Current Events > Girl i talked with just messaged me after 2 months of silence

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Met on dating app but i was just desparate at the time. Went out to eat a few times then continued to talk over whatsapp for over a year. I have moved since, so this is long distance. So yeah, after a while i realised i dont even find her appearance attractive and shes stubborn as hell as a person. I guess i was looking for some quality in her personality. So then, i was not afraid to get into light arguments with her sometimes. Then 2 months ago, after i told her off for her political views over whatsapp, she never replied.

I waited a couple weeks then i thought this is even better. Better she ignore me than I ignore her because im not an asshole. So i deleted the convo altogether but forget to block her.

Now 2 months later she messages me with ''.

I'd feel like an asshole if i ignore her. I dont want anything to do with her romatically. Do i just chat be a friend? Or is this also a bad move as she might not move on?
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Youre in.
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Move on, she's trying to play with you because she's bored. If she was really interested there wouldn't be a 2 month gap between messages.
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Omasitor Hain posted...

Move on, she's trying to play with you because she's bored. If she was really interested there wouldn't be a 2 month gap between messages.

Maybe she's just too busy

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To be clear I don't want to be in a relationship with her nor I want to fuck her.

I'm just worried that it might have taken her a lot to muster courage to initiate the conversation again. And me ignoring her would hurt her confidence.

She did tell me that her last boyfriend dumped her for a prettier girl. And told me stuff that she's not pretty enough and not confident enough.

But if I talk to her now. Should I just say I got into an accident and I lost my leg or something? Or something like I caused a driving accident and will be doing to jail. So she'll move a long and find someone else?
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Cobra1010 posted...

She did tell me that her last boyfriend dumped her for a prettier girl. And told me stuff that she's not pretty enough and not confident enough.

Sounds like a perfect girl
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Cobra1010 posted...

To be clear I don't want to be in a relationship with her nor I want to fuck her.

I'm just worried that it might have taken her a lot to muster courage to initiate the conversation again. And me ignoring her would hurt her confidence.

She did tell me that her last boyfriend dumped her for a prettier girl. And told me stuff that she's not pretty enough and not confident enough.

But if I talk to her now. Should I just say I got into an accident and I lost my leg or something? Or something like I caused a driving accident and will be doing to jail. So she'll move a long and find someone else?

Nah just drop it. She wouldn't care about hurting you or your confidence and you owe her nothing.
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Cobra1010 posted...

Should I just say I got into an accident and I lost my leg or something?

Yes. The ol' foolproof 'lost a leg' defense. Never fails.
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metallica846 posted...

Omasitor Hain posted...

Move on, she's trying to play with you because she's bored. If she was really interested there wouldn't be a 2 month gap between messages.

Not always true.

Oldin posted...

Omasitor Hain posted...

Move on, she's trying to play with you because she's bored. If she was really interested there wouldn't be a 2 month gap between messages.

Maybe she's just too busy

Yikes. Well, keep that candle burning, I guess. Hoooha.
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Oldin posted...

Omasitor Hain posted...

Move on, she's trying to play with you because she's bored. If she was really interested there wouldn't be a 2 month gap between messages.

Maybe she's just too busy

Don't be naive. If a person is genuinely interested, they make time.

High-five, Esrac. If a girl really likes a someone, she won' leave them alone.
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Why not tell her that you're very busy? Perhaps a new job with strict hours?
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