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JumpstyIe 11/01/18 3:51:43 PM #1:	I keep chickening out. We talk a lot during breaks and seem to connect pretty well. Pretty sure she's single. Problem is there's a severe lack of private time when it's just the two of us, and I'm having this stupid mentality that's making me think it'll be awkward and I don't wanna do it in front of other people. Was gonna do it after work today but she was walking out with another girl from our class who she's getting rides with. What do? --- What the **** is Jumpstyle? <cite>JumpstyIe posted [p:911607561] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>I keep chickening out. We talk a lot during breaks and seem to connect pretty well. Pretty sure she's single. Problem is there's a severe lack of private time when it's just the two of us, and I'm having this stupid mentality that's making me think it'll be awkward and I don't wanna do it in front of other people. Was gonna do it after work today but she was walking out with another girl from our class who she's getting rides with. What do?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 11/01/18 3:51:53 PM #2:	Don't --- A thousand eyes, and one. <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:911607573] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 11/01/18 3:52:39 PM #3:	Ask the other girl out and make her jealous and want you more. --- https://imgur.com/oMugXmg https://imgur.com/nShwM9s https://imgur.com/DUyR2e8 https://imgur.com/bCo6Qbd <cite>KainWind posted [p:911607620] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Ask the other girl out and make her jealous and want you more.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 11/01/18 3:52:47 PM #4:	Just fucking ask her if she wants to go to a place. Jesus. --- [ S p e e d b o o s t ] https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:911607629] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Just fucking ask her if she wants to go to a place. Jesus.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shokan_warrior 11/01/18 3:58:08 PM #5:	Guide posted... Just fucking ask her if she wants to go to a place. Jesus. Yeah If you've talked so much how do you not know if she's single??? And what do you mean "our class" Are you in school or at work? --- never don't give up <cite>shokan_warrior posted [p:911608057] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>Guide posted...</cite> <quote>Just fucking ask her if she wants to go to a place. Jesus.</quote> Yeah If you've talked so much how do you not know if she's single??? And what do you mean "our class" Are you in school or at work?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 11/01/18 3:59:41 PM #6:	Don't --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:911608176] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 11/01/18 4:02:46 PM #7:	What do? Do not. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:911608394] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>What do? Do not.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnny_Nutcase 11/01/18 4:05:10 PM #8:	Parachute into work and get hung up in the trees. --- I've learned that life is one crushing defeat after another... until you just wish Flanders was dead. - Homer Simpson <cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted [p:911608569] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Parachute into work and get hung up in the trees.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vocedelmorte 11/01/18 4:13:03 PM #9:	You should ask her out, whenever you have any private time, you don't need more than few minutes to do it <cite>vocedelmorte posted [p:911609151] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>You should ask her out, whenever you have any private time, you don't need more than few minutes to do it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SageHarpuia 11/01/18 4:14:05 PM #10:	DarthAragorn posted... Don't DarkChozoGhost posted... Don't Silver Bearings posted... What do? Do not. This. Men are expected to make the first move and humiliate themselves so that women get to laugh at them for ever assuming they could get close to someone. --- "You will pay dearly for your futile resistance!" <cite>SageHarpuia posted [p:911609224] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthAragorn posted...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> <cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>What do? Do not.</quote> This. Men are expected to make the first move and humiliate themselves so that women get to laugh at them for ever assuming they could get close to someone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
karlpilkington4 11/01/18 4:15:09 PM #11:	I remember when I was 17 --- "It's not a Great Wall, it's an alright wall. It's the Alright Wall of China." <cite>karlpilkington4 posted [p:911609311] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>I remember when I was 17</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ic3Bullet 11/01/18 4:16:34 PM #12:	Pull out the mushroom tip <cite>Ic3Bullet posted [p:911609418] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Pull out the mushroom tip</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shokan_warrior 11/01/18 4:16:57 PM #13:	Remember You get with 0% of the girls you don't ask And they're not going to ask you --- never don't give up <cite>shokan_warrior posted [p:911609454] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Remember You get with 0% of the girls you don't ask And they're not going to ask you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LimboTraveller 11/01/18 4:18:10 PM #14:	buy a wedding ring and propose her with it. The value of the money will give stronger effect and make her fall in love with you. Also, dont take a bath for at least 2 days before you asked her out to increase the male pheromone smell on your body (to make her attracted to you) <cite>LimboTraveller posted [p:911609542] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>buy a wedding ring and propose her with it. The value of the money will give stronger effect and make her fall in love with you. Also, dont take a bath for at least 2 days before you asked her out to increase the male pheromone smell on your body (to make her attracted to you)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Touch 11/01/18 4:18:55 PM #15:	Say "Hey I was gonna get bread at red lobsters