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smoke_break
07/12/18 2:01:37 PM
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Yes, that's fucked up. Bros before hoes.
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Nah, no such thing as "dibs" when it comes to romance.
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I'm talking a legit friend, like not just a co-worker or associate.
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eston
07/12/18 2:02:40 PM
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Depends on the situation, but that is generally not good bro behavior
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SpinKirby
07/12/18 2:02:44 PM
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If he's a good friend and didn't give you a solid chance first, then that's a violation of the bro code.
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smoke_break
07/12/18 2:03:42 PM
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I got the poll answers mixed up!! Yes is no and no is yes!!
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Darkrobotisback
07/12/18 2:05:14 PM
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Better him than someone else, I guess.
I won't be mad about it, especially since it's not that hard to find another chick.
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SuperExcitebike
07/12/18 2:06:24 PM
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Why does the poll look like it's the opposite?
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Johnny_Nutcase
07/12/18 2:06:24 PM
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smoke_break posted...
I got the poll answers mixed up!! Yes is no and no is yes!!


Sir how much have you had to drink this afternoon?
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clearaflagrantj
07/12/18 2:07:14 PM
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No such thing as fucking dibs bro.
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smoke_break
07/12/18 2:08:18 PM
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SuperExcitebike posted...
Why does the poll look like it's the opposite?

I fucked up!!

Johnny_Nutcase posted...
smoke_break posted...
I got the poll answers mixed up!! Yes is no and no is yes!!


Sir how much have you had to drink this afternoon?

Just a diet Mountain Dew!!! Diet because I'm watching my weight!!!!!!!!
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smoke_break
07/12/18 2:21:42 PM
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Asherlee10 posted...
Is he doing it out of spite or to be a jerk? Or is it that they connected better than I did?

Better connection, or so he says.
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SpinKirby
07/12/18 2:25:07 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
No such thing as dibs on a person


What's an engagement then?
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clearaflagrantj
07/12/18 2:27:00 PM
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One time I was at a club with my friend and he was talking about how he wanted to get with the girl friend he came with, we were all dancing and I was telling him to make a move and he didn't do shit, like 30-60 minutes later I go over to the girl and next thing you know I'm making out with her. Then my friend yells at me over it, like I should have respected his dibs.
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clearaflagrantj
07/12/18 2:27:46 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
No such thing as dibs on a person


What's an engagement then?

A commitment made between two people that choose to be monogamous together, completely different than some guy calling dibs on a girl he's too scared to talk to
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MrDrMan
07/12/18 2:29:55 PM
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Theres no such as thing as dibs. Its either your girl or not.

Now if you guys have been talking then and hooking up thats one thing but if you are just interested as in think shes cute thats fair game.

Women are gonna pick who they want.
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SpinKirby
07/12/18 2:35:30 PM
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clearaflagrantj posted...
SpinKirby posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
No such thing as dibs on a person


What's an engagement then?

A commitment made between two people that choose to be monogamous together, completely different than some guy calling dibs on a girl he's too scared to talk to


Literally dibs.
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clearaflagrantj
07/12/18 2:36:28 PM
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MrDrMan posted...
Women are gonna pick who they want.

Yup
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clearaflagrantj
07/12/18 2:40:39 PM
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SpinKirby posted...
clearaflagrantj posted...
SpinKirby posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
No such thing as dibs on a person


What's an engagement then?

A commitment made between two people that choose to be monogamous together, completely different than some guy calling dibs on a girl he's too scared to talk to


Literally dibs.

*Literally dabs*
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ThyCorndog
07/12/18 2:41:41 PM
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i'd question our friendship if we were real friends as the op says
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gguirao
07/12/18 2:48:34 PM
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If she and I weren't together at the time, I can't complain.
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Aloner
07/12/18 2:52:21 PM
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He's not doing anything wrong, I don't have any claim on the woman, but for personal reasons I would not be friends with him.

I'm easily consumed by resentment. I can't be sitting here as a foreveralone and be friends with a guy who's banging my crush. I'd just stop talking to the guy and not tell him why.

clearaflagrantj posted...
One time I was at a club with my friend and he was talking about how he wanted to get with the girl friend he came with, we were all dancing and I was telling him to make a move and he didn't do shit, like 30-60 minutes later I go over to the girl and next thing you know I'm making out with her. Then my friend yells at me over it, like I should have respected his dibs.

...That's worse than the topic scenario. I'd cut off both friendships in as butthurt a manner as possible and cry in my room.
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catboy0_0
07/12/18 2:53:40 PM
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TT is a trap
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catboy0_0
07/12/18 2:56:53 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Dude what if you just grow up and be happy for your friends instead?

because he's not happy
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joestarrr
07/12/18 2:59:37 PM
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no such things as dibs in romantic relationships tbh
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
07/12/18 3:20:09 PM
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Did he know you liked her and how much time did you spend pining away but not doing anything before he took the initiative ?

If its been a week or more then hes not wrong in acting cause you didt do anything, if its just been a few days thats eh.

Bottom line is you failed to go for her and thats on you.
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Aloner
07/12/18 3:23:08 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Dude what if you just grow up and be happy for your friends instead?

My post is an overreaction, I'd probably actually just silently cut contact there too.

But in that hypothetical scenario I knew the girl before he did and had actually been putting some effort to get with her, he knew that, and then he just starts making out with her within an hour. There's probably plenty of girls he can get instead, yet he actively undermined my attempt anyway.

If you struggle to get anywhere with women then someone knowingly trashing your progress with one isn't very friendly.
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smoke_break
07/12/18 3:39:32 PM
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Imagine this scenario. You chat with your close maybe even best friend nearly everyday about how you're making progress with your crush. One day, when you finally work up the nerve to ask her out, your friend hits you up with the news that he and your crush are in a relationship and that he's sorry.
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looked
07/12/18 3:54:50 PM
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smoke_break posted...
Imagine this scenario. You chat with your close maybe even best friend nearly everyday about how you're making progress with your crush. One day, when you finally work up the nerve to ask her out, your friend hits you up with the news that he and your crush are in a relationship and that he's sorry.


I would probably end the friendship in that scenario. Going after the same girl in a club is one thing, but making moves behind your back while he knows you are pursuing this girl is messed up.
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Hairy-man
07/12/18 4:06:46 PM
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People have this all screwed up.

Yes I would forgive my friend. Its the chick that I would move on from. If the chick is going to fuck my friend, I dont have any interest in her.

If she doesnt want to fuck my friend, then great, maybe she will only want to fuck me.

If anything, my friend is doing me a favour by showing me that a girl that Ive been seeing, is going to fuck other dudes.

Thank you friend. Thankyou
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Lordgold666
07/12/18 4:10:42 PM
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Dont hate the playas

Hate the game
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Kineth
07/13/18 8:35:48 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Hairy-man posted...
People have this all screwed up.

Yes I would forgive my friend. Its the chick that I would move on from. If the chick is going to fuck my friend, I dont have any interest in her.

If she doesnt want to fuck my friend, then great, maybe she will only want to fuck me.

If anything, my friend is doing me a favour by showing me that a girl that Ive been seeing, is going to fuck other dudes.

Thank you friend. Thankyou

This guy gets it.


This p much. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

That said, if it's a recurring pattern, then there's real beef to be had.
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