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dib153
12/09/19 6:51:52 PM
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Jesus christ people, just because she doesmt wanna fuck a black dude doesnt make her racist by default, theres this concept called sexual preferences?

What the fuck is wrong with yall

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StealthRock
12/09/19 6:51:57 PM
#53:


Vol2tex posted...
(extreme example)

Would you turn down an intelligent, successful, magnanimous person of a certain skin color, but date a loser, unemployed drug-addict who shares your skin color?
The logical answer would be you would date neither. I dont think most people are so undiscerning that they would chase a loser just because that person meets baseline physical requirments.

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Funkydog
12/09/19 6:52:25 PM
#54:


XXmiznatorXX posted...
No i wouldnt, because Im not attracted to Asians. Ive actually been in this scenario before, but at the end of the day I just wasnt attracted to her. Its just my preference. That same Asian girl ironically, doesnt date Asians and has a thing only for white and black guys.

i mean, preference and attraction is pretty important. If you knew a girl, and her personality was 100% banging amazing and awesome, you had amazing chemistry, but she was severely obese, missing teeth, and had bad breath, would you still date her?

It's just preference man. Doesnt mean anyone literally hates a race.
I mean, I've definitely dated guys I've not been physically attracted to because I got on that well with them.

Ultimately, like I said in my edit, date whoever you want. No one can stop you and nor should we in the end.

I still just it odd how people can refuse to date "all asians" as if an Indian person and a Chinese look anything alike.

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Fony
12/09/19 6:52:30 PM
#55:


Funkydog posted...
Let's say you met a woman/man/whatever you're into and they had a personality you meshed with perfectly. Would their race matter to you? All the various races have a wide range of looks and to not like them all would be a great stretch. Asians from India don't look like Asians from China, for example. You can get some very light skinned ones and ones with... so it goes on.

My point, ultimately, is that lumping everyone from a giant range into one group is silly and makes little sense. You simply can't say they all have features you dislike. A white person from Scandinavian countries doesn't look like a Greek person and while someone may not be physically attracted to one, it shouldn't mean all of them are beyond the realm of attraction.

Yes, people are allowed their preferences and if you are more attracted to X than Y, then you are more attracted to X than Y and that is 100% alright. I simply disagree with taking the next step and saying I will never consider all of X because some of Y have a trait I dislike. Like, if you dislike big ears? Fine, but does that mean you are now not going to date all of X because some have big ears?

In the end, date who ever you want and don't date whoever you don't want. There is no way to change that and nor should we.

Outside of work and school this is almost impossible as you wouldn't even bother getting to know someone who you outright aren't attracted to. Even if you did, if women are in reach who meet your preference of course you wouldn't give her a chance. You can also get along with and fall in love with women that you actually like!

Example: There are several single women who are in my preferred income bracket at my job and they all look good. 7/10 or better. One in particular I've grown to be really close to(i'm engaged so not romantically) and one could say our personalities "mesh" well. She is too tall for me(taller than me) and her breasts are too small. Physically, although she is extremely good looking, I would not go for her at all if I was single.

I can get women that fit my physical preferences, and so I will. Period. My fiance is still beautiful, she's the right height and has huge tits.

I feel no guilt for tall women with small breasts nor feel bad about writing them off as dating options. I don't fucking want to date them and I won't.

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XXmiznatorXX
12/09/19 6:54:21 PM
#56:


Funkydog posted...
I mean, I've definitely dated guys I've not been physically attracted to because I got on that well with them.

Ultimately, like I said in my edit, date whoever you want. No one can stop you and nor should we in the end.

I still just it odd how people can refuse to date "all asians" as if an Indian person and a Chinese look anything alike.

its just my dating preferences. I only date what I like.

If a black girl was pressed on you, but you told me you didnt like black women (or men...cant tell if youre a guy or not), I am a black man would say cool, hey lets grab a beer. I certainly wouldnt think youre a racist because of it.
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Vol2tex
12/09/19 6:54:56 PM
#57:


StealthRock posted...
The logical answer would be you would date neither. I dont think most people are so undiscerning that they would chase a loser just because that person meets baseline physical requirments.

I've actually seen it, women dating guys who are the same race or a preferred race but are losers or outright abusive towards them, but the women still claim that they wouldn't date a black guy.

