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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 11:53:29 AM
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I know I don't have the greatest track record, but I'm slowly drowning and I don't have many close friends.
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Abyssea
07/31/18 11:54:42 AM
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have you tried putting out?
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Hawaiian_punch
07/31/18 11:56:07 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
I know I don't have the greatest track record, but I'm slowly drowning and I don't have many close friends.


stop judging people by the color of their skin. Shower every once in a while. Stop posting on CE and take a stroll down the park.

Your life quality will improve tremendously. You can do it!
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 11:58:51 AM
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Hawaiian_punch posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
I know I don't have the greatest track record, but I'm slowly drowning and I don't have many close friends.


stop judging people by the color of their skin. Shower every once in a while. Stop posting on CE and take a stroll down the park.

Your life quality will improve tremendously. You can do it!


A. I don't.
B. I shower every day
C. I'm about to start my jiu-jitsu class in 2 minutes.
D. Life quality is fine, just stressed as fuck about a bunch of things.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 11:59:22 AM
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Abyssea posted...
have you tried putting out?


I'm about to be engaged to be married. Got that covered.
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PoopPotato
07/31/18 12:01:12 PM
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Bio1590
07/31/18 12:04:19 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Abyssea posted...
have you tried putting out?


I'm about to be engaged to be married. Got that covered.

RIP that poor human being
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eston
07/31/18 12:05:24 PM
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Squall28
07/31/18 12:05:39 PM
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Do you not have buddies that train with you? They're usually the chillest people.
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DragonGirlYuki
07/31/18 12:05:51 PM
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Buy a pickup truck.
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lww99
07/31/18 12:08:42 PM
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What's going on?

Also, first BJJ class or been going for awhile?
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blablablax17
07/31/18 12:37:00 PM
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Idk who you are, but here's some advice:
Chill out
Go with the flow
Nothing matters
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:06:25 PM
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Squall28 posted...
Do you not have buddies that train with you? They're usually the chillest people.


I do, and I just got advice. Class just let out.

Basically my GF/Fiancee(only difference atm is I'm saving money for a ring she picked out) wants to move from MN to Oregon after we get married and I don't want to leave my gym because they're like family to me.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:07:01 PM
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lww99 posted...
What's going on?

Also, first BJJ class or been going for awhile?


I'm a 2 stripe blue belt, been going for 2.5 years.
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lww99
07/31/18 1:18:38 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Squall28 posted...
Do you not have buddies that train with you? They're usually the chillest people.


I do, and I just got advice. Class just let out.

Basically my GF/Fiancee(only difference atm is I'm saving money for a ring she picked out) wants to move from MN to Oregon after we get married and I don't want to leave my gym because they're like family to me.


Hmm.

Any friends or family outside of the gym?

The people who you train with now probably won't be here forever
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:18:40 PM
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That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.
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_IceSikle
07/31/18 1:33:38 PM
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eston posted...
stop asking CE for advice

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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:35:10 PM
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_IceSikle posted...
eston posted...
stop asking CE for advice


Probably a good idea. Too many toxic people.
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DragonGirlYuki
07/31/18 1:36:00 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
_IceSikle posted...
eston posted...
stop asking CE for advice


Probably a good idea. Too many toxic people.

The toxicity is the main appeal of this place though.
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_IceSikle
07/31/18 1:36:58 PM
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Perhaps but that doesn't extend to advice
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Kitt
07/31/18 1:37:51 PM
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You can close your account. No, seriously. You'll be less fixated on this place and more focused on your actual life. Just think about all the shit you could be getting done.
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Hawaiian_punch
07/31/18 1:45:57 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.


most women will stop swallowing the sword after marriage.

Big deal? Now you won't have to clean the tuna can
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_IceSikle
07/31/18 1:47:09 PM
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Hawaiian_punch posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.


most women will stop swallowing the sword after marriage.

Big deal? Now you won't have to clean the tuna can

What a sad statement. Nice analogies though
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lww99
07/31/18 1:51:07 PM
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Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:51:43 PM
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Hawaiian_punch posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.


most women will stop swallowing the sword after marriage.

Big deal? Now you won't have to clean the tuna can


Well, here's the thing: She'll go down on me all the time. Like, whenever I ask. She just doesn't finish. Ever.

