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Hinakuluiau 07/17/18 7:46:01 PM #1:	He got broken up with by the girl he thought was "the one" He had a panic attack on the way to my place and had to pull over to calm down He then gave me his gun and ammo and told me to keep them away from him He scheduled an appointment with a therapist on Friday I took off work and we went to the beach today. he seemed to be in a way better mood but is now in the shower listening to emo music, crying, and drinking a few cans of beer What the fuck do I do? --- There are some things where I just bypass critical thinking. - ROD <cite>Hinakuluiau posted [p:905259186] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>He got broken up with by the girl he thought was "the one" He had a panic attack on the way to my place and had to pull over to calm down He then gave me his gun and ammo and told me to keep them away from him He scheduled an appointment with a therapist on Friday I took off work and we went to the beach today. he seemed to be in a way better mood but is now in the shower listening to emo music, crying, and drinking a few cans of beer What the fuck do I do?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 07/17/18 7:46:39 PM #2:	leave him be and let him let it all out --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:905259226] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>leave him be and let him let it all out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fin_Dawg_004 07/17/18 7:46:46 PM #3:	tell him to stop being a bitch --- Dallas Cowboys : 6 - 6 Dallas Mavs : Dirk Nowitzki: 30, 527 points (6th all time) 892 from Wilt <cite>Fin_Dawg_004 posted [p:905259235] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>tell him to stop being a bitch</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RE_expert44 07/17/18 7:47:52 PM #4:	Tell him to man up. No wonder he got dumped. --- Topic Killer Extraordinaire! REmake 2 giveaway > http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1074-resident-evil-past-present-and-future <cite>RE_expert44 posted [p:905259289] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>Tell him to man up. No wonder he got dumped.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mystery_Mission 07/17/18 7:48:19 PM #5:	tell him to stop being a little bitch <cite>Mystery_Mission posted [p:905259314] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>tell him to stop being a little bitch</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 07/17/18 7:48:46 PM #6:	Bone him. --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://imgur.com/6ezFwG1 <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:905259334] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>Bone him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 07/17/18 7:48:53 PM #7:	Fin_Dawg_004 posted... tell him to stop being a bitch RE_expert44 posted... Tell him to man up. No wonder he got dumped. Mystery_Mission posted... tell him to stop being a little bitch ignore these posts --- I obviously like you at least a little to even talk to you -cornman one day I hope to post a message so great it ends up in someones sig -Two_Dee <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:905259341] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>Fin_Dawg_004 posted...</cite> <quote>tell him to stop being a bitch</quote> <cite>RE_expert44 posted...</cite> <quote>Tell him to man up. No wonder he got dumped.</quote> <cite>Mystery_Mission posted...</cite> <quote>tell him to stop being a little bitch</quote> ignore these posts</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Awakened_Link 07/17/18 7:49:13 PM #8:	DrizztLink posted... Bone him. --- Formerly known as Coleby <cite>Awakened_Link posted [p:905259356] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>DrizztLink posted...</cite> <quote>Bone him.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 07/17/18 7:49:15 PM #9:	Mystery_Mission posted... tell him to stop being a little bitch i'm swayed by the evil :(. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:905259360] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystery_Mission posted...</cite> <quote>tell him to stop being a little bitch</quote> i'm swayed by the evil :(.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrK3V 07/17/18 7:50:00 PM #10:	You guys are awful lol If anything, I would give him props for having scheduled to see a therapist. I know there's still a stigma at times where you have to see a therapist, it means you're a loony. So I would just tell him he is taking a step in the right direction by taking initiative and changing his life. --- Bangers https://open.spotify.com/user/1226504071/playlist/3X4SSY5tgxTTgdwlkmoH9F <cite>MrK3V posted [p:905259398] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>You guys are awful lol If anything, I would give him props for having scheduled to see a therapist. I know there's still a stigma at times where you have to see a therapist, it means you're a loony. So I would just tell him he is taking a step in the right direction by taking initiative and changing his life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hinakuluiau 07/17/18 7:57:27 PM #11:	catboy0_0 posted... leave him be and let him let it all out That's what I'm doing right now. I think his mom called him and I'm trying to ignore it but I can hear him sobbing in between sentences Awakened_Link posted... DrizztLink posted... Bone him. I am gay but my boyfriend is already a little annoyed about the gun so I don't think he'll be cool with that :( MrK3V posted... You guys are awful lol If anything, I would give him props for having scheduled to see a therapist. I know there's still a stigma at times where you have to see a therapist, it means you're a loony. So I would just tell him he is taking a step in the right direction by taking initiative and changing his life. Yeah, it's a pretty great idea and he did that on his own. I tried to tell him it's a good idea and that he's taking baby steps It's not just the girlfriend, y'know? He's been through some shit and has pretty much had anxiety and depression problems for the last 6 years or so --- There are some things where I just bypass critical thinking. - ROD <cite>Hinakuluiau posted [p:905259804] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>leave him be and let him let it all out</quote> That's what I'm doing right now. I think his mom called him and I'm trying to ignore it but I can hear him sobbing in between sentences <cite>Awakened_Link posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DrizztLink posted...