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ScazarMeltex
11/10/19 2:01:22 AM
#51:


I'm going to go out on a limb here and presume tc is telling the truth. A quick study of sex traffickers and their MOs will tell you these sorts of things are pretty standard in those sorts of operations.

My advice is move if you can, start over, get therapy, and do the best you can to move on. If for whatever reason that isn't an option, get her to cooperate with the police no matter how awful it might be. Buy guns. One for you, one for her, keep it on you at all times, tell her the instant she sees one of them, shoot them. No jury will ever convict her and she'll at least have police protection after that.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:01:56 AM
#52:


I don't know what to do guys. Last time the cops were out here they acted like I was out my mind and said it's probably an ex boyfriend and the detective told us they were getting nowhere. She won't speak to me and denies sex in her car. I told her that they will eventually make her go to a house and will probably do something far worse than anything so far for going to the cops. She teared up at that and she's going to sleep. She laid on the couch and hasn't moved since but everytime I check on her she's just laying staring. I don't know what to do at this point
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Cookie Bag
11/10/19 2:02:08 AM
#53:


I don't know in what universe posting this shit on a video game forum makes more sense than trying to contact whatever authority imaginable over this shit, i'm sorry if this is all real man but what the fuck
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Number090684
11/10/19 2:02:22 AM
#54:


Sage JJ posted...
Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
Wut happened?


I'm trying to bring myself to type it but everyone will think this is a troll or joke topic. Im literally sitting here crying because I don't know what to do. This is my fucking wife man. I'll try to type it but it's long but I just thinking of it is fucking me up right now.

It all started about 2 years ago. My wife fell into a very bad drug habit and the person she was doing drugs with told her she could make some extra money and they would supply the drugs. The person ends up bringing her to some house which ended up literally being a whore house. My wife says she ended up being tied down and raped by 3 guys and they taped it and said if she didn't keep coming back they would upload the tape on porn sites. She kept going back and they kept feeding her all these different pills and eventually put a knife to her throat and she would be living with the girl who brought her there this way she would live at her place and this is her new life. She said they had the knife to her throat and told her they would kill the kids me and her if she tried anything. They told her she was to go home that night and when I left for work she was to call them and be picked up but she was to leave the car and her phone so she couldn't be tracked and this way they would know where she lived if she tried anything. I left for work that day and came home and she's just gone. The kids said she kissed them crying and told them she loved them and just left. She says she walked about a half hour away knocked on a random door and used the phone to be picked up there so they could never get to the kids. 2 fucking months she was missing. After the first month I get a random call and it's her. They started making her call and say all this shit. I pleaded with her to come home but she refused. I pleaded with her to not do this to the kids and she said she didn't care in the most fucked up upset voice. Apparently they were breaking her down and this was one of the things they did to do it. Another month goes by and I get a random call at 2 in the morning and it's her and she is begging me to help her. She gave me a street to meet her at and said if they catch me know I love you and the kids. I picked her up and detoxed her but she would never speak of what happened and just said she fell into drugs. Everytime I pushed to find out what happened she would shake and break down in tears so I ended up dropping it. Give me a minute guys this is really fucking with me to type. If you guys believe it I will tell more when I can bring myself to do it but I cant deal with the trolling shit right now.


Hate to say this man, but she seems like a lost cause if she isn't willing to cooperate. Even if it's painful due to the trauma nothing is going to get better for her and the rest of your family if she isn't willing to tell you what she experienced, knows and eventually get the police involved. First off you and the kids absolutely need to move to somewhere new and safe, where even she doesn't even know where you live, just in case the guys try to coerce her into telling them with drugs and try to do something. From there you need to get the police involved and even if they need to take her to a secure facility against her own will for her own well being it needs to be done because as is she is a threat to your family and even possibly herself. Staging a intervention and cooperating with police is the only way you all can possibly get justice and things could eventually change.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:04:18 AM
#55:


Cookie Bag posted...
I don't know in what universe posting this shit on a video game forum makes more sense than trying to contact whatever authority imaginable over this shit, i'm sorry if this is all real man but what the fuck


This is the only site I really go to and I don't know where to turn for help. I'm bugging out cause what if something happens to her or my kids. What if they come to the house and force there way in when I'm not home?
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:07:59 AM
#56:


Number090684 posted...
Sage JJ posted...
Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
Wut happened?