this weekend. Did you want to come?" And when she says no you slam the microwave door closed and scream "Fucking FINE then MARGARET" Then you storm out the room --- https://imgur.com/Sy3Fd8J <cite>Touch posted [p:911609583] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Say "Hey I was gonna get bread at red lobsters this weekend. Did you want to come?" And when she says no you slam the microwave door closed and scream "Fucking FINE then MARGARET" Then you storm out the room</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ic3Bullet 11/01/18 4:19:08 PM #16:	shokan_warrior posted... Remember You get with 0% of the girls you don't ask And they're not going to ask you laughs in Bill Cosby voice <cite>Ic3Bullet posted [p:911609599] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote>Remember You get with 0% of the girls you don't ask And they're not going to ask you</quote> laughs in Bill Cosby voice</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GameboyTroy 11/01/18 4:41:31 PM #17:	Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you. --- Goldeneye FC 5365-5518-3504 alt FC 3899-7748-6731; MKWii FC 4253-8089-9160 <cite>GameboyTroy posted [p:911611257] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 11/01/18 4:46:52 PM #18:	shokan_warrior posted... they're not going to ask you Being ugly must suck. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:911611711] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote>they're not going to ask you</quote> Being ugly must suck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shokan_warrior 11/01/18 11:29:10 PM #19:	GameboyTroy posted... Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you. That's instant friendzone Say you wanna take her out on a DATE --- never don't give up <cite>shokan_warrior posted [p:911640301] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>GameboyTroy posted...</cite> <quote>Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you.</quote> That's instant friendzone Say you wanna take her out on a DATE</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HBOSS 11/02/18 12:16:01 AM #20:	hey. how long you been wondering about this girl? your excuses are getting the best of your time & effort for this. its dragging you down every time you excuse yourself. why? ask her out thats it. youre stressing out over nothing so step up & swing for the fences you must not fear. Fear is the mindkiller... --- You don't stop playing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop playing <cite>HBOSS posted [p:911642764] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>hey. how long you been wondering about this girl? your excuses are getting the best of your time & effort for this. its dragging you down every time you excuse yourself. why? ask her out thats it. youre stressing out over nothing so step up & swing for the fences you must not fear. Fear is the mindkiller...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 11/02/18 12:17:37 AM #21:	Write do you like me? on a post it with boxes she can check for yes or no and hand the post it to her with a pen. --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:911642832] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Write do you like me? on a post it with boxes she can check for yes or no and hand the post it to her with a pen.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
scorpion41 11/02/18 12:24:29 AM #22:	its a bad idea. Dating in the workplace is generally frowned upon by management since research has shown dating coworkers can negatively impact productivity for various reasons. Some companies even have a no dating policy for the employees. --- PSN: scorpion_4160 Currently Playing: NCAA 14, Darksiders series(PS3) <cite>scorpion41 posted [p:911643152] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>its a bad idea. Dating in the workplace is generally frowned upon by management since research has shown dating coworkers can negatively impact productivity for various reasons. Some companies even have a no dating policy for the employees.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 11/02/18 12:26:59 AM #23:	scorpion41 posted... its a bad idea. Dating in the workplace is generally frowned upon by management since research has shown dating coworkers can negatively impact productivity for various reasons. Some companies even have a no dating policy for the employees. Rules were made to be broken --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:911643264] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>scorpion41 posted...</cite> <quote>its a bad idea. Dating in the workplace is generally frowned upon by management since research has shown dating coworkers can negatively impact productivity for various reasons. Some companies even have a no dating policy for the employees.</quote> Rules were made to be broken</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 11/02/18 12:29:25 AM #24:	do it if you want to. I don't really care about employer rules or whatever. just don't make it public if itd be a big deal. the only thing I'd say think about beforehand is that if it doesn't work out, will it be too awkward or difficult to interact at work with her? --- Hey what's going on in this thread https://imgur.com/6fpKRW8 https://imgur.com/RNZi0gk <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:911643369] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>do it if you want to. I don't really care about employer rules or whatever. just don't make it public if itd be a big deal. the only thing I'd say think about beforehand is that if it doesn't work out, will it be too awkward or difficult to interact at work with her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shokan_warrior 11/02/18 12:30:04 AM #25:	Just learn the dating policy and yolo it --- never don't give up <cite>shokan_warrior posted [p:911643398] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Just learn the dating policy and yolo it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 11/02/18 12:30:52 AM #26:	you ever heard the phrase don't shit where you eat --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:911643443] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>you ever heard the phrase don't shit where you eat</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FFVII_REMAKE 11/02/18 12:36:07 AM #28:	Never date your coworkers. If shit goes down, it'll be awkward between you and others in the workplace. <cite>FFVII_REMAKE posted [p:911643663] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Never date your coworkers. If shit goes down, it'll be awkward between you and others in the workplace.