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Simp 08/04/21 7:23:26 PM #1:	I didn't really think I posted enough to be recognizable, but it seems I've rubbed at least a couple people the wrong way. It's genuinely important to me to try to be a net positive wherever I go in this life. If for some reason you actually recognize this name and have negative associations with it, please share any feedback you have for how specifically I've incurred your ire. I won't be offended or hold anything against anyone, in fact I'll feel grateful if anybody even contributes at all. --- Faceless goofus in a sea of alts <cite>Simp posted [p:956781470] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>I didn't really think I posted enough to be recognizable, but it seems I've rubbed at least a couple people the wrong way. It's genuinely important to me to try to be a net positive wherever I go in this life. If for some reason you actually recognize this name and have negative associations with it, please share any feedback you have for how specifically I've incurred your ire. I won't be offended or hold anything against anyone, in fact I'll feel grateful if anybody even contributes at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 08/04/21 7:23:54 PM #2:	do you play magic the gathering <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:956781493] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>do you play magic the gathering </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 08/04/21 7:23:55 PM #3:	yes <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:956781494] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>yes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Strider102 08/04/21 7:24:12 PM #4:	I don't even know who you are. --- Last Cloudia ID: 188850453 <cite>Strider102 posted [p:956781505] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>I don't even know who you are. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cemith 08/04/21 7:24:27 PM #5:	Strider102 posted... I don't even know who you are. --- CE's resident Smash Player \|\| https://i.ibb.co/2vRbyC0/Rosa-6.png "Friends don't let friends watch The Big Bang Theory" - mogar002 <cite>Cemith posted [p:956781516] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>Strider102 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't even know who you are.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 08/04/21 7:24:34 PM #6:	How about you shut the fuck up? No hate though. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:956781522] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>How about you shut the fuck up? No hate though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master Kazuya 08/04/21 7:28:34 PM #7:	Idk what brought this up, but trying to find evidence you're a bad person is unhealthy for you because it's self fulfilling. How about just forget whatever happened that led up to this, and next time you rub someone the wrong way, deal with it then. --- itt my post is the best <cite>Master Kazuya posted [p:956781637] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>Idk what brought this up, but trying to find evidence you're a bad person is unhealthy for you because it's self fulfilling. How about just forget whatever happened that led up to this, and next time you rub someone the wrong way, deal with it then. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
monkmith 08/04/21 7:30:18 PM #8:	well, going by your username, you could just pay people to like you? isn't that what simps do on that website that gets you modded if you name it? --- Taarsidath-an halsaam. Quando il gioco e finito, il re e il pedone vanno nella stessa scatola <cite>monkmith posted [p:956781682] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>well, going by your username, you could just pay people to like you? isn't that what simps do on that website that gets you modded if you name it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Simp 08/04/21 7:44:58 PM #9:	soulunison2 posted... do you play magic the gathering No. Seems complicated. nothanks1 posted... yes Is it because of your contention before that I'm trying to steal your gimmick or whatever? I don't really see any similarities other than the posting style when I do the whole 'no capitalization or punctuation with line breaks' thing, but that was just something I picked up back in like 2009 or 2010 before I ever heard of you or CE. I only do it because I hate how pretentious I feel that I come off when I post in a more standard format. I've been confused with you a couple times, I assume for that reason, but I've always tried to nip that in the bud and make sure they understand that I'm not you and have nothing to do with you. Or is it some other reason? Strider102 posted... I don't even know who you are. Thanks guys, that warms my heart. --- Faceless goofus in a sea of alts <cite>Simp posted [p:956782081] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>soulunison2 posted... </cite> <quote>do you play magic the gathering</quote>No. Seems complicated. nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>yes</quote>Is it because of your contention before that I'm trying to steal your gimmick or whatever? I don't really see any similarities other than the posting style when I do the whole 'no capitalization or punctuation with line breaks' thing, but that was just something I picked up back in like 2009 or 2010 before I ever heard of you or CE. I only do it because I hate how pretentious I feel that I come off when I post in a more standard format. I've been confused with you a couple times, I assume for that reason, but I've always tried to nip that in the bud and make sure they understand that I'm not you and have nothing to do with you. Or is it some other reason? Strider102 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't even know who you are.</quote>Thanks guys, that warms my heart. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DogOfPeace 08/04/21 7:56:02 PM #10:	TC is starved for attention. More starved than my breed is starved to eat people. poops all over topic --- Woof! <cite>DogOfPeace posted [p:956782368] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>TC is starved for attention. More starved than my breed is starved to eat people. poops all over topic </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/04/21 7:57:19 PM #11:	I don't remember you being shitty, so you're probably not that bad. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:956782402] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>I don't remember you being shitty, so you're probably not that bad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Simp 08/04/21 8:04:18 PM #12:	Master Kazuya posted... Idk what brought this up, but trying to find evidence you're a bad person is unhealthy for you because it's self fulfilling. How about just forget whatever happened that led up to this, and next time you rub someone the wrong way, deal with it then. Yeah, I'm sure you're right. I have a few unhealthy tendencies, most centered around self-flagellation. The advice is sound except for the fact that I can't always necessarily tell when I'm rubbing someone the wrong way. Feels like the modus operandi is not communication, but to just pretend the other person doesn't exist. I guess I just wish people would call me out if they feel I'm behaving badly rather than just tossing me in that trash pile with me none the wiser. Of course my username probably doesn't help there -- I couldn't think of anything, so I was just checking random words and thought it was funny that 'simp' hadn't been taken. In retrospect I probably should have gone with something else since I don't tend to gimmick-post much. DogOfPeace posted... TC is starved for attention. More starved than my breed is starved to eat people. poops all over topic You're not wrong. But I'm increasingly feeling like that's most people in general, and I'm more the exception in how I express it than the underlying tendency. I could be wrong, though. I just get tired of pretense and stoicism sometimes, because that's how I handle everything IRL. --- Faceless goofus in a sea of alts <cite>Simp posted [p:956782634] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>Master Kazuya posted... </cite> <quote>Idk what brought this up, but trying to find evidence you're a bad person is unhealthy for you because it's self fulfilling. How about just forget whatever happened that led up to this, and next time you rub someone the wrong way, deal with it then.</quote>Yeah, I'm sure you're right. I have a few unhealthy tendencies, most centered around self-flagellation. The advice is sound except for the fact that I can't always necessarily tell when I'm rubbing someone the wrong way. Feels like the modus operandi is not communication, but to just pretend the other person doesn't exist. I guess I just wish people would call me out if they feel I'm behaving badly rather than just tossing me in that trash pile with me none the wiser. Of course my username probably doesn't help there -- I couldn't think of anything, so I was just checking random words and thought it was funny that 'simp' hadn't been taken. In retrospect I probably should have gone with something else since I don't tend to gimmick-post much. DogOfPeace posted... </cite> <quote>TC is starved for attention. More starved than my breed is starved to eat people. poops all over topic</quote>You're not wrong. But I'm increasingly feeling like that's most people in general, and I'm more the exception in how I express it than the underlying tendency. I could be wrong, though. I just get tired of pretense and stoicism sometimes, because that's how I handle everything IRL. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master Kazuya 08/04/21 9:52:28 PM #13:	Simp posted... Yeah, I'm sure you're right. I have a few unhealthy tendencies, most centered around self-flagellation. The advice is sound except for the fact that I can't always necessarily tell when I'm rubbing someone the wrong way. Feels like the modus operandi is not communication, but to just pretend the other person doesn't exist. I guess I just wish people would call me out if they feel I'm behaving badly rather than just tossing me in that trash pile with me none the wiser. Of course my username probably doesn't help there -- I couldn't think of anything, so I was just checking random words and thought it was funny that 'simp' hadn't been taken. In retrospect I probably should have gone with something else since I don't tend to gimmick-post much. I've been where you are. Put yourself first cause it's your life and you deserve to be the priority in your own life. If you rubbed someone the wrong way, so what? Not everyone will interpret who you are to your benefit no matter what you do, since they're seeing you through their lens not yours. Someone not replying doesn't mean it's personal. It's the internet, people can do whatever the f they want, it doesn't always mean something. Also, people will call you out if you are "behaving badly" (jesus this sounds like some sub dom porn), so if they haven't called you out, you don't need to assume they want to. I'm sorry you are feeling shitty about yourself. The best way you can improve as a person is trust that you're doing okay, be helpful when the opportunity presents itself, and don't abuse anyone or rob them or kill them or w/e. --- itt my post is the best <cite>Master Kazuya posted [p:956785877] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>Simp posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, I'm sure you're right. I have a few unhealthy tendencies, most centered around self-flagellation. The advice is sound except for the fact that I can't always necessarily tell when I'm rubbing someone the wrong way. Feels like the modus operandi is not communication, but to just pretend the other person doesn't exist. I guess I just wish people would call me out if they feel I'm behaving badly rather than just tossing me in that trash pile with me none the wiser. Of course my username probably doesn't help there -- I couldn't think of anything, so I was just checking random words and thought it was funny that 'simp' hadn't been taken. In retrospect I probably should have gone with something else since I don't tend to gimmick-post much.</quote> I've been where you are. Put yourself first cause it's your life and you deserve to be the priority in your own life. If you rubbed someone the wrong way, so what? Not everyone will interpret who you are to your benefit no matter what you do, since they're seeing you through their lens not yours. Someone not replying doesn't mean it's personal. It's the internet, people can do whatever the f they want, it doesn't always mean something. Also, people will call you out if you are "behaving badly" (jesus this sounds like some sub dom porn), so if they haven't called you out, you don't need to assume they want to. I'm sorry you are feeling shitty about yourself. The best way you can improve as a person is trust that you're doing okay, be helpful when the opportunity presents itself, and don't abuse anyone or rob them or kill them or w/e. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shezarr 08/04/21 9:53:12 PM #14:	I think its weird when people hide who their main is/was --- The artist formerly known as RebelElite791 <cite>Shezarr posted [p:956785892] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>I think its weird when people hide who their main is/was </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Simp 08/05/21 5:49:34 AM #15:	Shezarr posted... I think its weird when people hide who their main is/was I don't really hide anything. If you don't know, it's probably because you've never bothered actually asking? My only other active account is Anony1125, though I pretty much never use it here. Before that I just used a couple of low-karma accounts I closed after a couple months in NotYou and MonkeySee. I just don't post here all that much in general, this is for all intents and purposes my main. --- Faceless goofus in a sea of alts <cite>Simp posted [p:956793809] in Do you dis... [t:79598834]...</cite> <quote>Shezarr posted... </cite> <quote>I think its weird when people hide who their main is/was</quote>I don't really hide anything. If you don't know, it's probably because you've never bothered actually asking? My only other active account is Anony1125, though I pretty much never use it here. Before that I just used a couple of low-karma accounts I closed after a couple months in NotYou and MonkeySee. I just don't post here all that much in general, this is for all intents and purposes my main. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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