I'm trying to bring myself to type it but everyone will think this is a troll or joke topic. Im literally sitting here crying because I don't know what to do. This is my fucking wife man. I'll try to type it but it's long but I just thinking of it is fucking me up right now.

It all started about 2 years ago. My wife fell into a very bad drug habit and the person she was doing drugs with told her she could make some extra money and they would supply the drugs. The person ends up bringing her to some house which ended up literally being a whore house. My wife says she ended up being tied down and raped by 3 guys and they taped it and said if she didn't keep coming back they would upload the tape on porn sites. She kept going back and they kept feeding her all these different pills and eventually put a knife to her throat and she would be living with the girl who brought her there this way she would live at her place and this is her new life. She said they had the knife to her throat and told her they would kill the kids me and her if she tried anything. They told her she was to go home that night and when I left for work she was to call them and be picked up but she was to leave the car and her phone so she couldn't be tracked and this way they would know where she lived if she tried anything. I left for work that day and came home and she's just gone. The kids said she kissed them crying and told them she loved them and just left. She says she walked about a half hour away knocked on a random door and used the phone to be picked up there so they could never get to the kids. 2 fucking months she was missing. After the first month I get a random call and it's her. They started making her call and say all this shit. I pleaded with her to come home but she refused. I pleaded with her to not do this to the kids and she said she didn't care in the most fucked up upset voice. Apparently they were breaking her down and this was one of the things they did to do it. Another month goes by and I get a random call at 2 in the morning and it's her and she is begging me to help her. She gave me a street to meet her at and said if they catch me know I love you and the kids. I picked her up and detoxed her but she would never speak of what happened and just said she fell into drugs. Everytime I pushed to find out what happened she would shake and break down in tears so I ended up dropping it. Give me a minute guys this is really fucking with me to type. If you guys believe it I will tell more when I can bring myself to do it but I cant deal with the trolling shit right now.


Hate to say this man, but she seems like a lost cause if she isn't willing to cooperate. Even if it's painful due to the trauma nothing is going to get better for her and the rest of your family if she isn't willing to tell you what she experienced, knows and eventually get the police involved. First off you and the kids absolutely need to move to somewhere new and safe, where even she doesn't even know where you live, just in case the guys try to coerce her into telling them with drugs and try to do something. From there you need to get the police involved and even if they need to take her to a secure facility against her own will for her own well being it needs to be done because as is she is a threat to your family and even possibly herself. Staging a intervention and cooperating with police is the only way you all can possibly get justice and things could eventually change.


I keep pleading with her to tell all. She refuses because she scared they will do something to the kids. I keep telling her if she just points out the houses they will get them and this will end but she is scared shitless
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:10:02 AM
#57:


I'm sorry I keeping saying it but I don't know what to do I'm getting maybe 2 hours of sleep through the day if that since I found out about this. I can't sleep I can't eat and all think about is what they did to her.
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berlyman101
11/10/19 2:10:56 AM
#58:


If any of this is true at all, you need to get your wife into treatment immediately. She's a junkie and they're likely using drugs to keep her compliant. That and/or going to the FBI with everything you have and/or divorcing your wife and moving because her presence and lack of action is a major threat to you and your children.

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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:13:19 AM
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Jfc dude go to the cops and get her into rehab asap

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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:17:10 AM
#60:


berlyman101 posted...
If any of this is true at all, you need to get your wife into treatment immediately. She's a junkie and they're likely using drugs to keep her compliant. That and/or going to the FBI with everything you have and/or divorcing your wife and moving because her presence and lack of action is a major threat to you and your children.


I care deeply for her and want to keep her safe. I mentioned divorce today because I wouldn't risky the kids and she teared up and said she didn't care. I just want this shit to end if she goes missing or ends up dead it's going to fuck me and the kids up
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:18:39 AM
#61:


Please help CE the cops aren't taking it serious or returning calls anymore and I can't quit my job to be around 24/7. I know you guys can't do anything but I need advice
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Lorenzo_2003
11/10/19 2:20:18 AM
#62:


Sage JJ posted...
This is the only site I really go to and I don't know where to turn for help. I'm bugging out cause what if something happens to her or my kids. What if they come to the house and force there way in when I'm not home?


What would you do to protect anyone anyway, even if you were home?

Sorry, I read through your posts and you don't exactly sound like a man of action.
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furb
11/10/19 2:20:28 AM
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Call or email the fbi then.

