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Geno4LoveGeno4L
06/29/21 7:26:18 PM
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Is it because you cannot date someone your age?

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whitelytning
06/29/21 7:27:13 PM
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No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.

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ExtremeLuchador
06/29/21 7:27:44 PM
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My Aunt married a 30-year-old marine when she was 20 or 21. They're still together after over 50 years.

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CommonStar
06/29/21 7:28:08 PM
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Because most of the time, they don't come with a lot of baggage.
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No_U_L7
06/29/21 7:28:52 PM
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whitelytning posted...
No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.

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Pepys Monster
06/29/21 7:28:53 PM
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Stop making these shitty topics.

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Gamerguymass
06/29/21 7:31:44 PM
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whitelytning posted...
No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.

This is the answer you will get from pretty much any guy of any age. Not to mention for every year over the age of 30ish or so a women is it increases the likelihood of birth defects during pregnancy. So there is literally a downside to dating women 30+ if you want kids.

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Feline_Heart
06/29/21 7:32:29 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
This is the answer you will get from pretty much any guy of any age. Not to mention for every year over the age of 30ish or so a women is it increases the likelihood of birth defects during pregnancy. So there is literally a downside to dating women 30+ if you want kids.
Couldnt you just use a surrogate if you still wanted kids?

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h23456bca
06/29/21 7:41:18 PM
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When I was right around 30 I started dating a 20 yo. At the time I didnt realize she was quite that young, but I kept seeing her anyways. I later realized if it werent for the sex and me drinking all the time, there is no way I would have ever stayed with her for any length of time. When I was sober I found her to be annoying as hell and we really didnt click on any sort of emotional or intellectual level. I went the other way in my next relationship, started seeing someone older than me (but looks amazing) and I realized thats totally the way to go.

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Gamerguymass
06/29/21 7:41:56 PM
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Feline_Heart posted...
Couldnt you just use a surrogate if you still wanted kids?

I doubt most women in their 30s would be interested in not having their own kids and using a surrogate because their husband thinks they are to old and will harm the baby.

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jp1200
06/29/21 7:42:08 PM
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whitelytning posted...
No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.


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LincolnDuncan
06/29/21 7:42:32 PM
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who's

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Giblet_Enjoyer
06/29/21 7:42:38 PM
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whitelytning posted...
No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.

CommonStar posted...
Because most of the time, they don't come with a lot of baggage.
These seem like good answers

Especially the second one, it's basically impossible to find a woman over the age of 30 with no kids OR boyfriend, unless she has a serious mental illness or something else wrong with her

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thronedfire2
06/29/21 7:43:06 PM
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younger women are less likely to want to settle down and have kids

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sabrestorm
06/29/21 7:43:17 PM
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whitelytning posted...
No. Its because they are hotter than someone my age.


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epik_fail1
06/29/21 8:12:34 PM
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I am 8 years older than my partner(met when he was 21) and we just happened to meet each other and have an age gap

"bUt wUt dO tHeY hAvE iN cOmOn"

Why would it be impossible to have stuff in common with someone older and younger? I am sure some 60 years old share similar interests with me. Anyway we like similar video games, enjoy hiking, like seeing netflix series, etc.

Also news flash for people over 30 who say crap like "thEy ArE nOt aBlE tO gEt pEoPle tHeIr AgE".

You are not harder to get because you are over 30 and liking someone younger does not mean I would not have dated someone the same age if we connected.
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Giblet_Enjoyer
06/29/21 8:52:11 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
"bUt wUt dO tHeY hAvE iN cOmOn"
Yeah this is a ridiculous argument when you're only 10(ish) years apart. Gen X and millennials have a lot in common, so do millennials and gen Z
If you're 50 years apart it might be a good point tho

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sabrestorm
06/29/21 8:54:50 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
This is the answer you will get from pretty much any guy of any age. Not to mention for every year over the age of 30ish or so a women is it increases the likelihood of birth defects during pregnancy. So there is literally a downside to dating women 30+ if you want kids.
my friend was born when his mom was 40 and he has zero problems

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masticatingman
06/29/21 8:58:32 PM
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Ive worked with guys in their 40s/50s and I think most of them openly fantasized about dating early 20s women. About the worst dudes to go out to places like Hooters with, which they love.