</cite> <quote>Bone him.</quote></quote> I am gay but my boyfriend is already a little annoyed about the gun so I don't think he'll be cool with that :( <cite>MrK3V posted...</cite> <quote>You guys are awful lol If anything, I would give him props for having scheduled to see a therapist. I know there's still a stigma at times where you have to see a therapist, it means you're a loony. So I would just tell him he is taking a step in the right direction by taking initiative and changing his life.</quote> Yeah, it's a pretty great idea and he did that on his own. I tried to tell him it's a good idea and that he's taking baby steps It's not just the girlfriend, y'know? He's been through some shit and has pretty much had anxiety and depression problems for the last 6 years or so</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrK3V 07/17/18 7:58:32 PM #12:	I would give him props too for appropriately giving you his piece. He understands he's not mentally fit right now, but absolutely took the right step. Showed he still values his life. --- Bangers https://open.spotify.com/user/1226504071/playlist/3X4SSY5tgxTTgdwlkmoH9F <cite>MrK3V posted [p:905259854] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>I would give him props too for appropriately giving you his piece. He understands he's not mentally fit right now, but absolutely took the right step. Showed he still values his life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 07/17/18 8:02:01 PM #13:	catboy0_0 posted... leave him be and let him let it all out This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available. --- Torn between two minds. Is either correct? Perhaps together.....but how? Can it be done? <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:905260062] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>leave him be and let him let it all out</quote> This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HotLap 07/17/18 8:05:02 PM #14:	DarthGravid posted... catboy0_0 posted... leave him be and let him let it all out This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available. Yeah if it only happened last night, he's still going through it. He made a great choice by being proactive and scheduling a therapist appointment. A couple days to just let it out is completely normal. --- You don't have to put my thighs in the microwave. <cite>HotLap posted [p:905260232] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthGravid posted...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>leave him be and let him let it all out</quote> This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available.</quote> Yeah if it only happened last night, he's still going through it. He made a great choice by being proactive and scheduling a therapist appointment. A couple days to just let it out is completely normal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 07/17/18 9:32:08 PM #15:	HotLap posted... DarthGravid posted... catboy0_0 posted... leave him be and let him let it all out This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available. Yeah if it only happened last night, he's still going through it. He made a great choice by being proactive and scheduling a therapist appointment. A couple days to just let it out is completely normal. i had that time when i was angry, letting it out is good just not directly at the people that wronged me. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:905265610] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote><cite>HotLap posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthGravid posted...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>leave him be and let him let it all out</quote> This is the correct answer. He needs a friend and support. Give him his space, but be available.</quote> Yeah if it only happened last night, he's still going through it. He made a great choice by being proactive and scheduling a therapist appointment. A couple days to just let it out is completely normal.</quote> i had that time when i was angry, letting it out is good just not directly at the people that wronged me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
southcoast09 07/17/18 9:40:03 PM #16:	If this is true, youre one hell of a friend to have. --- #MakeFinalFantasyGreatAgain <cite>southcoast09 posted [p:905266068] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>If this is true, youre one hell of a friend to have.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheVipaGTS 07/17/18 9:47:31 PM #18:	Give him a bit more time. if you truly are his friend and he trusts you THIS much in his vulnerable state at least try to be there for him and let him work this out...now that said if it gets to the point where you feel he's there for too long and you need your space/whatever then talk to him about that. but be tactful. assure him you're still there for him and all that... --- Dallas Cowboys: 1 - 1 <cite>TheVipaGTS posted [p:905266490] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>Give him a bit more time. if you truly are his friend and he trusts you THIS much in his vulnerable state at least try to be there for him and let him work this out...now that said if it gets to the point where you feel he's there for too long and you need your space/whatever then talk to him about that. but be tactful. assure him you're still there for him and all that...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eat More Beef 07/17/18 9:56:21 PM #19:	Legit, you gotta set some ground rules for how long he can stay/when he has to start paying for stuff. It's a shit thing to bring up, but discuss with your bf how long you'd be comfortable with him there and then give him the business. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com <cite>Eat More Beef posted [p:905267004] in A friend d... [t:76817014]...</cite> <quote>Legit, you gotta set some ground rules for how long he can stay/when he has to start paying for stuff. It's a shit thing to bring up, but discuss with your bf how long you'd be comfortable with him there and then give him the business.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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