Poll of the Day > Feeling nervous and weddings next weekend. Any married users have advice for me?

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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/01/19 4:05:23 AM
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Or wanna talk about their weekend? Lol Sorta need a distraction.
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RedPixel
06/01/19 7:21:30 AM
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Every night is just another goofy sleepover with your best friend. Don't sweep unpleasant stuff under the rug, talk things out and be open. (Especially finances.)

You'll do great, TC. Nothin to worry about :)
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SunWuKung420
06/01/19 7:23:30 AM
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Don't keep score.
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LaggnFragnLarry
06/01/19 7:58:30 AM
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get drunk
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Action53
06/01/19 8:42:57 AM
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There is no such thing as too much communication. Talk shit out calmly and clearly express your thoughts and feelings without getting angry or resorting to saying hurtful things or insults to just win the fight
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BlackScythe0
06/01/19 5:40:03 PM
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People act like things change. They don't. If you were living together before it'll be the exact same.
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wwinterj25
06/01/19 5:45:48 PM
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Make sure you kiss the brides sister.
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LinkPizza
06/01/19 5:50:27 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Make sure you kiss the brides sister.

I think it would be grooms brother... IIRC...

BlackScythe0 posted...
People act like things change. They don't. If you were living together before it'll be the exact same.

Also, I was going to say something similar. Should pretty much be the same as it was before...
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wwinterj25
06/01/19 5:51:46 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
I think it would be grooms brother...

Make sure you kiss both the brides sister and grooms brother.
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LinkPizza
06/01/19 6:08:33 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
I think it would be grooms brother...

Make sure you kiss both the brides sister and grooms brother.

I dont think theres a bride. So, hell just have to kiss everyones brother and sister...
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wwinterj25
06/01/19 6:10:23 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
I dont think theres a bride. So, hell just have to kiss everyones brother and sister...


The grooms brother and the other grooms sister? Although kissing every sibling would be only fair.
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LinkPizza
06/01/19 6:21:28 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
I dont think theres a bride. So, hell just have to kiss everyones brother and sister...


The grooms brother and the other grooms sister? Although kissing every sibling would be only fair.

If everyone gets a kiss, no one has to feel left out...
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DrYuya
06/01/19 6:30:06 PM
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Marriage is so easy and pretty much its importance/life changiness is laughably negligible...but people who haven't been married always think more of it than it deserves.

Its having kids that changes things...until then just enjoy the freedom you still have being just married. You may even get divorced before then...not a big deal.
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LinkPizza
06/01/19 6:34:46 PM
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DrYuya posted...
Marriage is so easy and pretty much its importance/life changiness is laughably negligible...but people who haven't been married always think more of it than it deserves.

Its having kids that changes things...until then just enjoy the freedom you still have being just married. You may even get divorced before then...not a big deal.

I dont think many unmarried people think its a big deal. Some do, though. But I think the wedding can make people nervous. You're the center of attention and everyone is looking at you...
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wwinterj25
06/01/19 6:58:36 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
If everyone gets a kiss, no one has to feel left out...


Fair. I change my answer to this. Kiss everyone.
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Bugmeat
06/01/19 7:22:21 PM
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The very first night, make her sleep on the couch. This sets the tone dor the entire marriage and makes sure she knows you are in charge and that the bed is yours if you ever get in a real argument down the road.


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myghostisdead
06/01/19 7:23:41 PM
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Ehh, it will go ok. I was nervous during rehearsal and couldn't stop giggling. I didn't do that at the wedding though ( surprisingly...I giggle when I get nervous or smile a lot...not good in many situations).
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dedbus
06/01/19 9:43:23 PM
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DeathMagnetic80
06/01/19 9:45:09 PM
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Things are gonna basically be the same for the most part, honestly.
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Nade Duck
06/01/19 11:43:08 PM
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never let them see you poop.
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supness420
06/02/19 9:44:43 AM
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Reach out to real help! Gamefaqs is just well wishers, haters, or pretend philosophers. Seek professional(better) advice with personal matters. Good luck!
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LinkPizza
06/02/19 10:08:08 AM
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supness420 posted...
Reach out to real help! Gamefaqs is just well wishers, haters, or pretend philosophers. Seek professional(better) advice with personal matters. Good luck!

Hes just asking for advice for while having pre-wedding jitters. I dont think he needs professional help...
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/02/19 2:24:21 PM
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RedPixel posted...
Every night is just another goofy sleepover with your best friend. Don't sweep unpleasant stuff under the rug, talk things out and be open. (Especially finances.)