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 11/02/18 12:38:31 AM #29:	-go out for drinks with her and other coworkers -make a point of talking to her - play bar games etc -somehow exchange numbers and play it off as being coworker friendly (which is legit tbh); the main thing is you just gotta be casual here -text her and try to hang out one on one - just be careful here since it can be easy to come on too strong Even the last part you can still honestly downplay - its really not that difficult to just act like you wanna be friends. Ultimately if a coworker girl is interested and you go along these steps the flirting will either come out or it wont happen. --- Colossally colossal. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:911643761] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>-go out for drinks with her and other coworkers -make a point of talking to her - play bar games etc -somehow exchange numbers and play it off as being coworker friendly (which is legit tbh); the main thing is you just gotta be casual here -text her and try to hang out one on one - just be careful here since it can be easy to come on too strong Even the last part you can still honestly downplay - its really not that difficult to just act like you wanna be friends. Ultimately if a coworker girl is interested and you go along these steps the flirting will either come out or it wont happen.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GameboyTroy 11/02/18 3:06:24 AM #30:	shokan_warrior posted... GameboyTroy posted... Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you. That's instant friendzone Say you wanna take her out on a DATE I'm not into date dates. How do you know that? --- Goldeneye FC 5365-5518-3504 alt FC 3899-7748-6731; MKWii FC 4253-8089-9160 <cite>GameboyTroy posted [p:911649255] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>shokan_warrior posted...</cite> <quote><cite>GameboyTroy posted...</cite> <quote>Tell her that you think the both of you should get to know each other better and ask her if she wants to hangout with you.</quote> That's instant friendzone Say you wanna take her out on a DATE</quote> I'm not into date dates. How do you know that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GameboyTroy 11/02/18 3:34:34 AM #31:	Bryfang posted... JumpstyIe posted... I keep chickening out. We talk a lot during breaks and seem to connect pretty well. Pretty sure she's single. Problem is there's a severe lack of private time when it's just the two of us, and I'm having this stupid mentality that's making me think it'll be awkward and I don't wanna do it in front of other people. Was gonna do it after work today but she was walking out with another girl from our class who she's getting rides with. What do? You should've felt out whether she was single or not with some tactical questions. Either way, just ask if she'd like to hang out after work sometime. Be honest and say you enjoy talking with her, but there's barely any time to have real conversations since there's so many people around. It's super casual, but she'll know exactly what you mean. If she rejects you, it shouldn't be awkward and you know where you stand. If she doesn't and you guys click as well as you think you do, it should be smooth sailings from there. Good luck, fam. High five! --- Goldeneye FC 5365-5518-3504 alt FC 3899-7748-6731; MKWii FC 4253-8089-9160 <cite>GameboyTroy posted [p:911649979] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>Bryfang posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JumpstyIe posted...</cite> <quote>I keep chickening out. We talk a lot during breaks and seem to connect pretty well. Pretty sure she's single. Problem is there's a severe lack of private time when it's just the two of us, and I'm having this stupid mentality that's making me think it'll be awkward and I don't wanna do it in front of other people. Was gonna do it after work today but she was walking out with another girl from our class who she's getting rides with. What do?</quote> You should've felt out whether she was single or not with some tactical questions. Either way, just ask if she'd like to hang out after work sometime. Be honest and say you enjoy talking with her, but there's barely any time to have real conversations since there's so many people around. It's super casual, but she'll know exactly what you mean. If she rejects you, it shouldn't be awkward and you know where you stand. If she doesn't and you guys click as well as you think you do, it should be smooth sailings from there. Good luck, fam.</quote> High five!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
0AbsoluteZero0 11/02/18 3:38:51 AM #32:	SageHarpuia posted... DarthAragorn posted... Don't DarkChozoGhost posted... Don't Silver Bearings posted... What do? Do not. This. Men are expected to make the first move and humiliate themselves so that women get to laugh at them for ever assuming they could get close to someone. Your raging inceldom is showing. Might want to do something about that @SageHarpuia --- -The Admirable <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted [p:911650098] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote><cite>SageHarpuia posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthAragorn posted...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted...</cite> <quote>Don't</quote> <cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>What do? Do not.</quote> This. Men are expected to make the first move and humiliate themselves so that women get to laugh at them for ever assuming they could get close to someone.</quote> Your raging inceldom is showing. Might want to do something about that @SageHarpuia</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
12amMadman 11/02/18 3:43:00 AM #33:	Just ask if she's single first. If she is, then ask her out?? I always ask if a girl has a bf and it's not awkward --- Hey it's me <cite>12amMadman posted [p:911650189] in Thinking a... [t:77158699]...</cite> <quote>Just ask if she's single first. If she is, then ask her out?? I always ask if a girl has a bf and it's not awkward</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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