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TheoryzC
11/10/19 2:20:29 AM
#64:


So where'd you find this story?
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berlyman101
11/10/19 2:22:31 AM
#65:


yeah this story is fishy. but if you need to take action you've been given all the advice we can give.

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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:22:34 AM
#66:


What do you want us to do call John Wick for you? Your refusal to listen to advice makes me think this is some weird af copypasta

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lilJoe457
11/10/19 2:23:49 AM
#67:


Idk if this can get me modded. But tbh. I think vigilante justice is in line.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:24:19 AM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Sage JJ posted...
This is the only site I really go to and I don't know where to turn for help. I'm bugging out cause what if something happens to her or my kids. What if they come to the house and force there way in when I'm not home?


What would you do to protect anyone anyway, even if you were home?

Sorry, I read through your posts and you don't exactly sound like a man of action.


Whatever I can. I'm not invincible but I'm capable. I know I will do whatever to protect my family. I do. Know she said they made many threats that they were gonna fuck me up in front of her to prove I can't protect her. She says she has seen the one guy a few times in Wal-Mart but he looked mad and nervous when he seen me and never approached. I'm not some badass but I'm a pretty big guy if it matters.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:25:46 AM
#69:


Bluebomber182 posted...
What do you want us to do call John Wick for you? Your refusal to listen to advice makes me think this is some weird af copypasta


I don't care who believes it i didn't even believe it until I seen the text from the guy and the smack on her face. Even then it was to far out there until these guys started coming on the property at night. All the advice given has been done already the cops stopped taking it serious once she got scared and won't cooperate
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Ving_Rhames
11/10/19 2:27:47 AM
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Ok I believe u
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berlyman101
11/10/19 2:28:08 AM
#71:


Sage JJ posted...
All the advice given has been done already


It certainly fucking hasn't.


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Cookie Bag
11/10/19 2:28:20 AM
#72:


People have said multiple times to contact the FBI, have you done that.
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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:28:23 AM
#73:


Go to the cops or fbi or something ffs

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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:29:43 AM
#74:


Cookie Bag posted...
People have said multiple times to contact the FBI, have you done that.


No I didn't think they would deal with stuff like this. What if she won't cooperate
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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:31:11 AM
#75:


Sage JJ posted...
I don't care who believes it i didn't even believe it until I seen the text from the guy and the smack on her face. Even then it was to far out there until these guys started coming on the property at night. All the advice given has been done already the cops stopped taking it serious once she got scared and won't cooperate


https://youtu.be/prw2B_03IzY

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Cookie Bag
11/10/19 2:31:45 AM
#76:


Then you take your kids and get the fuck away because she's a lost cause.

Seriously, video game board and posting stuff like this, is this topic for real.
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berlyman101
11/10/19 2:32:16 AM
#77:


then so fucking what? at least you did something when sex traffickers threatened your family. christ you're frustrating.

Actually, I get it. You're scared. People don't think straight when they're scared. But try something different or this will get worse.

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TheMikh
11/10/19 2:34:03 AM
#78:


1. contact the fbi
2. move far, far away from where you currently are - like, another state or the other side of the country
3. tell me what city you live in so i can avoid ever moving there

edit: also, consider divorce once this is all sorted out
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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:35:06 AM
#79:


Here use this

https://www.justice.gov/actioncenter/report-crime

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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:37:28 AM
#80:


I've already talked to my parents about moving in with them in the state they are in but I'm poor and its not like I can just do it today. And yes I'm scared. I wasn't at first but then I learned they threatened my kids and kept getting to my wife no matter what
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Bluebomber182
11/10/19 2:40:21 AM
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What part of put in an anonymous tip do you not understand?

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cavalierking
11/10/19 2:40:42 AM
#83:


there are plenty of great sub-reddits out there with people who will be way more empathetic with your current situation/state of mind and knowledgable

try seeking advice on those (e.g. "legal_advice", "relationship_advice", etc.)
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Pepys Monster
11/10/19 2:41:25 AM
#84:


Contact the FBI, buy guns, and move far away. Staying put and hoping things will get better on their own doesn't seem like a wise plan.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:41:32 AM
#85:


Conflict posted...
At this point your best bet is to persist and talk some rationality into her head b/c her not cooperating only makes the odds of something happening to the children higher

You've gotta be really persistent about this until she caves. Take all the action you could possibly get. Explain to law enforcement that she won't cooperate out of fear


I'm been persisting all day every day since I found out she is scared shitless. I think they got her number other when she started her new job or threatened to do to our daughter what they did to her. She's constantly on her phone these last few days and back to acting how she did when they had her old number
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:42:15 AM
#86:


Bluebomber182 posted...
What part of put in an anonymous tip do you not understand?


