Poll of the Day > Ugh. Why do I have to call people...

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Mario_VS_DK
07/09/18 6:26:58 PM
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Getting anxiety just thinking about it... I don't want to talk to people in general, let alone initiate the conversation... I thought all this DnD and meeting new people was supposed to help me get over this...

Well... Here I go...
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Teeth
07/09/18 6:34:20 PM
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be a fucking adult
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Muscles
07/09/18 6:40:39 PM
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Teeth posted...
be a fucking adult

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SilentSeph
07/09/18 6:43:09 PM
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I hate making phone calls too. I almost have to be drunk for my anxiety to go away for me to make the call.
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Muscles
07/09/18 6:44:01 PM
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SilentSeph posted...
I hate making phone calls too. I almost have to be drunk for my anxiety to go away for me to make the call.

I hate it too but just make the call anyways
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Moonjay
07/09/18 6:49:33 PM
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Phone anxiety is a very real and serious thing, so don't let people shame you about it. Unfortunately the only way out of it is through it. Make phone calls until it hopefully doesn't bother you any more. I was like phone crippled for a long time until Zang forced me to make my own calls and I got over it. :P
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wwinterj25
07/09/18 6:58:19 PM
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I have anxiety issues 24/7. On the plus side though this has made me care less and less about the things I do because no matter what I do I'll always feel like shit.
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Mead
07/09/18 7:00:06 PM
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If it helps at all the people that answer phones talk to people that sound way more awkward and dumb than you every day, so try not to worry about how you come across
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Mario_VS_DK
07/09/18 8:21:06 PM
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Teeth posted...
be a fucking adult


Wow. So sorry that me having troubles with some things made you have a bad day.

Muscles posted...
I hate it too but just make the call anyways


Yeah, like I do it anyways, and I do it fine. But my mind kind of shuts down after and I have to sit there for a good 10 minutes afterwards to come back to my senses. :s

Moonjay posted...
Phone anxiety is a very real and serious thing, so don't let people shame you about it. Unfortunately the only way out of it is through it. Make phone calls until it hopefully doesn't bother you any more. I was like phone crippled for a long time until Zang forced me to make my own calls and I got over it. :P


Yeah, don't worry. The only one I let knock me down is myself. And I'm sure I'll get over having to make phone calls eventually. It's just frustrating now.

wwinterj25 posted...
I have anxiety issues 24/7. On the plus side though this has made me care less and less about the things I do because no matter what I do I'll always feel like shit.


Heh. I guess that's one way to look at it.

Mead posted...
If it helps at all the people that answer phones talk to people that sound way more awkward and dumb than you every day, so try not to worry about how you come across


Honestly, I think just about every single person I've ever talked to on the phone has been genuinely nice and helpful. I don't have any problem actually talking and I don't think I even sound awkward. It's just the initial placing/answering the call and the cooldown period afterwards. I don't even know what I'm ever worried about and I really have no idea where this anxiety even started because I didn't have this problem when I was growing up.
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VideoboysaysCube
07/09/18 8:27:48 PM
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I hate phone calls too. I'm such a visually oriented person, so being blind to facial expressions really makes it hard sometimes to read the other person and process the information.
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shadowsword87
07/09/18 8:30:54 PM
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Dude, just use texts.
That's basically all I use for DnD stuff.
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Mario_VS_DK
07/09/18 11:00:44 PM
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VideoboysaysCube posted...
I hate phone calls too. I'm such a visually oriented person, so being blind to facial expressions really makes it hard sometimes to read the other person and process the information.


I'm not really a visually oriented person, but I do prefer talking to people in person. It just feels easier to me.

shadowsword87 posted...
Dude, just use texts.
That's basically all I use for DnD stuff.


This call wasn't actually about DnD.

I mentioned DnD because part of the reason I started to play it was to get over all this. I do all that no problem since it's all online. I have a bunch of my old applications for games so I have a base to work off of. Then most communication outside of game is already text, and then playing is easy because everyone is there to have fun, and I'm generally used to everyone after a couple sessions.

It's helped to some extent, but I think it's mostly just made me develop shortcuts for it. :s
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blackhrt
07/09/18 11:30:02 PM
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Muscles posted...
Teeth posted...
be a fucking adult

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