Current Events > Girl Told Me She's Had Sex With More Than 35 Men. Is This Normal?

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@lydiaquayle

Average =/= Normal

Heavy people are above average in weight, but aren't considered 'abnormal' people.

Show me the statistics of what the average weight is for people in the USA. Since you made the claim, I'm sure you have no trouble supporting it with proper evidence and all

Thank you

35 is a lot and it's not shaming to say that, wtf. saying someone has a lot or a little bit of something is just pointing out how much that amounts relates to others. the vast majority of people don't have 35 partners throughout their whole lives, let alone by 25. it's only shaming if you say she's a bad person cause of that

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ThyCorndog posted...

35 is a lot and it's not shaming to say that, wtf. saying someone has a lot or a little bit of something is just pointing out how much that amounts relates to others. the vast majority of people don't have 35 partners throughout their whole lives, let alone by 25. it's only shaming if you say she's a bad person cause of that

again, it isn't a lot. That boils down to 4 partners a year assuming they were active since 17. With college being the years of experimentation, half that number could have been gotten in the span of 2-3 years.

Ivany2008 posted...

again, it isn't a lot. That boils down to 4 partners a year assuming they were active since 17. With college being the years of experimentation, half that number could have been gotten in the span of 2-3 years.

that's a nice mathematical breakdown but most people don't do that. most people don't have 35 partners. it's definitely doable by breaking it down the way you did, but that's totally irrelevant and besides the fact that most people don't have 35 partners by the time they're 25

there's nothing wrong with having that many partners. but it's still a lot in relation to the general population. if you made a bell curve on people vs the number of partners they've had, 35 would be past the main part of the curve on the right side

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if I could have 35 partners by then I'd probably have way more than that. yall are crazy

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Ivany2008 posted...

again, it isn't a lot. That boils down to 4 partners a year assuming they were active since 17. With college being the years of experimentation, half that number could have been gotten in the span of 2-3 years.

You do realize the majority of women in the world average single digits in sexual partners in their lifetime right?

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DepreceV2 posted...

You do realize the majority of women in the world average single digits in sexual partners in their lifetime right?

No, whered you hear this?

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That's a good thing TC

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Freeney posted...

No, whered you hear this?

2018

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/average-number-of-sexual-partners

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They asked 2000 people and you assume its how much everyone is? How your life is defined depends on where you live. For example, someone from Maine probably eats more seafood than someone from Texas where there is a lot of Barbecue. Even in the article it says that it varies depending on where you live. Utah had 3 people, while Louisiana had 16.

2000 people does not define an entire populace.

Ivany2008 posted...

They asked 2000 people and you assume its how much everyone is? How your life is defined depends on where you live. For example, someone from Maine probably eats more seafood than someone from Texas where there is a lot of Barbecue. Even in the article it says that it varies depending on where you live. Utah had 3 people, while Louisiana had 16.

2000 people does not define an entire populace.

I understand that. However, it is a far better source than a random guy on the internet giving the numbers he received from a handful of women. Odds are higher too that they didnt lie on a official poll vs their friends


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Didnt read any responses in topic but I've become friends with these 2 random girls when we started our job training together and they're 24 and 28 and both of them have body counts in 30+ range with one of the girls telling me shes done 2 guys in one night (was unsure if it was a train or if she left one place to go to another place). Kinda grossed me out tbh and I was actually starting to catch feeling for the one.

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Fenrimis posted...

Kinda grossed me out tbh and I was actually starting to catch feeling for the one.

Your instincts haven't been dulled by today's nonsense. Thats good. Listen to your gut.

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Freeney posted...

How do you get that she cant have a serious/stable relationship, because of her sexual history? Maybe she wasnt ready to settle down at 25 and chose to have her fun while shes still young...thats a possibility.

Maybe out of those 35 guys, five were serious which automatically squashes your shes incapable of having a serious relationship.... If TC isnt going to fuck her because hes insecure and indecisive, then someone else will.

Not even sure why it matters or why people are assuming the worst because of how many guys shes been with. She can get an STI/STD with guy number one as easily as guy number fifteen.

5 serious boyfriends in a timespan if 17-25 means that these "serious" relationships were lasting less than 7 months for the most part. 7 months isn't serious.

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Like 2/3 of this thread is one guy responding to himself with throwaway alts to troll w some boring ass misogynistic garbage

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mattymad posted...

This just in: lonely CEmen don't realise you can have sex with people you've only just met, or have only known a couple weeks.

Most people in their early 20s, especially at like college/uni go round crushing it. No one has time for a full blown commitment, everyone moves away after college anyway, etc. As long as everyone's safe, it's healthy and fun.

It doesn't take a year of simping/'getting to know them' to get laid.

This is entirely false

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Perascamin posted...

This is entirely false

compelling evidence