Current Events > It's a shame how so many people are still homophobic.

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Just a few weeks ago, there was a popular YouTube trend called "Would you rather have a gay son or a THOT daughter?"

The fact that being gay is seen as being comparable to an overly promiscuous person is extremely insulting. As long as your child is living responsibly and healthily, who even cares what they're into as long as it's not nasty shit like pedophilia or bestiality? There's nothing wrong with being into the same sex. People stereotype gays as feminine perverts, and they're wrong. People can like men and be plenty masculine. People can like men and not be perverted. Sexual perversion and gayness are two different things. There are perverts in any sexual orientation.

And in one of the videos, on the subject of a gay son, one tool asks, "What if your son tries to flirt you?"

SMH, what? Does a mother have to worry about her straight son flirting her? Does a father have to worry about his straight daughter flirting him? Again, being gay isn't the same thing as being a pervert at all. Most people, regardless of their sexual orientation, aren't sexually attracted to family members.

Oh, and one dude also says, "I wouldn't want a gay son, because that says a lot about me. I raised him gay"

What a dumbass. No, it actually says nothing about you. There is no "raising" someone gay. It's not like my parents taught me to be attracted to women. I picked it up naturally.

I'm tired of people treating gays like they're circus freaks. But that's actually not the main issue I'm speaking about here. People need to stop being so controlling of their children. Your child is not you. This doesn't apply to just sexuality, but plenty of other things in general. As long as your child is healthy, responsible and doing nothing that's truly wrong, they can do whatever they want. Many children grow up to become mentally ill adults because of control freak parents. That shit needs to stop, fam.
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I agree, I had a similar experience. Just a few weeks ago, there was a popular YouTube trend called "Would you rather have a gay son or a THOT daughter?"

The fact that being gay is seen as being comparable to an overly promiscuous person is extremely insulting. As long as your child is living responsibly and healthily, who even cares what they're into as long as it's not nasty shit like pedophilia or bestiality? There's nothing wrong with being into the same sex. People stereotype gays as feminine perverts, and they're wrong. People can like men and be plenty masculine. People can like men and not be perverted. Sexual perversion and gayness are two different things. There are perverts in any sexual orientation.

And in one of the videos, on the subject of a gay son, one tool asks, "What if your son tries to flirt you?"

SMH, what? Does a mother have to worry about her straight son flirting her? Does a father have to worry about his straight daughter flirting him? Again, being gay isn't the same thing as being a pervert at all. Most people, regardless of their sexual orientation, aren't sexually attracted to family members.

Oh, and one dude also says, "I wouldn't want a gay son, because that says a lot about me. I raised him gay"

What a dumbass. No, it actually says nothing about you. There is no "raising" someone gay. It's not like my parents taught me to be attracted to women. I picked it up naturally.

I'm tired of people treating gays like they're circus freaks. But that's actually not the main issue I'm speaking about here. People need to stop being so controlling of their children. Your child is not you. This doesn't apply to just sexuality, but plenty of other things in general. As long as your child is healthy, responsible and doing nothing that's truly wrong, they can do whatever they want. Many children grow up to become mentally ill adults because of control freak parents. That shit needs to stop, fam.
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Oh, wow. Some people still think copy-and-pasting the first post in a topic is funny.
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I wouldnt care if my son was gay, but my daughter better not be a thot
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I am glad you support gay rights but judging girls for being promiscuous is totally sexist. Sex is okay. It is not a bad thing. Let people do what they want to do.
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@ImmatureContent posted...

I am glad you support gay rights but judging girls for being promiscuous is totally sexist. Sex is okay. It is not a bad thing. Let people do what they want to do.

You misunderstand. I don't think there's anything wrong with being promiscuous, as long as one is responsible about it. Too much of anything is a bad thing. When a person is literally banging stranger after stranger after stranger after stranger, then that person is a sex addict. Nymphomaniac. That is not a responsible adult.
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Scotty_Rogers posted...

@ImmatureContent posted...

I am glad you support gay rights but judging girls for being promiscuous is totally sexist. Sex is okay. It is not a bad thing. Let people do what they want to do.

You misunderstand. I don't think there's anything wrong with being promiscuous, as long as one is responsible about it. Too much of anything is a bad thing. When a person is literally banging person after person after person after person, then that person is a sex addict. Nymphomaniac. That is not a responsible adult.

That seems like a reasonable view. I just dislike the double standard that a lot of people seem to have where it is not okay for women to like sex but guys liking sex is not only okay but expected.
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ImmatureContent posted...

Scotty_Rogers posted...

@ImmatureContent posted...

I am glad you support gay rights but judging girls for being promiscuous is totally sexist. Sex is okay. It is not a bad thing. Let people do what they want to do.

You misunderstand. I don't think there's anything wrong with being promiscuous, as long as one is responsible about it. Too much of anything is a bad thing. When a person is literally banging person after person after person after person, then that person is a sex addict. Nymphomaniac. That is not a responsible adult.

That seems like a reasonable view. I just dislike the double standard that a lot of people seem to have where it is not okay for women to like sex but guys liking sex is not only okay but expected.

That double standard is annoying because guys not liking sex is okay too.

Absolutely. You notice how being a virgin as a woman is seen as a virtue but when you are a male virgin you are viewed as a loser. Definitely a double standard that hurts both sides.
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Scotty_Rogers posted...

Oh, and one dude also says, "I wouldn't want a gay son, because that says a lot about me. I raised him gay"

And what would it matter if he did in the first place?
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kuwab0 posted...

I wouldnt care if my son was gay, but my daughter better not be a thot

I bet many guys feel this way.

And it really brings home the point, if you don't want your daughter being a slut, why would you subject yourself to being with a person like that in a relationship or choose to marry them?

As far as I'm concerned women like that are used up and are immediately off the marriage track.

i feel like people have moved from homophobia and moved to transphobia
like someone wants to be called "him/her" when they weren't born that way and then people get extra violent out of nowhere
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Thot daughters are much harder to deal with than a gay son. I wouldn't mind if my son was gay.
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