Current Events > So I went out to a bar yesterday

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First time I did some nightlife stuff in a long time. Such a blatant disregard for covid, the only people wearing masks were the staff.

Played jenga on this giant jenga set at the bar and pool as well. I think overall me and group of friends looked pretty good, we were well behaved and my friend is a security guard there so we felt very comfortable.

My buddy kept hitting on woman, respect to him, as a rule of thumb I never offer to purchase women drinks, I've also become much more distrustful of strangers after my last relationship.

Here's the kicker, as soon as I got home I got a friend request from my ex fiance. Very strange timing and was pretty unexpected.

And the bonus is after I accepted her friend request she liked my 2 week old status about how we shouldn't have regrets about our exs and how we should forgive them and move on with our lives.

I'm not entirely sure what she wants. Part of me wishes we were still together, we spent 3 years together and lived together for 2 and a half of those years. We broke up over some petty family stuff, she was mad I didn't go on vacation with her family and I was mad she didnt take Christmas off work to celebrate it with my family.

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What are we supposed to do with this info?

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lincoln002 posted...

Such a blatant disregard for covid

Yes, yes you did.
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I kept waiting for the story to get interesting but then it ended.

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Well... ok. Do you have a question for us?

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today my fiancee made me lunch and i was super happy for it. shes great. i love her a lot.

lmao good luck not buying girls drinks TC

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dj1200 posted...

Well... ok. Do you have a question for us?

Yeah, what do you guys think my ex wants? Why did she reach out to me now?

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lincoln002 posted...

Yeah, what do you guys think my ex wants? Why did she reach out to me now?

were not your ex, dont know her, so how could we answer?

if we had pics maybe we could help idk

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lincoln002 posted...

Yeah, what do you guys think my ex wants? Why did she reach out to me now?

There's literally no way for us to know this. Maybe she wants to be friends, maybe she wants to rekindle the old flame, maybe this is part of her getting over the relationship, maybe she got dumped by some other dude and is looking for some comfort. Hard to not think about, but I would try to avoid thinking about it until she contacts you.

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Actual true story inbound
>be me
>17 at the time
>beta loser who can't get laid for the life of him
>pathological fear of girls since middle school, when some bitch mind fucked me
>have a younger sister, 16 at this time
>my sister is boy crazy, really wants to date someone
>announces that she's "seeing someone"
>father and I start discussing plans on how to shoot the bastard.
>few days later, brings the dude home
>tall, scrawny kid with brown hair and glasses
>visibly nervous
>my father and I sit down and tell him that he's "walked into the courtroom"
>discuss for a few minutes
>they go out
>dad tells me "it isn't going to last"
>sis comes home
>announces it was "fun"
>around a week later, my sister tells me that her bf previously dated a college girl
>she's worried that he secretly wants this college girl back
>about a week later, overhear a conversation between my sister and my mother
>"We're not a thing anymore"
>tryingtoholdbacklaughter.jpg
>tell my father this
>laughs uncontrollably
>mfw my dad predicted exactly how his daughter's first relationship would go down

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