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MrNintendo1213
07/17/18 11:23:40 PM
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Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
how god-awful do you have to be in order to not give a bitch some pipe? even the fattest motherfuckerss can get some.


By being unable to socialize. It honestly baffles me how everyone can even function every single day. I literally can barely talk to anyone beyond saying thank you and describing basic things happening, like telling a cashier my card isn't working or something.

bro what? in the words of a wise man, "JUST DO IT"


Just do what? I freeze up completely even when I have to talk to people in group discussions in a classroom setting, unless I'm already extremely relaxed. Any small amount of stress makes me completely unable to move or speak.

Once I got a job at a subway, but there was a cute girl working there when I was supposed to go in for training, so I got frozen and just sat down at a table for 30 minutes unable to move. When I got the courage to move, all I could do was get up and walk out, and walk home.
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Le__seul_dieu__
07/17/18 11:24:43 PM
#53:


MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
how god-awful do you have to be in order to not give a bitch some pipe? even the fattest motherfuckerss can get some.


By being unable to socialize. It honestly baffles me how everyone can even function every single day. I literally can barely talk to anyone beyond saying thank you and describing basic things happening, like telling a cashier my card isn't working or something.

bro what? in the words of a wise man, "JUST DO IT"


Just do what? I freeze up completely even when I have to talk to people in group discussions in a classroom setting, unless I'm already extremely relaxed. Any small amount of stress makes me completely unable to move or speak.

Once I got a job at a subway, but there was a cute girl working there when I was supposed to go in for training, so I got frozen and just sat down at a table for 30 minutes unable to move. When I got the courage to move, all I could do was get up and walk out, and walk home.

sounds like you need some xan
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MrNintendo1213
07/17/18 11:26:14 PM
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Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
how god-awful do you have to be in order to not give a bitch some pipe? even the fattest motherfuckerss can get some.


By being unable to socialize. It honestly baffles me how everyone can even function every single day. I literally can barely talk to anyone beyond saying thank you and describing basic things happening, like telling a cashier my card isn't working or something.

bro what? in the words of a wise man, "JUST DO IT"


Just do what? I freeze up completely even when I have to talk to people in group discussions in a classroom setting, unless I'm already extremely relaxed. Any small amount of stress makes me completely unable to move or speak.

Once I got a job at a subway, but there was a cute girl working there when I was supposed to go in for training, so I got frozen and just sat down at a table for 30 minutes unable to move. When I got the courage to move, all I could do was get up and walk out, and walk home.

sounds like you need some xan

I've had them, they don't help.
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MrNintendo1213
07/17/18 11:26:57 PM
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Conflict posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
MrNintendo1213 posted...
Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
how god-awful do you have to be in order to not give a bitch some pipe? even the fattest motherfuckerss can get some.


By being unable to socialize. It honestly baffles me how everyone can even function every single day. I literally can barely talk to anyone beyond saying thank you and describing basic things happening, like telling a cashier my card isn't working or something.

bro what? in the words of a wise man, "JUST DO IT"


Just do what? I freeze up completely even when I have to talk to people in group discussions in a classroom setting, unless I'm already extremely relaxed. Any small amount of stress makes me completely unable to move or speak.

Once I got a job at a subway, but there was a cute girl working there when I was supposed to go in for training, so I got frozen and just sat down at a table for 30 minutes unable to move. When I got the courage to move, all I could do was get up and walk out, and walk home.


Anxiety and self-consciousness are a bitch

You aren't going to get any type of intelligent advice on here from people like that guy. Professionals are bound to help with that stuff


I've seen professionals, they can't help either.
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Le__seul_dieu__
07/17/18 11:32:54 PM
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Conflict posted...
"I don't know how to invest"

"Just do it"

"I don't know how to solve this problem"

"Just do it"

"I don't know how to budget my finances"

"Just do it"

chill lmao. you sound like one of those worked up fat chicks mad about their demi-sexuality.
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MrNintendo1213
07/17/18 11:37:58 PM
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Le__seul_dieu__ posted...
Conflict posted...
"I don't know how to invest"

"Just do it"

"I don't know how to solve this problem"

"Just do it"

"I don't know how to budget my finances"

" Just do it"

chill lmao. you sound like one of those worked up fat chicks mad about their demi-sexuality.


