Current Events > Have you ever had to cut someone out of your life and it sucked because

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This person let you let out a side of yourself that no one else you know does?

Basically I've had to cut a friend out because my GF isn't comfortable with us hanging out (and she has reason because we used to fuck, lel), but it sucks because this friend is basically my only animu friend. Like I largely don't get on with people who like anime because it seems to attract a certain kind of...manchild, so it was rare to find someone who was equally my kind of manchild. My GF is the kind of person who (perhaps rightly) cocks an eyebrow when the animu is on so it's not something we do together.

I mean it was fun to have a hype person around. Like when the new Bleach anime hits who am I gonna sit and watch that with and geek out? :(

Solution: make more friends that aren't people you've fucked previously pinky ffs

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That seems kinda controlling of your gf.

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No one wants their SO having friends they fucked.

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Drpooplol posted...

That seems kinda controlling of your gf.

Nah, there's some real context to it. The friend in this case still has feelings and last time we hung out there definitely was a non-platonic energy going on.

Like imagine if your gf wanted to go hang out at the house with a male friend who she used to bang religiously and you know the male friend still has feelings. I wouldn't be totally cool with that, so I can see why she wouldn't be.

Otherwise she's fine with female friends etc.

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pinky0926 posted...

this friend is basically my only animu friend. Like I largely don't get on with people who like anime because it seems to attract a certain kind of...manchild

Weird how some people attract the manchildren, but others have well adjusted animu friends

sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...

Weird how some people attract the manchildren, but others have well adjusted animu friends

I mean we're talking about cartoons about high school teenagers fighting monsters, being awkward about relationships and generally exploring very simplistic representations of coming of age themes, it's pretty childish all round in a way that I can't logically disassociate from MLP fandom

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And the fact you were fuck buddies but never went out is a red flag. If i was dating the girl and she told me about you id drop her real fast.

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pinky0926 posted...

Solution: make more friends that aren't people you've f***ed previously pinky ffs

lede buried

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pinky0926 posted...

My GF is the kind of person who (perhaps rightly) cocks an eyebrow when the animu is on

>perhaps rightly
dude.

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Choco posted...

>perhaps rightly
dude.

Look man let's be honest, it's not like I'm watching the classy shit or anything. She walks in right at the moment when the entire cast of Food Wars starts losing all their clothing and having full body orgasms, porn would be easier to explain

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Saying "animu" is a red flag. Leave immediately.


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I can be ur new animu friend

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had to with a friend after highschool, he started drinking like a fish and driving while doing it and it brought back horrible memories. had known him since kindergarten so it sucked.

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Drpooplol posted...

That seems kinda controlling of your gf.

Thats what I thought too but Tc but the friend is female so fair next

Actually, yeah - but they turned out to be obsessed with race only jokes for the sake of it so I drew the line

I mean, Im used to dumping on myself and others and dont mind a funny joke when its funny but that became the primary focus in trying to get a rise out of me so I basically cashed in my chips and left

Trying to train someone by dealing with it wont work - Im just as stubborn and willing to walk my own distance as a man so I dont have to deal with this current episode of schizo politics

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RedJackson posted...

Actually, yeah - but they turned out to be obsessed with race only jokes for the sake of it so I drew the line

I mean, Im used to dumping on myself and others and dont mind a funny joke when its funny but that became the primary focus in trying to get a rise out of me so I basically cashed in my chips and left

Trying to train someone by dealing with it wont work - Im just as stubborn and willing to walk my own distance as a man so I dont have to deal with episode of schizo politics

Nothin funny about NASCAR. Woulda dun da same thing.

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pinky0926 posted...

cocks

lel
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Lairen posted...

Nothin funny about NASCAR. Woulda dun da same thing.

Basically it all came to a head when I reminded them they cant say the n word and they asked me well why can black people say it and from there it just became this 500% increase in racial things since I called them bitches

At first I was like oh youre white so you dont have that social tact to understand these other things in regards to other things - but the schpiel involving the use of the n word was so blatant and I already know what they were trying to do so I basically just told them to act like men or gtfo

This is not to mention the time we got into blows over me bitching them out in public for trying to make a transitioning person feel bad.. we have a long history as musical brothers together but screw that

they werent joking anymore about a fucked up joke, it was literal dissatisfaction over a presidency that they wanted everyone at every moment to feel


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RedJackson posted...

Basically it all came to a head when I reminded them they cant say the n word and they asked me well why can black people say it and from there it just became this 500% increase in racial things since I called them bitches

At first I was like oh youre white so you dont have that social tact to understand these other things in regards to other things - but the schpiel involving the use of the n word was so blatant and I already know what they were trying to do so I basically just told them to act like men or gtfo

This is not to mention the time we got into blows over me bitching them out in public for trying to make a transitioning person feel bad.. we have a long history as musical brothers together but screw that

they werent joking anymore about a fucked up joke, it was literal dissatisfaction over a presidency that they wanted everyone at every moment to feel

They made fun of a trans person to their face?