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StealthRock
12/09/19 6:55:41 PM
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Fony posted...
race determines how you look for the most part...how you look determines attraction. motives can be racist, but they're not necessarily racist. stop being outraged on our behalf please.
This

Thank you. Black men can choose what offends us. Most times chicks like this we wouldnt even want anyways

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pauIie
12/09/19 6:56:02 PM
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irreconcilable subject that i question why it still gets posted here

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XXmiznatorXX
12/09/19 6:57:02 PM
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Fony posted...
Outside of work and school this is almost impossible as you wouldn't even bother getting to know someone who you outright aren't attracted to. Even if you did, if women are in reach who meet your preference of course you wouldn't give her a chance. You can also get along with and fall in love with women that you actually like!

Example: There are several single women who are in my preferred income bracket at my job and they all look good. 7/10 or better. One in particular I've grown to be really close to(i'm engaged so not romantically) and one could say our personalities "mesh" well. She is too tall for me(taller than me) and her breasts are too small. Physically, although she is extremely good looking, I would not go for her at all if I was single.

I can get women that fit my physical preferences, and so I will. Period. My fiance is still beautiful, she's the right height and has huge tits.

I feel no guilt for tall women with small breasts nor feel bad about writing them off as dating options. I don't fucking want to date them and I won't.

This! 100%

also...you should um, post pics of your fiances bewbs for...reasons..

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alimajor
12/09/19 6:57:13 PM
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Shes ugly af anyway lol
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StealthRock
12/09/19 6:57:42 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
I've actually seen it, women dating guys who are the same race or a preferred race but are losers or outright abusive towards them, but the women still claim that they wouldn't date a black guy.
Ive seen it too. Thats why i said most, not all. Like i mentioned earlier, the persons reasoning is what makes racism.

If a person is in a bad situation, that speaks more about their personal shortcomings rather than their physical preferences.

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Funkydog
12/09/19 7:00:24 PM
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Fony posted...
I feel no guilt for tall women with small breasts nor feel bad about writing them off as dating options. I don't fucking want to date them and I won't.
No one is saying you need to.

My point has been that if someone's race is the issue, then why is that the issue. Someone's "race" is far too broad a spectrum. A Swiss and a Greek don't look terribly alike. An Indian and a Chinese person don't look terribly alike. Yet they are both considered the same race (white and asian respectively)

I guess this could just be me being pedantic on word choice and therefore wasting too much time of course. Which I admit could be true.

XXmiznatorXX posted...
its just my dating preferences. I only date what I like.

If a black girl was pressed on you, but you told me you didnt like black women (or men...cant tell if youre a guy or not), I am a black man would say cool, hey lets grab a beer. I certainly wouldnt think youre a racist because of it.
I date all genders, just to make it extra confusing!

In the end, it's your choice to date who you want and our sexual preferences aren't things we should be looked down on for. Actual racists will make it known they are what they are easily enough anyway. Don't need to look at who someone is dating ( or wants to date) for that.

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Lairen
12/09/19 7:00:44 PM
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Ok i legit wonder if:

You meet a partner thats attractive with similar hobbies. I mean yall really hit it off. And theyre like "Wow, i never met someone as attractive as you that also like (insert your specific dorky hobby). You wanna like see a movie or something sometime? My treat."

So theyd be like:

"Whoa! Sorry, i dont date people of your race"

Seriously?

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emblem boy
12/09/19 7:00:59 PM
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I find it weird that people aren't attracted to a whole race, to be weird in general. I tend to think they're being way to general or something, or maybe I'm taking their statement too literal.

Like, you're telling me you can go to any big metro area, and say you can't find an attractive person of every race?
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DrizztLink
12/09/19 7:02:29 PM
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Fony
12/09/19 7:03:58 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
I've actually seen it, women dating guys who are the same race or a preferred race but are losers or outright abusive towards them, but the women still claim that they wouldn't date a black guy.

How many black women who are the breadwinner to a lazy abusive asshole are looking to trade him for a white or Asian guy?

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Kastrada
12/09/19 7:08:42 PM
#68:


Fony posted...
I feel no guilt for tall women with small breasts nor feel bad about writing them off as dating options. I don't fucking want to date them and I won't.

But i think the missed connection between both sides of this argument is that, with regards to your specific physical desires:

Height and weight and breast size are actual measurable factors. You can see a person and determine those things.

But race, you can't always do that. You can have a 100% white person look darker than a lot of black people and also have a black person be lighter than most white people. Race, as biological and sociological concept, is not neat and tidy. It's wide ranging, diverse, and not easily definable.

So when someone says they won't date x-race, that's where people drop the racist-label since it boxes so much inner-diversity. It's not about white liberals being offended on black mens' behalf. Well I mean there are probably people that are doing that.

But specifically for this topic and some of the responses, I think it's more them pointing out that race isn't like the measurable (hair color, eye color, height, weight, etc..)