On the other hand, I don't like going down on her (it's not anything wrong with her, I've just never enjoyed it with any of my other GF's either), but I make sure I finish every time because I know she loves it.
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lww99
07/31/18 1:52:00 PM
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I am in no way trying to poke fun.

Think about investing in a fleshlight. You can get a knockoff for $20 on Amazon.

Made all the difference for me.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:52:50 PM
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lww99 posted...
Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too


The former. It's really frustrating tbh.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 1:54:09 PM
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lww99 posted...
I am in no way trying to poke fun.

Think about investing in a fleshlight. You can get a knockoff for $20 on Amazon.

Made all the difference for me.


I have one lol. Had it before I started dating her because I was alone for 3 years.
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lww99
07/31/18 1:55:57 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too


The former. It's really frustrating tbh.


Totally feel it. Completely ruins it.
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thanosibe
07/31/18 1:59:50 PM
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_IceSikle posted...
Hawaiian_punch posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.


most women will stop swallowing the sword after marriage.

Big deal? Now you won't have to clean the tuna can

What a sad statement. Nice analogies though
I've been married 18 years and I get it just as often as I might want it. I just prefer other things when it comes to sexual congress.

But I will say early on in our marriage I was not keen on giving my wife oral sex. Come (haha lol) to find out it was the bush. When we figured that out she trimmed it down and after that ...
https://imgur.com/rIs8pWk

So maybe there is some other hangup she has outside of letting you finish in her mouth. Ask her. Talk about if you haven't. Maybe she's not intentionally being selfish. And is also too afraid/embarrassed to tell you what it is
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 2:06:56 PM
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thanosibe posted...
_IceSikle posted...
Hawaiian_punch posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
That and she's not reciprocating much when it comes to oral (lol) and it's been bothering me. She's promised to let me finish like 5 times now so I was getting a little fed up.


most women will stop swallowing the sword after marriage.

Big deal? Now you won't have to clean the tuna can

What a sad statement. Nice analogies though
I've been married 18 years and I get it just as often as I might want it. I just prefer other things when it comes to sexual congress.

But I will say early on in our marriage I was not keen on giving my wife oral sex. Come (haha lol) to find out it was the bush. When we figured that out she trimmed it down and after that ...
https://imgur.com/rIs8pWk

So maybe there is some other hangup she has outside of letting you finish in her mouth. Ask her. Talk about if you haven't. Maybe she's not intentionally being selfish. And is also too afraid/embarrassed to tell you what it is


She's worried about the taste. I tried to explain to her that I don't like the taste either when I go down on her, but that I do it anyway because I love her. That's why I'm a bit more frustrated about it than usual. I feel like I've sacrificed and she's too worried to do the same.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 2:07:38 PM
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lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too


The former. It's really frustrating tbh.


Totally feel it. Completely ruins it.


Yeah, it feels amazing, and then I get close and she stops.
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lww99
07/31/18 2:11:50 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too


The former. It's really frustrating tbh.


Totally feel it. Completely ruins it.


Yeah, it feels amazing, and then I get close and she stops.


Would she let you finish on her face or elsewhere? At least jack you off to finish? I totally understand that it kills the momentum of everything, though.

How often do you go down on her? And vise versa.

In my experience, eating her out more didn't help much unfortunately.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 2:18:36 PM
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lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
Won't take the load in her mouth, or just doesn't have the stamina to finish the job?

My gf does the former too


The former. It's really frustrating tbh.


Totally feel it. Completely ruins it.


Yeah, it feels amazing, and then I get close and she stops.


Would she let you finish on her face or elsewhere? At least jack you off to finish? I totally understand that it kills the momentum of everything, though.

How often do you go down on her? And vise versa.

In my experience, eating her out more didn't help much unfortunately.


She thinks it's actually more gross to get it on her, so no dice there. And we usually just have sex after she does her thing so it's not like I'm getting blue balled thankfully.

I rarely go down on her, but I did have a string of days where I tried to increase the frequency. Doesn't seem to be working :/
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lww99
07/31/18 2:41:07 PM
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Can't taste it, but won't even get it on her? Wtf?

Does she think you have cooties or some shit
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 2:50:40 PM
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lww99 posted...
Can't taste it, but won't even get it on her? Wtf?

Does she think you have cooties or some shit


No, apparently it's been a long time since she's swallowed and the last dude was a pig that only ate McDonald's so his shit was probably nasty as hell.