And you sound like someone who has never thought about any individual topic beyond the first few basic concepts and just said lololol good enough.
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MrNintendo1213
07/17/18 11:38:16 PM
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The professionals I have talked to essentially just boil down to saying 'Just do it'. That, and one told me to go to an anxiety meeting in a church, which is still terrifying.
And yeah, I could have done that before, and I guess I still can, but my life is already ruined for other reasons so whatever. Don't ask cause I won't tell you, cause you won't beleive me.
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Prestoff
07/18/18 12:03:39 AM
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MrNintendo1213 posted...
The professionals I have talked to essentially just boil down to saying 'Just do it'.


I mean unfortunately, that's probably the best way to fight social anxiety. I forced myself to talk during college (especially during group projects) and I only got better the more I talked. For context, I'm a 5'6 nerdy asian so yeah talking to girls was a challenge for me. The best way to talk to a girl you find pretty or attractive is to first show confidence with a small talk like you would do with any of your guy friends, then ask open ended questions to keep the conversation alive.

I mean I had to force myself to be sociable, especially since I was going into the Business world and in the Business world (unless you're IT) it is a must that you know how to talk and keep a conversation alive or you won't be able to network properly. At my work place, one of the key factors when it came to recruitment during the interview and networking process was to weed out the introverts and get the extroverts to apply (we're predominately an audit and consulting firm, introverts are preferable if you're going into Tax I believe) so yeah that was one of the defining factors how I got hired even though I had a 3.2 GPA (when my work place had a 3.5 minimum). It takes practice and in many cases having to put yourself in a uncomfortable position and sticking with it in order to improve.
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countzander
07/18/18 12:22:01 AM
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Zikten posted...
for someone with social anxiety it's very hard to get a prostitute. even if they were legal, it would be daunting to approach one. I have trouble talking to people on the phone. I can't go find a stranger in the bad part of town and say the right key words to initiate an illegal sexual transaction.

That's what the Internet is for.
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Le__seul_dieu__
07/18/18 12:26:18 AM
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countzander posted...
Zikten posted...
for someone with social anxiety it's very hard to get a prostitute. even if they were legal, it would be daunting to approach one. I have trouble talking to people on the phone. I can't go find a stranger in the bad part of town and say the right key words to initiate an illegal sexual transaction.

That's what the Internet is for.

this. craiglist was pretty good and also funny entertainment to browse for this reason.
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KogaSteelfang
07/18/18 12:38:13 AM
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I don't even know any more. I can only speak for myself, and my word isn't worth much here any more. I don't hate women or resent them not wanting to be with me, it makes me resent myself instead. It's just irritating, and frustrating that I'm such a piece of shit that no one would ever want anything to do with me.

I know I do have some mental issues to work out, but I wouldn't say they're caused by the lack of sex or intimacy/love. That just seems to cause more frustration that I don't want to deal with, especially with so many other guys on here talking about their own sex lives. I've been trying to not talk this stuff as much recently though, I know everyone hates it when I do... broken record and all that.

Almost everyone else just makes it look so easy, and acts like it's just some normal activity. It's a sensitive subject, and it often leads to me becoming agitated or frustrated when it keeps being brought up, or seeing people brag about it, or for it be something to be made fun of.

Doesn't even matter in the end. I'm just going to be alone forever then die, probably to the cheers of family and everyone here anyway.
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catboy0_0
07/18/18 2:49:43 AM
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It's possible for them to have mental illnesses but mental illness isn't their defining trait, being an asshole who completely resent the opposite sex is

I don't resent the opposite sex. I'm just alone


You're not an incel then

Incel doesn't just mean "guy who can't get laid" anymore

oh
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