TLDR: People are not saying it's racist to not have a preference for lighter skin or darker skin or wrong to have height/weight preferences. They are saying it's racist to umbrella term and write off an entire group of people. I think... >_>

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Funkydog
12/09/19 7:10:34 PM
#69:


Kastrada posted...
TLDR: People are not saying it's racist to not have a preference for lighter skin or darker skin or wrong to have height/weight preferences. They are saying it's racist to umbrella term and write off an entire group of people. I think... >_>
What I've been (probably poorly) trying to say, yes.

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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
12/09/19 7:11:35 PM
#70:


Funkydog posted...

What I've been (probably poorly) trying to say, yes.

We both said it. The other posters seem to be, I don't want to say "purposely to double back on the logic" but... trying to double back on the logic
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Vol2tex
12/09/19 7:15:09 PM
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Also, if you look at the Henry Louis Gates show which traces ancestry, many people don't fit into a neat line of racial ancestry.

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ThanksUglyGod
12/09/19 7:22:39 PM
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Lmao it's always the pastiest ass girls who say this
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StealthRock
12/09/19 7:29:27 PM
#73:


Kastrada posted...
But i think the missed connection between both sides of this argument is that, with regards to your specific physical desires:

Height and weight and breast size are actual measurable factors. You can see a person and determine those things.

But race, you can't always do that. You can have a 100% white person look darker than a lot of black people and also have a black person be lighter than most white people. Race, as biological and sociological concept, is not neat and tidy. It's wide ranging, diverse, and not easily definable.

So when someone says they won't date x-race, that's where people drop the racist-label since it boxes so much inner-diversity. It's not about white liberals being offended on black mens' behalf. Well I mean there are probably people that are doing that.

But specifically for this topic and some of the responses, I think it's more them pointing out that race isn't like the measurable (hair color, eye color, height, weight, etc..)

TLDR: People are not saying it's racist to not have a preference for lighter skin or darker skin or wrong to have height/weight preferences. They are saying it's racist to umbrella term and write off an entire group of people. I think... >_>
Since when is race this dubious thing? Just because their are a few exceptions doesnt change the rule. This goes for race as well as dating. Most people are pretty easy to tell what race they belong too. I dont know many white people who are darker than most black people nore do they have hair or faces that would lead me to assume they arent what they are.

If the terminology is problematic, then people perhaps should just say " I dont date people with X skin tone or X physical features from X ethnic groups". You can call it what you want, however, it still is a matter of preference.

The easiest thing to do is to just let people date who they like. Unless someone likes people who are abusive or dangerous then this is a non issue.

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andel
12/09/19 7:37:23 PM
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eh i dont think black guys are missing much with her tbh. she isnt particularly attractive and clearly has a shit attitude

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coh
12/09/19 7:41:38 PM
#75:


Kastrada posted...
I just have this funny thought of people saying "I would never date x-race" and then falling madly in love with someone that passes as their supposed preference. Then months later they find out their true race/ethnicity. >_>
How does that make sense lol. You can't exactly hide your ethnicity
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
12/09/19 7:42:49 PM
#76:


coh posted...
How does that make sense lol. You can't exactly hide your ethnicity

yes you can easily
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Solar_Crimson
12/09/19 7:50:49 PM
#77:


coh posted...
How does that make sense lol. You can't exactly hide your ethnicity
Look up the term "passing".

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l0gic
12/09/19 8:03:33 PM
#78:


Random girl has shallow standards.
More at 11.
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Killmonger
12/09/19 8:04:26 PM
#79:


What a strange topic.
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1NfamousACE_2
12/09/19 8:15:37 PM
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It is not racist to have a preference

It is racist to say an entire race is unattractive

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Shinobi120
12/09/19 8:21:42 PM
#81:


StealthRock posted...
I agree

Most black men honestly dont even sweat chicks that dont like us.

Only people who care about this are super liberals or black feminists

Fony posted...
sadly the loudest posters on this board.
Oh, shut up with this political crap.

I'm a black male myself & have no problem being attracted to women, whatever they're black or not.

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XXmiznatorXX
12/09/19 8:25:32 PM
#82:


Shinobi120 posted...
Oh, shut up.

I'm a black male myself & have no problem being attracted to women, whatever they're black or not.
So am i.

but I have no problem saying Im not into Asians.
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Dathrowed1
12/09/19 8:26:06 PM
#83:


StealthRock posted...
I agree

Most black men honestly dont even sweat chicks that dont like us.