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sabrestorm
06/29/21 9:01:28 PM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Yeah this is a ridiculous argument when you're only 10(ish) years apart. Gen X and millennials have a lot in common, so do millennials and gen Z
If you're 50 years apart it might be a good point tho

why? A lot of 50 years olds still game, hike and watch Netflix
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Geno4LoveGeno4L
06/29/21 9:02:36 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
I am 8 years older than my partner(met when he was 21) and we just happened to meet each other and have an age gap

"bUt wUt dO tHeY hAvE iN cOmOn"

Why would it be impossible to have stuff in common with someone older and younger? I am sure some 60 years old share similar interests with me. Anyway we like similar video games, enjoy hiking, like seeing netflix series, etc.

Also news flash for people over 30 who say crap like "thEy ArE nOt aBlE tO gEt pEoPle tHeIr AgE".

You are not harder to get because you are over 30 and liking someone younger does not mean I would not have dated someone the same age if we connected.

Don't you feel bad about dating someone who's brain is not fully developed yet?

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epik_fail1
06/29/21 9:09:31 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...


Don't you feel bad about dating someone who's brain is not fully developed yet?


That didn't even cross my mind and the brain development that happens in your 20s is not as big as the one that happens before.
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Weegee205
06/29/21 9:11:20 PM
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I've dated someone my own age but I think I'm a hypocrite because she looked 20.
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Gamerguymass
06/29/21 9:14:12 PM
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sabrestorm posted...
my friend was born when his mom was 40 and he has zero problems

That's great, do you know what the phrase 'increases the likelihood' means?

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Weegee205
06/29/21 9:21:20 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
That's great, do you know what the phrase 'increases the likelihood' means?
When a woman births their child under the age of (25?) it increases the likelihood of him/her developing problems too, I heard.

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epik_fail1
06/29/21 9:22:35 PM
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Weegee205 posted...

When a woman births their child under the age of (25?) it increases the likelihood of him/her developing problems too, I heard.



Pretty sure it's under 18
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The_Korey
06/29/21 9:24:00 PM
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"A question to people who are 30 who are dating someone whose early 20"

You guys ever start reading a topic and immediately know who the poster is before looking at the name?


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PC-Builder_Pony
06/29/21 9:25:22 PM
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Too many single mothers in my age group

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Fony
06/29/21 9:27:31 PM
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I'm 36 and recently single, have only gone on dates with or slept with 21 to 25 year olds so far. They just look better, period. Women my age are easier to get than reaching up to grab a box of cereal in my cabinet. Don't want them. Shouldn't guys who simp for older women be happy to not have to compete?

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Graycap
06/29/21 9:32:37 PM
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Aren't a lot of people married at 30?

Like you literally cannot date them. >_>
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Gamerguymass
06/29/21 9:32:48 PM
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Weegee205 posted...
When a woman births their child under the age of (25?) it increases the likelihood of him/her developing problems too, I heard.

Generally the teenage years to mid 20s is the best time for a woman to have a baby when it comes to health of her and the baby because that's how humans evolved. The average lifespan of a human out in the wild thousands of years ago was about 38, so naturally humans would evolve to be able to give birth to healthy children at a younger age like every other mammal does.

In today's society the biggest detriment to health when it comes to having children younger is insurance or lack of to be able to get the medical care needed to give birth in a safe environment, not the actual age of the woman. Plus going by statistics in the US isn't really accurate considering we have the worst infant mortality rate of all first world countries in the hospital. It's shameful.

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Weegee205
06/29/21 9:39:04 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Generally the teenage years to mid 20s is the best time for a woman to have a baby when it comes to health of her and the baby because that's how humans evolved. The average lifespan of a human out in the wild thousands of years ago was about 38, so naturally humans would evolve to be able to give birth to healthy children at a younger age like every other mammal does.

