Current Events > Showerthought: Do girls have to "learn" how to talk to guys.

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 1:23:31 PM
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Talking to girls is considered an art. Something a man must strive for and is not born with.
Even men who reject this notion will learn quickly that girls agree. A girl will say "you don't know how to talk to women do you?"

I wonder why society first came up with such a strange dynamic. There is no art to talking to guys. You just say whatever you want, however you want.
I almost feel like this was likely imposed by women to separate men into heirarchies. If a dude knows how to talk to them that is, he actually studied and practiced it. It is kinda like having a degree at a job interview.
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ToPoPO
07/08/20 1:25:18 PM
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I'm leaning more to the no, but that's mostly because they just have to "learn" to talk to people in general

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Guide
07/08/20 1:26:40 PM
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I think it's just part of the dynamic of one side being inherently more physically imposing.

That being said, it is only very recently in human history that a woman could just "whatever, whenever".

Also @ToPoPO brings up a good point: People that can't talk to girls either can't really talk to anyone in a formal setting, or just get nervous around girls.

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Feline_Heart
07/08/20 1:28:38 PM
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I think they do. They have to be aware of how they present themselves so that guys dont judge them negatively

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AlephZero
07/08/20 1:31:33 PM
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the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

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No_U_L7
07/08/20 1:35:15 PM
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no, they are more socially conditioned to talk
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DespondentDeity
07/08/20 1:35:17 PM
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Incel thoughts.

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Pus_N_Pecans
07/08/20 1:35:24 PM
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To some degree, but the guys who dont know how to talk to girls are usually just super sleazy or awkward or both. They generally arent good at talking to anyone.

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COVxy
07/08/20 1:36:40 PM
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"You don't know how to talk to a woman" is usually code for "instead of talking to her like a human being, you were approaching her like a walking vagina".

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 1:38:44 PM
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COVxy posted...
"You don't know how to talk to a woman" is usually code for "instead of talking to her like a human being, you were approaching her like a walking vagina".

Actually the setting I seen it in was the reverse. The girl wanted the guy to compliment her nails and he did not and she got mad and said he needed to learn how to talk to women.
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Sad_Face
07/08/20 1:39:07 PM
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They have to learn to say "no" and not get peer pressured. And they have to learn to discern between guys who are only talking to them to get in their pants, and guys who are genuinely interested in them, whether platonically or romantically.

So I wouldn't say they have to learn how to talk to guys, but they have to learn how to not get taken advantage of. Might as well say yes for technicality purposes.
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EndOfDiscOne
07/08/20 1:41:11 PM
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Some girls are really good at landing the dude they want, but that's fairly rare. Most can just sit around and wait for the right Chad.

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averagejoel
07/08/20 1:58:05 PM
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this premise is completely ludicrous and comes off as more of an incel thought than a shower thought

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 2:26:57 PM
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averagejoel posted...
this premise is completely ludicrous and comes off as more of an incel thought than a shower thought

To be fair, if a thread isn't a little ludicrous, you guys wouldn't be posting.
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Sad_Face
07/08/20 4:52:11 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
To be fair, if a thread isn't a little ludicrous, you guys wouldn't be posting.


It's not ludicrous. Men and women have distinct differences. Try to talking to women about investing and they'll shut you down.
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Dark_SilverX
07/08/20 4:53:14 PM
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AlephZero posted...
the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by anything
Fixed dat for ya bruv

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COVxy
07/08/20 4:54:30 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
Men and women have distinct differences.

Well, that's true enough...

Sad_Face posted...
Try to talking to women about investing and they'll shut you down.

Whoops.

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Tyranthraxus
07/08/20 4:55:12 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
It's not ludicrous. Men and women have distinct differences. Try to talking to women about investing and they'll shut you down.

I mean if you talk to someone like Elizabeth Holmes about investing she'll run circles around you and make you look like an idiot.

She'd still be racking up profit if she wasn't arrested for committing every crime possible.

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BudDupree48
07/08/20 4:56:09 PM
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Some girls are really easy to talk to and some its just a chore. Up to you to adapt i guess or try something else

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kriztov1
07/08/20 5:00:44 PM
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Y'all would have a lot better luck with women of you remembered that they're actually human beings and go from there. I seriously don't get these "I hate the wimminfolk" nerd spirals I see around these parts. Y'all are in desperate needed of being Queer Eyed.

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EndOfDiscOne
07/08/20 5:05:48 PM
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Btw another thank you to @Sad_Face for selling me on Chainlink. It's hitting all time highs and it's currently my best performing asset.