You'll do great, TC. Nothin to worry about :)

Thanks. Gotta say that was excellent advice an kinda gave me a chuckle.

SunWuKung420 posted...
Don't keep score.

Lol. Learned that early watching my parents.

LaggnFragnLarry posted...
get drunk

Prolly will. Gotta remember everyone's names though so I'll balance.

Action53 posted...
There is no such thing as too much communication. Talk shit out calmly and clearly express your thoughts and feelings without getting angry or resorting to saying hurtful things or insults to just win the fight

Amen. He's the calmer one so good advice for me tbh.

LinkPizza posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
Make sure you kiss the brides sister.

I think it would be grooms brother... IIRC...

BlackScythe0 posted...
People act like things change. They don't. If you were living together before it'll be the exact same.

Also, I was going to say something similar. Should pretty much be the same as it was before...

My nerves are sorta shaken by the large event and attention tbh. Normally it doesn't get me.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/02/19 2:35:08 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
Make sure you kiss both the brides sister and grooms brother.

I dont think theres a bride. So, hell just have to kiss everyones brother and sister...

Lol. And I dunno if his older male relatives would be up for it. An the children might come off creepy.

LinkPizza posted...
DrYuya posted...
Marriage is so easy and pretty much its importance/life changiness is laughably negligible...but people who haven't been married always think more of it than it deserves.

Its having kids that changes things...until then just enjoy the freedom you still have being just married. You may even get divorced before then...not a big deal.

I dont think many unmarried people think its a big deal. Some do, though. But I think the wedding can make people nervous. You're the center of attention and everyone is looking at you...

Bingo. Even reading the sentence cramped my stomach.

Bugmeat posted...
The very first night, make her sleep on the couch. This sets the tone dor the entire marriage and makes sure she knows you are in charge and that the bed is yours if you ever get in a real argument down the road.


Lmao.

myghostisdead posted...
Ehh, it will go ok. I was nervous during rehearsal and couldn't stop giggling. I didn't do that at the wedding though ( surprisingly...I giggle when I get nervous or smile a lot...not good in many situations).

Good to know cause I do the same.

DeathMagnetic80 posted...
Things are gonna basically be the same for the most part, honestly.

Then it'll go great.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/02/19 2:40:30 PM
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dedbus posted...
https://bkblack28.files.wordpress.com/2014/05/madea-fm-joe.jpeg

Lmao.

Nade Duck posted...
never let them see you poop.

Ships sailed early there. Forgot to lock the bathroom door.

LinkPizza posted...
supness420 posted...
Reach out to real help! Gamefaqs is just well wishers, haters, or pretend philosophers. Seek professional(better) advice with personal matters. Good luck!

Hes just asking for advice for while having pre-wedding jitters. I dont think he needs professional help...

Bingo again.
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supness420
06/04/19 9:22:20 AM
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LinkPizza posted...
supness420 posted...
Reach out to real help! Gamefaqs is just well wishers, haters, or pretend philosophers. Seek professional(better) advice with personal matters. Good luck!

Hes just asking for advice for while having pre-wedding jitters. I dont think he needs professional help...


What any of us think is important because?

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Renraku_San
06/04/19 12:31:53 PM
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Make sure you lock your knees while at the alter, prevents you from getting light-headed.
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LinkPizza
06/04/19 12:33:03 PM
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supness420 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
supness420 posted...
Reach out to real help! Gamefaqs is just well wishers, haters, or pretend philosophers. Seek professional(better) advice with personal matters. Good luck!

Hes just asking for advice for while having pre-wedding jitters. I dont think he needs professional help...


What any of us think is important because?

I seek my mental health advice from here:
https://www.gardenweb.com

silly faqqers

It's not. Again, he just needs a distraction...
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MICHALECOLE
06/04/19 12:34:27 PM
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Dont get married
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/05/19 1:56:59 AM
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Renraku_San posted...
Make sure you lock your knees while at the alter, prevents you from getting light-headed.

Thanks good advice. Lol. More afraid I'll cry tbh.

MICHALECOLE posted...
Dont get married

We're planning on kids an his medicals way better.
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MICHALECOLE
06/05/19 2:00:51 AM
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Dont have kids

And dont get married
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/05/19 2:08:22 AM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
Dont have kids

And dont get married

Any specifics why?
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/05/19 2:47:43 AM
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Fair enough. His parents are paying tho.
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