Current Events > You don't have to take rejection hard.

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Just because a woman turns you down, that doesn't mean she thinks you're ugly, low-value, or any other negative thing. Maybe there was something she did like about you, but you just have different hobbies or worldviews. Maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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But it is because I'm ugly and low value

trust me, i was soft

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DarthAragorn posted...

But it is because I'm ugly and low value

Unless she says this, how do you know for sure? And how many women do you ask out? I'm willing to bet not many. You could try asking out the thick girl at work who nobody pays much attention to instead of the skinny girl everyone is fighting over.

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No it's because no one will ever love me

I know it

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You of all people making this topic

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Tc disses my topic than bases his advice of the paradox I explained lmao.

eston posted...

No it's because no one will ever love me

I know it

You just feel defeated. That doesn't mean that no one will ever love you.

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Dont you still obsessively post about your ex fiance

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TheGoldenEel posted...

Dont you still obsessively post about your ex fiance

WingsOfGood posted...

Tc disses my topic than bases his advice of the paradox I explained lmao.

No, I didn't. Each woman is an individual, and there isn't one simplified reason for getting turned down.

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TheGoldenEel posted...

Dont you still obsessively post about your ex fiance

lol

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TheGoldenEel posted...

Dont you still obsessively post about your ex fiance

Losing the woman who promised we would spend the rest of our lives together is difficult and depressing compared to asking some girl out and getting turned down. Who would've thought?

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Pepys Monster posted...

No, I didn't. Each woman is an individual, and there isn't one simplified reason for getting turned down.

I never said there was a simplified reason. Guess you refused to read the op.
The generalization is that they decide quickly if you are datable and then treat that opinion as a fact. But truth is, deapite what they think, it is quite malleable. Thus a paradox.

WingsOfGood posted...

I never said there was a simplified reason. Guess you refused to read the op.
The generalization is that they decide quickly if you are datable and then treat that opinion as a fact. But truth is, deapite what they think, it is quite malleable. Thus a paradox.

That isn't even a paradox. If that were true, that would just be a misunderstanding.

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Pepys Monster posted...

That isn't even a paradox. If that were true, that would just be a misunderstanding.

The paradox is the woman who says she will never ever date you can easily fall in love with you.
However, I don't recommend spending much time or energy to realize this scenario.
Some men do and fail and some succeed. Either way it will be hell until she does change her mind.

Pepys Monster posted...

Losing the woman who promised we would spend the rest of our lives together is difficult and depressing compared to asking some girl out and getting turned down. Who would've thought?

Hey man, just know that you don't have to take rejection hard.

Just because a woman turns you down, that doesn't mean she thinks you're ugly, low-value, or any other negative thing. Maybe there was something she did like about you, but you just have different hobbies or worldviews. Maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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WingsOfGood posted...

The paradox is the woman who says she will never ever date you can easily fall in love with you.
However, I don't recommend spending much time or energy to realize this scenario.
Some men do and fail and some succeed. Either way it will be hell until she does change her mind.

What are you basing this on, movies? If she says she'll never, ever date you, then why even bother with her?

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TheGoldenEel posted...

Hey man, just know that you don't have to take rejection hard.

Just because a woman turns you down, that doesn't mean she thinks you're ugly, low-value, or any other negative thing. Maybe there was something she did like about you, but you just have different hobbies or worldviews. Maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

That isn't rejection, though. That's a breakup. Learn the difference.

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Pepys Monster posted...

That isn't rejection, though. That's a breakup. Learn the difference.

Someone breaking up with you is rejection

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Pepys Monster posted...

What are you basing this on, movies? If she says she'll never, ever date you, then why even bother with her?

After your fiance dumped you, what did you do?
Did you attempt to get back together?

TheGoldenEel posted...

Someone breaking up with you is rejection

I'm clearly talking about asking a girl out in this topic. Take your trolling elsewhere.

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Its not because youre low value; its because she has higher value options.

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Pepys Monster posted...

I'm clearly talking about asking a girl out in this topic. Take your trolling elsewhere.

Im just trying to let you know that maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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TheGoldenEel posted...

Im just trying to let you know that maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

I know a girl who dumped her fiance very close to the wedding. She said she realized the guy was bad for her.

That doesn't mean he is bad for other women though.

TheGoldenEel posted...

Im just trying to let you know that maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Oh, I see. You're mad because a girl you liked turned you down, and you've never had a girlfriend. So to you, it was equivalent to losing someone. Just wait. One day, you'll know true loss.

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What about injection?

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Pepys Monster posted...

Oh, I see. You're mad because a girl you liked turned you down, and you've never had a girlfriend. So to you, it was equivalent to losing someone. Just wait. One day, you'll know true loss.

You seem upset at his last comment.

Yeah, I know. I don't. Haven't since I was maybe 16.

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Pepys Monster posted...

Oh, I see. You're mad because a girl you liked turned you down, and you've never had a girlfriend. So to you, it was equivalent to losing someone. Just wait. One day, you'll know true loss.

I actually just got married a month ago

I have experienced the loss of long-term relationships, but ultimately, I realized that maybe another guy just seemed like a better match for her, for whatever reason. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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