Current Events > anyone struggle with dating because you want a girl who makes you feel fuzzy?

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i've probably only felt that way about girls 4 times in my life.

I've been on dates with countless girls but don't get that feeling. I think it has to do with how artificial and transactional dating apps feel, but even with girls I meet at irl I still don't have much of an affection towards them.

Regardless, do most people just settle with someone without ever getting that fuzzy feeling for them?
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i'm deeply uncomfortable with feeling fuzzy about a girl

too many sociopaths in the dating pool that will take advantage of that or otherwise make you that much more jaded when it ends
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now, when you feel obligated to a girl because of how good of a person she is, that's a magical feeling
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I would like that, but in the mean time getting my dick wet is a bandaid for my feelz

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TheMikh posted...

i'm deeply uncomfortable with feeling fuzzy about a girl

too many sociopaths in the dating pool that will take advantage of that or otherwise make you that much more jaded when it ends

i'm already jaded about a girl who i was fuzzy about not wanting to go out with me after 2 dates. Dunno why she lead me on so hard. I was devastated for a couple months. She asked me out twice too!

Guide posted...

I would like that, but in the mean time getting my dick wet is a bandaid for my feelz

honestly don't even care about that.
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TheMikh posted...

now, when you feel obligated to a girl because of how good of a person she is, that's a magical feeling

Is that in tandem with the fuzzy feels?
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WalkingLobsters posted...

TheMikh posted...

now, when you feel obligated to a girl because of how good of a person she is, that's a magical feeling

Is that in tandem with the fuzzy feels?

i felt it about a girl i had zero fuzzy feels about.
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TheMikh posted...

WalkingLobsters posted...

TheMikh posted...

now, when you feel obligated to a girl because of how good of a person she is, that's a magical feeling

Is that in tandem with the fuzzy feels?

i felt it about a girl i had zero fuzzy feels about.

was she attractive?
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WalkingLobsters posted...

TheMikh posted...

WalkingLobsters posted...

TheMikh posted...

now, when you feel obligated to a girl because of how good of a person she is, that's a magical feeling

Is that in tandem with the fuzzy feels?

i felt it about a girl i had zero fuzzy feels about.

was she attractive?

not conventionally

but well endowed, had a great head on her shoulders, and dressed nicely
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I struggle with dating because I'm apparently invisible, and definitely not worth being with. Never had a date, gf, or any such thing. I very much feel like I'm missing a huge part of life, but I'm incapable of experiencing it I guess.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

I struggle with dating because I'm apparently invisible, and definitely not worth being with. Never had a date, gf, or any such thing. I very much feel like I'm missing a huge part of life, but I'm incapable of experiencing it I guess.

dress better, lose weight, get a hair cut, etc.
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Dating apps have really killed the random and sitiontional aspect of dating....... which is kind of sad
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WalkingLobsters posted...

dress better, lose weight, get a hair cut, etc.

I actually tend to get plenty of compliments on my appearance. Sure I could dress better, but that wouldn't address the main issue of me being a complete social failure and that no one would ever want to be with me.

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i have no standards
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I do! Hell just recently I let communication die on a prospect because I just didn't feel it, even though she was really into me.

If theres no emotion I'd rather just be alone. I need infatuation.
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Solid Snake07 posted...

Dating apps have really killed the random and sitiontional aspect of dating....... which is kind of sad

yah. I fucking hate dating apps.

KogaSteelfang posted...

WalkingLobsters posted...

dress better, lose weight, get a hair cut, etc.

I actually tend to get plenty of compliments on my appearance. Sure I could dress better, but that wouldn't address the main issue of me being a complete social failure and that no one would ever want to be with me.

self-defeatist attitude = self-fulling prophecy/10

spanky1 posted...

I do! Hell just recently I let communication die on a prospect because I just didn't feel it, even though she was really into me.

If theres no emotion I'd rather just be alone. I need infatuation.

yah man. I hate it. HATE it. I've met tons of girls on hinge who are into me, but I also have to cut em off just because I don't feel it.

I'm also dumb af because I know that feeling is going to fade away in a month anyways.
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