Only people who care about this are super liberals or black feminists
This, I am black too but I don't see how this affects the grand scheme. We all have preferences, my dad preferred black women and guess what? He found one. That is the beauty of living in a world with 7 billion people, you can find someone you prefer

Her not being into black guys only has an effect on black guys trying to get with her

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dj1200
12/09/19 8:27:30 PM
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I'm Black and you can't be mad at someone for having a preference. I've actually been the first Black guy a lot of girls have dated. I, too, have preferences of girls that I prefer. I won't write off a whole ethnicity though. Generally, I haven't been attracted to that many Black girls. Some, sure, but they just remind me off family members lookswise. They do have the best bodies though, imo.

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StealthRock
12/09/19 8:28:16 PM
#85:


Solar_Crimson posted...
Look up the term "passing".
How often does this happen?

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StealthRock
12/09/19 8:30:20 PM
#86:


Shinobi120 posted...
Oh, shut up with this political crap.

I'm a black male myself & have no problem being attracted to women, whatever they're black or not.
So am I.

As a black male im saying most of us dont care about random chicks that dont date us. Only people who care are those liberals who are sp called offended on behalf of us or insecure black feminists

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ThrillKillFan
12/09/19 8:39:29 PM
#87:


LMFAO @DrizztLink with that image

I think I've seen that posted before but I never read all the text on the right hand side before.

As for the topic at hand, it comes down to personal preference.

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Vol2tex
12/09/19 8:45:53 PM
#88:


ThrillKillFan posted...
LMFAO @DrizztLink with that image

I think I've seen that posted before but I never read all the text on the right hand side before.

As for the topic at hand, it comes down to personal preference.

Another question is, why do so many people have this preference for excluding black people as a dating partner? She's one example but I've seen quite a bit of people saying the same thing, surprisingly often in these same types of Instagram questions too. I rarely see it stated regarding any other group of people (not that it should be either).

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SSJGrimReaper
12/09/19 8:48:15 PM
#89:


Is that Krystal

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Delirious_Beard
12/09/19 8:52:09 PM
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SSJGrimReaper posted...
Is that Krystal


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SocksForWok999
12/09/19 9:01:33 PM
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Its ok to have preferences.

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corneliusmagus
12/09/19 9:14:01 PM
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It's fine to have preferences even if they involve race (as this is possible without being racist), but with racial preferences people should have the self awareness to not publicly express them because it comes off as dickish.

Something that is never addressed in terms of racism is men and women who exclusively date a specific race that they're not part of. It almost always comes down to fetishising and stereotyping that race and not seeing people as individuals. The whole bbc genre of porn is toxic and rooted in racism, also primarily enjoyed by white racists who get off on seeing white women with what they consider a monstrous other.
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Vicious_Dios
12/09/19 9:19:28 PM
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Kastrada
12/09/19 9:20:59 PM
#94:


StealthRock posted...
How often does this happen?

A lot. And it's been happening for a long ass time. Ever since different races and ethnicities have been intermarrying and reproducing.

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Kastrada
12/09/19 9:21:47 PM
#95:


corneliusmagus posted...
Something that is never addressed in terms of racism is men and women who exclusively date a specific race that they're not part of. It almost always comes down to fetishising and stereotyping that race and not seeing people as individuals. The whole bbc genre of porn is toxic and rooted in racism, also primarily enjoyed by white racists who get off on seeing white women with what they consider a monstrous other.

This is a huge issue in Korea with the Koreaboos.

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corneliusmagus
12/09/19 9:32:50 PM
#96:


Kastrada posted...
This is a huge issue in Korea with the Koreaboos.
Presumably white guys wanting what they perceive to be submissive docile Asian women and not really respecting them as people?
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TheoryzC
12/09/19 9:35:54 PM
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Yea but what does she look like?

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Duck-Butter
12/09/19 9:44:36 PM
#98:


shes not attractive anyways,so thats good for black men.
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thrashmetal14
12/09/19 9:46:22 PM
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I dont understand people with racial preferences. There's attractive people in all ethnic groups.
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Kastrada
12/09/19 10:01:31 PM
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corneliusmagus posted...
Presumably white guys wanting what they perceive to be submissive docile Asian women and not really respecting them as people?

Almost exclusively women actually. I've met so many just fawn over Korean guys just for what they 'represented' Like it wasn't to come here to learn the culture or experience Korean life. It was them fetishising Korean guys.

It's somewhat similar for Korean guys and girls. Decent amount will date a foreigner just for the status it gives. Not as toxic as Korea boos but still not the best.

Not sure about foreign guys. My husband says they are basically the same. Foreign or Korean they will go with whomever


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Skye Reynolds
12/09/19 10:20:15 PM
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Anyone who writes off entire ethnic groups or who has a solitary ethnic preferences is missing out.

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