I must have missed that where do I do it? In the fib link provided?
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Sabram
11/10/19 2:42:38 AM
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Considering TCs refusal to contact the FBI over this, I'm going to call BS on it.

Theyd get things done, probably not in a way hed like, but theyd do things like stake out his house, her place of work, and keep agents on an active search for her.

Since he's also said that shes received calls and texts from those guys, and she knows it's from them based on what he said her reactions were, theyd be able to traco her phone as well as the other persons phone. Even if they were using a burn phone, those have to be activated before use, which means registering the IMEI number, which is unique to each phone. So that phone can be tracked to where it was sold, and that time and location of sale would have been monitored on security camera. So then theyd he able to track down whoever sends her the message.

So, with that info, if TC still wont contact thg e FBI about this, I'm going with it didnt happen.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:42:59 AM
#88:


cavalierking posted...
there are plenty of great sub-reddits out there with people who will be way more empathetic with your current situation/state of mind and knowledgable

try seeking advice on those (e.g. "legal_advice", "relationship_advice", etc.)


Please link I don't use Reddit and I'm desperate
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assassingriskel
11/10/19 2:43:50 AM
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So she brought this on herself

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Sage JJ
11/10/19 2:44:15 AM
#90:


Sabram posted...
Considering TCs refusal to contact the FBI over this, I'm going to call BS on it.

Theyd get things done, probably not in a way hed like, but theyd do things like stake out his house, her place of work, and keep agents on an active search for her.

Since he's also said that shes received calls and texts from those guys, and she knows it's from them based on what he said her reactions were, theyd be able to traco her phone as well as the other persons phone. Even if they were using a burn phone, those have to be activated before use, which means registering the IMEI number, which is unique to each phone. So that phone can be tracked to where it was sold, and that time and location of sale would have been monitored on security camera. So then theyd he able to track down whoever sends her the message.

So, with that info, if TC still wont contact thg e FBI about this, I'm going with it didnt happen.


I never refused this topic is what an hour old? I asked what if she refuses to cooperate. The police already aren't taking it serious
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Pepys Monster
11/10/19 2:45:28 AM
#92:


assassingriskel posted...
So she brought this on herself

That's not a cool thing to post.
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assassingriskel
11/10/19 2:47:40 AM
#93:


Pepys Monster posted...
That's not a cool thing to post.
I don't give a damn

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HagenEx
11/10/19 2:48:28 AM
#94:


Pepys Monster posted...
assassingriskel posted...
So she brought this on herself

That's not a cool thing to post.


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KaZooo
11/10/19 2:53:30 AM
#95:


Absolutely nuts if true
Don't mean to be another person saying "if true", but well, this really is nuts. I do get that you're exhausting personal options and quite frankly, you run the risk of getting others in danger.

I think there are potential implications and liabilities of getting us involved in suggesting what you do. FBI involvement is probably the smartest thing to do (and one of the fairest things anyone can suggest here).

When thinking about your wife, you're not arguing with her, you're against her fear. Quite frankly the FBI or a higher authority knows their way around this better, and maybe the biggest hurdle is legitimizing this situation to them. That, and well I personally have no idea what portal you use to reach out to them.

GL TC.Even after this resolves, I'm sorry you're going to continue living with it. I'd say already, just worry about raising your kids.
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samurai bandit
11/10/19 2:54:16 AM
#96:


As has been mentioned, you need to at least try calling the FBI. Even if your wife doesnt want to cooperate you need to do this for your kids and to save other possible persons that might fall in the same trap in the future. It sucks and is not easy to do but it needs to be done.


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WarDog2016
11/10/19 3:02:32 AM
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If this is all true, you're a terrible father. Regardless of what's really going on with her, you shouldn't be putting the children through it.
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Sage JJ
11/10/19 3:05:41 AM
#98:


WarDog2016 posted...
If this is all true, you're a terrible father. Regardless of what's really going on with her, you shouldn't be putting the children through it.


Wtf man how the fuck am I putting them through it
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StealthRock
11/10/19 3:33:22 AM
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Most fucked up things ive read all day

But to be honest these sound like the dumbest thugs in the world and would easily be caught if the law got involved.

So im gonna lean towards this being fiction
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