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Parappa09 12/28/18 10:10:10 AM #1: |
my friend is going through this process now and is asking for help
she broke up with her bf around 2 months ago. at first they stopped speaking completely. she was angry at him, played petty games towards one another, then blocked him, etc and because they're in the same friendship group, they are at the same parties occasionally. at my birthday party last month, she was telling me that she didn't love him and she was completely over him, although he's clearly not over her. the day after my birthday party, there was another party where they both bumped into each other but didn't say anything. then ended up speaking to each other on the phone for 4 hours when they both went home and i found out that they went to another party last weekend and have been speaking every day since then, but purely on a friendship level. nothing too intimate but also completely avoiding the subject about breaking up or relationship stuff and i've just found out that they went out for dinner, movies and then slept with each other afterwards. they both definitely have feelings for each other, but i don't think they want to get back into a relationship is this healthy? i feel like telling her that it's fine as long as she's not getting hurt. but i feel like it's going to make everything 100x worse --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 12/28/18 10:11:11 AM #2: |
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Romulox28 12/28/18 10:15:01 AM #3: |
much like dr. strange, i have run 14,000,065 scenarios and found only one where this ends well for both parties, & that is one where they had a very casual relationship to begin with & never had strong feelings beyond physical/social attraction
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Eevee-Trainer 12/28/18 10:18:08 AM #4: |
Parappa09 posted...
is this healthy? Depends on why they broke up but the answer to this question is 99% no. >_> --- See me on Discord! ^.^ Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/qavbtaQ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rhklce 12/28/18 10:19:49 AM #5: |
Not gonna end well for him, but hes not gonna listen to anyone if they say nah, bro so let him have his fun and get heartbroken then take him with you to several strip clubs and places without her.
He honestly could probably do with this so he can be reminded that she really doesnt care about him like that and hell find himself grounded. He could also become an emotional wreck that needs the former pointed out to him.. and in time, with the help of his awesome friends, hell get over it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jeff AKA Snoopy 12/28/18 10:19:52 AM #6: |
I've never done the backslide, but here is my two cents.
Breaking up and getting back together happens. Usually there is a reason why people break up though and likely those reasons are still there and will show up again. It likely wont work out again. But ultimately it is their life and if they want to try again that is their decision to make. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheMikh 12/28/18 10:21:20 AM #7: |
never sleep with an ex; the breakup happened for a reason
those of us who have gotten back with an ex have inevitably learned this - for some, the hard way --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkChozoGhost 12/28/18 10:21:47 AM #8: |
It's ok sometimes. A lot of couples are off and on., and a lot of them are fine together.
They could also get really hurt --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MegaTech 12/28/18 10:21:57 AM #9: |
I've done this before and if the reason why they broke up hasn't changed in the first place then it's generally not gonna work out. I had to cut ties completely because the allure of having someone around that knows you so well and for the sex is hard to turn away from. The feelings are strong mane
--- That one bloke with a haggard smirk, whereabouts unknown, puttin in that cloak and dagger work. https://imgur.com/c8xCRi7 - CoolbeansAvi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CreekCo 12/28/18 10:22:48 AM #10: |
Well, it's their life. Sometimes it works... normally it doesn't but it's always worth a shot.
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rhklce 12/28/18 10:23:03 AM #11: |
MegaTech posted...
the allure of having someone around that knows you so well and for the sex is hard to turn away from. The feelings are strong mane Bro, theyre fuckin brutal lol ... Copied to Clipboard!
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supercrono 12/28/18 10:33:45 AM #12: |
Doesn't matter, had sex
--- Kids in the back seat cause accidents, accidents in the back seat cause kids. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheMikh 12/28/18 10:41:28 AM #13: |
supercrono posted...
Doesn't matter, had sex ex sex is the grand exception --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 12/28/18 5:35:23 PM #14: |
thanks for your help CE
i hope i dont get into this situation --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EpicMickeyDrew 12/28/18 5:52:07 PM #15: |
How many fuckin parties are you havin? Like you're not even in uni anymore.
--- Just how, pray tell, does your dick "take life"? How could a dick take a life? - XciteMe ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 12/28/18 5:53:04 PM #16: |
EpicMickeyDrew posted...
How many fuckin parties are you havin? Like you're not even in uni anymore. as much as i can lol. i dont want to regret my youth or have a midlife crisis thinking that i havent done much >.> --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Reis 12/28/18 5:55:07 PM #17: |
MegaTech posted...
I had to cut ties completely because the allure of having someone around that knows you so well and for the sex is hard to turn away from. can't C any harder ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ultima Dragon 12/28/18 6:08:14 PM #18: |
rhklce posted...
MegaTech posted...the allure of having someone around that knows you so well and for the sex is hard to turn away from. The feelings are strong mane Fucking right, it's like a damn drug lol. You either go cold turkey or you keep getting reeled back in. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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