And yeah, she's grossed out by any type of bodily fluids I guess.
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lww99
07/31/18 2:52:16 PM
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How long have you guys been together? Honestly I wouldn't uproot my entire life for someone who's afraid of getting even a little sticky.

Sex isn't everything, but it's a foundation in any solid relationship.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 3:09:46 PM
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lww99 posted...
How long have you guys been together? Honestly I wouldn't uproot my entire life for someone who's afraid of getting even a little sticky.

Sex isn't everything, but it's a foundation in any solid relationship.


Almost 7 months now. And yeah, I think she got the message last night. She promised the day before that she would let me finish, then backed out, saying "I dont really get anything out of it", to which I responded "I don't get anything out of going down on you either but I do it anyway".
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lww99
07/31/18 3:11:37 PM
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Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.
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iClockwork
07/31/18 3:16:21 PM
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What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 3:25:51 PM
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iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.
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lww99
07/31/18 3:28:23 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.


Is sex the only issue?

If you don't mind me asking, what fetishes? I'm only asking to see if it's a "normal" thing, that most people enjoy. Like BDSM.

Other stuff I understand not wanting to try.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 3:33:26 PM
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lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.


Is sex the only issue?

If you don't mind me asking, what fetishes? I'm only asking to see if it's a "normal" thing, that most people enjoy. Like BDSM.

Other stuff I understand not wanting to try.


Everything else is perfect tbh.

And the fetishes are deep throat and *** play.
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lww99
07/31/18 3:37:05 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.


Is sex the only issue?

If you don't mind me asking, what fetishes? I'm only asking to see if it's a "normal" thing, that most people enjoy. Like BDSM.

Other stuff I understand not wanting to try.


Everything else is perfect tbh.

And the fetishes are deep throat and *** play.


I'm not even sure if deepthroat counts as a fetish. More of a talent, IMO. A rare and fantastic talent, at that.

The second is pretty hot, but I don't think your GF would EVER go for it based on your description.

I'm with you, I want them to crave it. Just like I crave their nectar.
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iClockwork
07/31/18 3:37:41 PM
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Better add strap ons to the fetish list since you can't engage in deepthroating with a micro penis lol.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 3:43:08 PM
#48:


lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.


Is sex the only issue?

If you don't mind me asking, what fetishes? I'm only asking to see if it's a "normal" thing, that most people enjoy. Like BDSM.

Other stuff I understand not wanting to try.


Everything else is perfect tbh.

And the fetishes are deep throat and *** play.


I'm not even sure if deepthroat counts as a fetish. More of a talent, IMO. A rare and fantastic talent, at that.

The second is pretty hot, but I don't think your GF would EVER go for it based on your description.

I'm with you, I want them to crave it. Just like I crave their nectar.


Yeah, second one is never happening for sure. But the first one can be worked on. Just have to relax and get control over the gag reflex from what I've read. She's convinced she can, but has never tried.
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lww99
07/31/18 3:45:50 PM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
lww99 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
iClockwork posted...
What a train wreck of a sexual relationship. Are you both fresh out of high school?


I'm 28 and she's 32, so no.

lww99 posted...
Right like she has to learn to reciprocate.

Idk man, 7 months isn't all that long. Probably only to get worse as time goes on, unfortunately.


Eh, I can live without it but it sucks we're not completely on the same page sexually. I have a few fetishes that she doesn't care for at all so I'll probably never get to experience them.


Is sex the only issue?

If you don't mind me asking, what fetishes? I'm only asking to see if it's a "normal" thing, that most people enjoy. Like BDSM.

Other stuff I understand not wanting to try.


Everything else is perfect tbh.

And the fetishes are deep throat and *** play.


I'm not even sure if deepthroat counts as a fetish. More of a talent, IMO. A rare and fantastic talent, at that.

The second is pretty hot, but I don't think your GF would EVER go for it based on your description.

I'm with you, I want them to crave it. Just like I crave their nectar.


Yeah, second one is never happening for sure. But the first one can be worked on. Just have to relax and get control over the gag reflex from what I've read. She's convinced she can, but has never tried.


I've heard this too. But I'm sure some just have a natural ability.

Idk man, the fact that she's refusing to do any work to improve the situation is pretty alarming.
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_Goggalor_
07/31/18 3:52:27 PM
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I guess it just isn't her thing, no matter how much I wish it was.

Oh well, means I don't have to go out of my way for her.
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