to be with you and is someone worth being with she'll break off her engagement without you influencing her to do so. Once/if that happens, maybe go for it.

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CyricZ
10/14/21 12:48:43 PM
#54:


Oh dude that's awful. Not that exact thing, but I've definitely been in a variant of that.

Woman I worked with is in a committed relationship, later engaged to him. We're good friends at work. We hang out. She gets closer, she tell me she loves me but she's staying with him and wants to keep hanging out.

And me. Lonely, lonely me. I accept this because I'm so damn lonely.

And she's good at keeping me in. She actually does teach me things about hanging out with women, cooking, what to do when you get your own place (she helped me quite a bit when I moved).

And in the end, five years later, I just couldn't keep it up. I realized that there's a difference between a friend who wants you to be happy with someone, and a friend who just wants you for themselves.

And there was hurt. Hurtful things were said.

*sigh*

But now I'm in a new relationship, an actual one. A lot of what I learned is helping me. I don't want to see her again, but I can't hate her for everything.

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kbelfisBACK
10/14/21 1:08:03 PM
#55:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Min you tc, this is coming from a person that has cheated on their partner multiple times and is using this topic as an outlet to clear their conscience
not true lol I'm just calling a bunch of spades a bunch of spades bc this is typical ce behavior where whenever a woman tries to be happy they demonize the shit out of her no matter if they know the context or all the facts or not
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Arcanine2009
10/14/21 1:17:45 PM
#56:


Don't do anything more. Imagine being the other guy. If she wants to break it off with her to be husband, then let her do it. Don't coerce her into doing so. It's wrong.

I'd only recommend going after her if her fiance was a horrible person.

You also have to think that she could easily cheat on you.

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spikethedevil
10/14/21 1:33:59 PM
#58:


As I said earlier cheaters are scum.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 1:41:39 PM
#59:


kbelfisBACK posted...

not true lol I'm just calling a bunch of spades a bunch of spades bc this is typical ce behavior where whenever a woman tries to be happy they demonize the shit out of her no matter if they know the context or all the facts or not


What context justifies openly cheating like the way you were describing it

It didn't sound like your bf was abusive or anything. And if you weren't feeling it you could've broken it off with him
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Slaya4
10/14/21 1:46:12 PM
#60:


gunplagirl posted...
Follow your fucking heart, ask her to break things off and get with her. It's obvious you love each other, and that whatever's between you two is far stronger than what her and her fiance have. You'll both regret it if you don't. But she will move on and you won't.

Listen to me, the woman, speaking from the heart's experience.

I am baffled by this fairytale logic. Yikes.

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Hornezz
10/14/21 1:48:51 PM
#61:


Just tell her she's the expected successor.

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ManaYuka
10/14/21 2:01:33 PM
#62:


You sure she's "in love" with you? Maybe she just loves you as a friend. I mean inlove implies she wants to be with you and not someone else, but yet she still has a fianc. That doesn't make sense.

And just imagine, if she can be like this with her fianc, she can be like this with you. Don't fall for it. If she's weighing her options now, she a future divorcee in the making.

Find a girl that happy with where she is at, not always looking for someone better.

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_Angel_
10/14/21 2:28:20 PM
#63:


Slaya4 posted...
I am baffled by this fairytale logic. Yikes.
Shit makes me sad tbh. Like there ain't nobody left that's at least solid enough to respect another man's relationship.

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ManaYuka
10/14/21 3:03:32 PM
#64:


_Angel_ posted...
Shit makes me sad tbh. Like there ain't nobody left that's at least solid enough to respect another man's relationship.

The fairy tale is that "love" exists in the first place. Meaning its unconditional. There's always conditions. Even with family there are conditions.

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voldothegr8
10/14/21 3:14:12 PM
#65:


She ain't married yet, hit it and quit it
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PatrickMahomes
10/14/21 3:18:31 PM
#66:


Dill2000 posted...
That doesn't mean she will repeat that behavior.
until she meets the next guy with whom she has chemistry

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spikethedevil
10/14/21 5:11:24 PM
#67:


voldothegr8 posted...
She ain't married yet, hit it and quit it

Fucking shit advice ITP.

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SuperSpanishFly
10/14/21 5:19:50 PM
#68:


Why the fuck didn't she ask you out?

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Magic Bean
10/14/21 5:23:37 PM
#69:


Very scummy, bro.
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XxKrebsxX
10/14/21 5:25:53 PM
#70:


I'm not pursuing this guys.

It was one kiss and we're leaving it at that.
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SSJ2GrimReaper
10/14/21 6:34:54 PM
#71:


tc tonight:


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Blue_Inigo
10/14/21 6:37:02 PM
#72:


Doesn't sound like your a good friend to this supposed "mutual friend" if you're doing this kinda stuff behind his back tbh

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Axiom
10/14/21 6:38:42 PM
#73:


SSJ2GrimReaper posted...
tc tonight:
Lmao. If it was obvious to everyone but you well then that's your fault for being so fucking oblivious
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gunplagirl
10/14/21 7:23:07 PM
#74:


XxKrebsxX posted...
I'm not pursuing this guys.

It was one kiss and we're leaving it at that.
So you're gonna just let the girl who you're perfect for slip out of your fingers? That's it? You tipped a toe in the water and decided against it, rather than diving in all the way and living.

