Current Events > Is it a huge turnoff for you if you're interested in a woman but she already has

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.....a kid with another man? Seems a lot of women already have one and at ages that aren't that old.

yes
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Nope. Idgaf.
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It's your responsibility to raise her child.
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Yep. I could never love a kid that isn't mine unless they're family.
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if its a pump and dump I dont care, to date I would be more iffy about it.
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Yes. Fuck raising someone elses kid.

I hate kids so yes
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EliteLevel posted...

Yes. Fuck raising someone elses kid.

but what about all those anti abortion people who are all, oh many people want to raise kids that they're not related to, just adopt.

yeah it is.

1. father of kid always to be considered when thinking long term with girl

2. father of kid always part of that girls life

there's no future in this that I want a part of. shes can be an awesome girl but I am selfish and sharing her with another man to whatever capacity is a dealbreaker for me.
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AirJordan2345 posted...

EliteLevel posted...

Yes. Fuck raising someone elses kid.

but what about all those anti abortion people who are all, oh many people want to raise kids that they're not related to, just adopt.

Im not many people. They can do what they like. But personally I wouldnt want a woman with baggage.

Yeah I can't do it. One of my ex gfs has a kid and I had to deal with the baby daddy telling me to stay away from the kid, then she'd bring him around sometimes.

Also there are different priorities. Single moms usually want to settle while I'm looking for companionship while living out my youth with little responsibilities.
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No.
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yup. i'd smash still but there is no future. if i accidently got her pregnant its gonna be bad for her kid because i will bring my child food while her kid gonna starve
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Dark_SilverX posted...

yup. i'd smash still but there is no future. if i accidently got her pregnant its gonna be bad for her kid because i will bring my child food while her kid gonna starve

really? you would do that? what about getting an abortion?

As long as she doesn't expect me to be the dad it's cool. I'd be willing to help out with them but hardcore dad responsibilities can fuck off. Most kids don't want that and neither do I

Not an issue for me although from past experience I'd want to hold off quite awhile before meeting her child/children. I have a daughter so it would be hugely hypocritical not to date women with children and I'm great with kids.
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I'd only ever consider a single mother if she had 18+ year old daughter(s) I could shift focus to.
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AirJordan2345 posted...

Dark_SilverX posted...

yup. i'd smash still but there is no future. if i accidently got her pregnant its gonna be bad for her kid because i will bring my child food while her kid gonna starve

really? you would do that? what about getting an abortion?

thats if she keeps it. i am for the abortions. i will beg her to go through with it
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the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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i'm 24 and still in college

you're goddamn right it's a turnoff, i try to date my age to a few years younger so having a kid at that age and being single screams bad judgment
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She would have to deal with my 5 kids, so it would be unfair for me to say no.
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If your not banging her in the butt in the kids room while baby dady is stuck with the tyke your doing it wrong.
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Orthopox12 posted...

If your not banging her in the butt in the kids room while baby dady is stuck with the tyke your doing it wrong.

but it has to be in the butt?

HBOSS posted...

yeah it is.

1. father of kid always to be considered when thinking long term with girl

2. father of kid always part of that girls life

there's no future in this that I want a part of. shes can be an awesome girl but I am selfish and sharing her with another man to whatever capacity is a dealbreaker for me.

Neither of those things are always true
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