Current Events > i remember once i tried really hard to get at this girl. i gave her everything

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_BIueMonk
12/28/19 3:38:44 AM
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once she told me she was very hungry and didn't have time to buy lunch. so i spent 2 hours cooking her a dish and delivered it to her personally. she told me she loved it and appreciated the meal.

and then for 3 or 4 months, i did everything i could to be near her, with her, around her. if she was hungry i got her food. if she needed help i helped her. anything and everything.

and then she dated a girl.

and now, you wonder, how i got with my now fiancee?
i got really drunk and was like we should make out and we did and now we're getting married.

moral of the story is, if you want something fucking go for it. dont beat around the bush. dont do any of that r/niceguy shit. DO THE DAMN THING.

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HBOSS
12/28/19 3:40:42 AM
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https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0

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_BIueMonk
12/28/19 3:41:49 AM
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HBOSS posted...
https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
Exactly. Love your work. How's Ren

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_BIueMonk
12/28/19 1:18:23 PM
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Up

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Lost_All_Senses
12/28/19 1:29:59 PM
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Are you sure the lesson isn't to not give your all to a gay women and expect her to change her sexuality for you?

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_BIueMonk
12/28/19 1:56:51 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Are you sure the lesson isn't to not give your all to a gay women and expect her to change her sexuality for you?
she wasn't gay when i liked her

i think


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Akagami_Shanks
12/28/19 2:05:52 PM
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the lesson is to not do shit like this for girls you aren't dating

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Ultima Dragon
12/28/19 2:09:38 PM
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Akagami_Shanks posted...
the lesson is to not do shit like this for girls you aren't dating

This, it's not going to win them over.. just make them think less of you (or worse, creep them out).

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TheBlueMonk_
12/28/19 2:10:43 PM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
This, it's not going to win them over.. just make them think less of you (or worse, creep them out).
true. though she was happy to recieve all these things from me.

apparently all i had to do was sing her a song
oh and have a vagina.

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Lost_All_Senses
12/28/19 2:10:50 PM
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_BIueMonk posted...
she wasn't gay when i liked her

i think

She probably was. But if she wasn't out the closet then you weren't really trying to change her sexuality. I was a lil extra there. But I always felt if someone offers their hand and keeps getting less than they expect back, it becomes their fault for continuing to put into that.

And I've put a lot into women without getting what I wanted out of it. But I realized it was by choice. I never ended up having resentment for the person. Probably helped that I never closed myself off to other women. But while fooling around I could never get emotionally attached to anyone else. No idea if it was just that I didn't like the other chicks personalities enough or if I was just hung up. Either way, I chose my position.

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meralonne
12/28/19 2:11:59 PM
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_BIueMonk posted...
she wasn't gay when i liked her

i think
Unlikely.

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Lost_All_Senses
12/28/19 2:12:08 PM
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TheBlueMonk_ posted...
apparently all i had to do was sing her a song

Lol, coincidentally, one the girls Im talking about use to call and sing to me. That was part of what hooked me. Sirens are real bruh

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Akagami_Shanks
12/28/19 2:57:30 PM
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take it from personal experience, unless you guys are dear friends, you shouldn't be buying gifts and shit for girls without dating. That's how you run into these beta cucks who feel like they are owed sex for doing something nice.

Sorry, you shouldn't be buying gifts/doing things IF you are going at it with the intention to date and its pretty obviously one sided so far. If you get an "aw thanks" you're probably in the friendzone tbh

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