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Fam_Fam
07/08/20 5:06:52 PM
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have you seen a woman with bad social skills?

that should answer the question
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fan357
07/08/20 5:08:12 PM
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I know a couple of beautiful women that are super awkward to talk to.

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LordMarshal
07/08/20 5:08:54 PM
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Youve got nice nails

Is guy code for:

I dont care about your nails. Lets have a sexual relationship.

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 5:09:40 PM
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LordMarshal posted...
Youve got nice nails

Is guy code for:

I dont care about your nails. Lets have a sexual relationship.

Well she asked the dude if he liked her nails. He didn't care.
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SmidgeIsntBack
07/08/20 5:10:40 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
It's not ludicrous. Men and women have distinct differences. Try to talking to women about investing and they'll shut you down.

Amazing.

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Sad_Face
07/08/20 5:10:48 PM
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Tyranthraxus posted...
I mean if you talk to someone like Elizabeth Holmes about investing she'll run circles around you and make you look like an idiot.

She'd still be racking up profit if she wasn't arrested for committing every crime possible.

Come on bruh. If she were legit, she wouldn't be 2 squares off from being in jail.

COVxy posted...
Whoops.

Why don't you get into crypto and see what it's like? It's male dominated not because women are oppressed but because they literally don't give a shit about the field. They don't take risks. They leave it to the guys who are taking risks for them. In fact, a major motivation for guys in investing is because of women on one way or another. "She shattered my heart". "I want to be worth a damn to get the ladies" and so on and so on.
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LordMarshal
07/08/20 5:12:05 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Well she asked the dude if he liked her nails. He didn't care.

The answer is:

Wow, i love your nails!

Which is guy code for:

I dont care about your nails. Lets have a sexual relationship.

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Smackems
07/08/20 5:14:11 PM
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Weird question

INCEL THOUGHTS

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Sad_Face
07/08/20 6:06:30 PM
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EndOfDiscOne posted...
Btw another thank you to Sad_Face for selling me on Chainlink. It's hitting all time highs and it's currently my best performing asset.

@EndOfDiscOne

No problem, it's my way of giving back to this community, though it's a bit of a mismatch because you need an investing mindset or be a risk taker to take advantage of of the opportunity.

In any case, DO NOT SELL. The price could be $6. $60. $600. Whatever. DO NOT SELL. This is going to be the internet of the blockchain. China has already announced they're using Chainlink as their main oracle provider for their upcoming smart city. So many other major enterprises as as well as literally 99% of the blockchain industry is using Chainlink for their oracle needs. Right now Chainlink is driving the Decentralized Finance field at this moment. The ceiling is sky high as we approach the upcoming smart contract revolution, so please, develop iron hands and HODL.
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Drug_Smoker
07/08/20 6:07:38 PM
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Women have to learn how to not get sexually assaulted while men just have to worry about having words come out of their mouth in the proximity to a vagina.


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The23rdMagus
07/08/20 6:07:58 PM
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Pretty sure I've had dates where we both needed a few glasses of wine to actually open up and flirt.

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DoctorPiranha3
07/08/20 6:09:08 PM
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Girls can be shy just like how guys can be shy.

Weird topic.
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Guide
07/08/20 6:13:38 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
Come on bruh. If she were legit, she wouldn't be 2 squares off from being in jail.

Why don't you get into crypto and see what it's like? It's male dominated not because women are oppressed but because they literally don't give a shit about the field. They don't take risks. They leave it to the guys who are taking risks for them. In fact, a major motivation for guys in investing is because of women on one way or another. "She shattered my heart". "I want to be worth a damn to get the ladies" and so on and so on.

You wonder why you're a virgin.

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 6:23:41 PM
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LordMarshal posted...
The answer is:

Wow, i love your nails!

Which is guy code for:

I dont care about your nails. Lets have a sexual relationship.

Ok? Maybe he didn't want a sexual relationship with that girl.
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LordMarshal
07/08/20 6:31:54 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Ok? Maybe he didn't want a sexual relationship with that girl.

Oh so he said:

I dont care about your nails

Which is guy code for:

I dont care about your nails. Youre ugly. Lets not have a sexual relationship.

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WingsOfGood
07/08/20 10:03:26 PM
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CalypsoDoom posted...
Idk but topics like this sure arent helping anyone as it turns into an incel circlejerk every time someone makes a topic about REEEEEEmales

Where itt is it an incel circlejerk? All I see is a few crying incel just for the sake of it.
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