I was wrong about you, Mr. Krebs. I was so wrong.

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spikethedevil
10/14/21 7:24:01 PM
#75:


Stop with the shitty advice ffs.

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BobanMarjanovic
10/14/21 7:25:43 PM
#76:


These hoes ain't loyal

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gunplagirl
10/14/21 7:26:34 PM
#77:


spikethedevil posted...
Stop with the shitty advice ffs.
Tell me, how successful have you been with women?

That's rhetorical, I already know.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 8:08:46 PM
#78:


gunplagirl posted...

Tell me, how successful have you been with women?

That's rhetorical, I already know.


Ah yes, everyone who doesn't agree with homewrecking must be a virgin

Jeffhardyb0yz has been more successful with women than most people here and he's telling you your advice is trash so maybe you're better off trying a different fantasy
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gunplagirl
10/14/21 8:27:03 PM
#80:


JustMyOpinion posted...
I have a wife and I disagree with homewrecking. Does my opinion count now?
What is a home? A miserable pile of lies.

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ghettoraider81
10/14/21 8:34:51 PM
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spikethedevil
10/14/21 8:40:49 PM
#82:


ghettoraider81 posted...

Fuck off with this BS.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 8:44:30 PM
#83:


Seeing all these people try and defend/suggest homewrecking really sheds light on why so many people here don't have any friends irl
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Hoodroar
10/14/21 8:55:25 PM
#84:


The potential husband really needs to be informed by someone so that he doesn't ruin his life. Regardless of any other opinions, it's an objectively terrible decision for him to get married under these circumstances.

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Lairen
10/14/21 8:57:33 PM
#85:


So howd yall meet?

We cheated.

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ghettoraider81
10/14/21 9:01:16 PM
#86:


spikethedevil posted...
Fuck off with this BS.


Fuck off yourself, she hasnt spoken any vows.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 9:03:25 PM
#87:


ghettoraider81 posted...


Fuck off yourself, she hasnt spoken any vows.


Really boggles the mind as to why you're single lol
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ghettoraider81
10/14/21 9:04:37 PM
#88:


One_Day_Remains posted...
Really boggles the mind as to why you're single lol


Actually happily married, nice projection though.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 9:06:10 PM
#89:


In your case (which I'm sure you fabricated) it'll be completely acceptable for someone to fuck your wife by your own words, regardless of your backpedaling with "she hasn't spoken any vows"
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Naysaspace
10/14/21 9:07:22 PM
#90:


"Fuck women"

--A guy who doesn't appreciate the boundaries of monogamy. And throws his hands up like he's clueless, he did no wrong, etc

fuck YOU pal. fuck YOU. "fuck women", come on.

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ghettoraider81
10/14/21 9:07:24 PM
#91:


One_Day_Remains posted...
In your case (which I'm sure you fabricated) it'll be completely acceptable for someone to fuck your wife by your own words, regardless of your backpedaling with "she hasn't spoken any vows"


Well, no, because you see, were married.

Is your reading really that bad?

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Guerrilla Soldier
10/14/21 9:25:50 PM
#92:


lmao. you were oblivious? yeah great signs that you love her. and she is about to marry a mutual friend? yeah great sign she's in love with you.

ya'll just horny. or this is a completely made up story. but if not, ya'll just horny, and want to get a bang on before she ties a knot. let's be real about it.

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 9:26:48 PM
#93:


Apparently yours is, because I already addressed that. You literally saw me do it in the very post you quoted

That's just you backpedaling. Imagine thinking homewrecking is A-OK when you're engaged but it's suddenly completely unacceptable when words are spoken

What a childish mentality lol
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Flockaveli
10/14/21 9:30:25 PM
#94:


She's just one woman. As a man who's had plenty of women confess their adoration for me, there's plenty more to pick from. Ones not as stupid nor easily swayed into cheating.

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OwlRammer
10/14/21 9:45:16 PM
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Tappor
10/14/21 9:46:05 PM
#96:


JustMyOpinion posted...
Shut the fuck up and stop cheating with her.


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ghettoraider81
10/14/21 10:06:09 PM
#97:


One_Day_Remains posted...
Apparently yours is, because I already addressed that. You literally saw me do it in the very post you quoted

That's just you backpedaling. Imagine thinking homewrecking is A-OK when you're engaged but it's suddenly completely unacceptable when words are spoken

What a childish mentality lol


Its not backpedaling when its an already stated qualifier.

Your just too much of a child to see that not married is single.

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TreyFlowers
10/14/21 10:07:47 PM
#98:


If I was the future husband, I'd want to know that you just kissed her and she's into you.

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spikethedevil
10/14/21 10:08:04 PM
#99:


ghettoraider81 posted...
Its not backpedaling when its an already stated qualifier.

Your just too much of a child to see that not married is single.


So someone in an exclusive relationship is single? Youre trolling right?

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One_Day_Remains
10/14/21 10:09:26 PM
#100:


ghettoraider81 posted...
Your just too much of a child to see that not married is single.


Hahahaha what

Holy shit. This is actually sig worthy

I can't believe you actually typed this out and didn't immediately realize how absolutely stupid and ironic it sounded lmao
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