In today's society the biggest detriment to health when it comes to having children younger is insurance or lack of to be able to get the medical care needed to give birth in a safe environment, not the actual age of the woman. Plus going by statistics in the US isn't really accurate considering we have the worst infant mortality rate of all first world countries in the hospital. It's shameful.
Younger women also tend to be less equipped with raising children. They still have needs to fulfill and dreams to chase; raising a child would contribute to their unhappiness.
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kbelfisBACK
06/29/21 9:42:29 PM
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My sister has been dating someone 9yr older than her for a few years now. I think they met when she was 22 and he was 31. It works and they get along so I'm not worried abt it. Now she's going to be 26 and he's 35 so she's talking abt getting married and shit but idk if he's on board.

On the other hand me and my bf are only 4yr apart (27 and abt to be 32) and he acts like such a boomer sometimes so the gap feels even wider.

I guess it just depends on personality.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
06/29/21 10:33:00 PM
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sabrestorm posted...
why? A lot of 50 years olds still game, hike and watch Netflix
Bruh if you're 50 years old and you're 50 years older than your girlfriend...

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bsp77
06/29/21 10:38:24 PM
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I am 44 and my gf is 28. It works. Obviously, I can get people my own age. That is easy. Getting someone her age is much more of an accomplishment :)

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Cleo_II
06/29/21 10:42:38 PM
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Feline_Heart posted...
Couldnt you just use a surrogate if you still wanted kids?

Gamerguymass posted...
I doubt most women in their 30s would be interested in not having their own kids and using a surrogate because their husband thinks they are to old and will harm the baby.
Lmfao at both of these. Smh
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Frostmourne
06/29/21 10:42:46 PM
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Lol @ tc's crappy karma count.
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Geno4LoveGeno4L
06/30/21 10:05:21 AM
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Frostmourne posted...
Lol @ tc's crappy karma count.

Sorry for having a life and not posting everyday ^_^

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trappedunderice
06/30/21 10:10:02 AM
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Frostmourne posted...
Lol @ tc's crappy karma count.
It's one of his many accounts.
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--Zero-
06/30/21 10:11:24 AM
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Before I met my wife who is my age, I was looking for someone in their early 20s mainly because it was less likely they would have kids. Kids are not for me.

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Cuticrusader09
06/30/21 10:24:04 AM
#42:


Gamerguymass posted...


This is the answer you will get from pretty much any guy of any age. Not to mention for every year over the age of 30ish or so a women is it increases the likelihood of birth defects during pregnancy. So there is literally a downside to dating women 30+ if you want kids.


Lol, I had both kids in my 30s and they are fine.
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Jiek_Fafn
06/30/21 10:25:33 AM
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epik_fail1 posted...

"bUt wUt dO tHeY hAvE iN cOmOn"

This argument is very true if you're uninteresting. So I could see it being a problem for a lot of people.

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daynlokki
06/30/21 10:26:53 AM
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You know how you find a woman in my town without kids? Find her in college.
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daynlokki
06/30/21 10:27:22 AM
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Cuticrusader09 posted...
Lol, I had both kids in my 30s and they are fine.
Higher chance doesnt mean always occurs. Geriatric pregnancy is a bitch.
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Shablagoo
06/30/21 10:27:49 AM
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Gamerguymass posted...
a women



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bsp77
06/30/21 10:29:07 AM
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daynlokki posted...
Higher chance doesnt mean always occurs. Geriatric pregnancy is a bitch.
That is for over 35 and even then that is simply when defects start rising. Most of them don't really become a concern until 40s

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Lairen
06/30/21 10:30:53 AM
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Girls even find mens baggage hot for some reason while the opposite doesnt apply.

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DeroIin
06/30/21 10:32:18 AM
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Ask Jay Z with Beyonce

why do people act like those type of relationships are one sided non-consensual relationshipswhich is ironically sexist

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bsp77
06/30/21 10:32:52 AM
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Lairen posted...
Girls even find mens baggage hot for some reason while the opposite doesnt apply.
This seems to be oddly true. I think my gf is almost happy I have gotten around as much as I have because she feels like getting me to settle down with her is an accomplishment.

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epik_fail1
06/30/21 10:49:44 AM
#51:


Jiek_Fafn posted...


This argument is very true if you're uninteresting. So I could see it being a problem for a lot of people.


True. I mean I don't get it. Is there a set of interests that you are supposed to have at 21, but not at 30? What is the logic behind it?
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