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Teddytalks
07/09/18 2:10:50 PM
#51:


Deadpool_18 posted...
Ki_cat_ posted...
TC isn't in the wrong. Maybe his work is kind of shitty? It's not wise to reserve without knowing you'll have the money.

I would have looked for another place after 15 minutes but it's really not that big of a deal either way. It's shitty that it's a long wait but getting angry solves nothing.


No, we moved here recently and Im just a little tight on funds at the moment until I get my savings back up.

Aristoph posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
AzureAnihilator posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
Yeah I agree with you there.

You can write me off, I'm just pointing out you didn't try.


Classic CEman response.


Classic CEman bitching and moaning topic.

Seriously, it's her birthday, you make a fucking reservation. It isn't terribly complicated. This one's on you. Do better next time.


No, its not 100% on either one of us. I shouldve thought ahead and she shouldnt have blown up when I still did everything I could. We had a blast of a day. But she suffers from bipolar disorder and just started new medication so were in a bit of a transition.

Go fuck yourself and your assumptions. :)


You're never going to be happy. People with bipolar disorders are fucking miserable for their life span.
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 2:25:14 PM
#52:


Muffinz0rz posted...
I had a nightmare girlfriend birthday scenario with my ex. The plan was big pregame at our hotel room with her and a load of her friends. Like, at least a dozen. We did champagne, cake, and a bit of pregaming. Then the plan was to go to dinner and then a club.

Dinner was going well, but for some reason she had to go back to the hotel. I can't remember why, I think she forgot her ID or wallet or something. Now, I had been semi keeping my distance throughout the night, giving her time to hang with her friends she doesn't get to see all the time, as opposed to me, who she obviously saw on a regular basis.

So before she goes back to the hotel, we get our situations straight; she's heading back to the hotel being driven by her sister, and a second friend is going with them to get something she forgot too or something like that. That leaves me with like eight other people, seven of whom I don't know like at all, or had met once before at most. She sits there and tells me to basically HERD everyone to the club, despite knowing the fact that, hey, I'm really not a good person to put in the spotlight. She knew that. But I try my best, a quick shout or two of "here we go, next stop (club name)!!"

It was walking distance, like two blocks away at most. But at some point along the way, half the group disappeared. Obviously I'm just some random dude they don't know, so they didn't bother to tell me because I'm not any leader of the group or anything. I just turn around when we arrive at the club and half of them are gone. They just went off somewhere else, I think to a new club.

So I and like three other people get to the club and are waiting outside. Girlfriend arrives and is dropped off. The friend that was with her was gone, and her sister, the driver, drove off. That leaves like five of us left.

And she is PISSEDDDD. She's like fucking laying into me right there in line, like "WHY COULDN'T YOU CONTROL THESE PEOPLE" and just other dumb stuff like that. Basically blaming me for the fact that she couldn't communicate with other people and my inability to shepherd a bunch of people who I don't fucking know. So she was silent the rest of the night to me, making these snarky comments, and being just a shitty person. I almost left on the spot, I was so over it. In hindsight, I wished I had, but hey here I am trying to be the good boyfriend.

Like really? I'm not here to clomp on your party. Instead of putting me in charge and monopolizing all your time, why not entrust your like four best friends who also know everyone with the responsibility of keeping the plan in order.

It was brutal. Which doesn't even get into the fact that I despise clubs.

I broke up with her a while later. Not that night, but a few months later, because situations like that just kept mounting up. She had real anger issues tbh


Ow. Damn dude. Props for keeping your cool on that one
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 2:27:09 PM
#53:


tote_all posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
Im on my own antidepressants


Why am I not surprised.


Yeah damn me for having a chemical imbalance. And props to you for swinging at the low hanging fruit. Youre a real class act. XD
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HeyPuff
07/09/18 2:30:12 PM
#54:


AzureAnihilator posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
I didnt have the money to plan an extravagant weekend for her birthday until this Friday when I got paid, so I improvised with dinner, a day of floating the local river, and gifts. Suddenly, when the wait is 45 minutes long at the restaurant we were going to, its the whole day ruined because I didnt make reservations on a SUNDAY AFTERNOON. How was I supposed to know this restaurant is short staffed with shitty service?!


You realize you could have made reservations before you'd gotten paid, right? Beyond that, a restaurant being busy does not equal "being short-staffed with shitty service", and if it did you'd have found that out by reading reviews before you made any attempt to bring her there, which I'm guessing you didn't do.

You're mad, but she sees it for what it is. Sounds like you didn't put any real effort in, you just threw money at her birthday hoping it would be enough. Do better next year.


lol dont listen to this guy. Hes saying to let her be ungrateful.

Unless you can sustain this type of relationship long-term, then leave. Itll take a toll on your mental health. You may be happy now, but youll be genuinely happy once you leave, if it really bothers you that much and happens that often.
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andel
07/09/18 2:33:56 PM
#55:


Aristoph posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
AzureAnihilator posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
Yeah I agree with you there.

You can write me off, I'm just pointing out you didn't try.


Classic CEman response.


Classic CEman bitching and moaning topic.

Seriously, it's her birthday, you make a fucking reservation. It isn't terribly complicated. This one's on you. Do better next time.


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Muffinz0rz
07/09/18 3:41:33 PM
#56:


EpicMickeyDrew posted...
I feel bad for you just reading that.

Tony_Biggie_Pun posted...
I'm sorry to hear that. Glad you got out of the situation

Deadpool_18 posted...
Ow. Damn dude. Props for keeping your cool on that one

thx bruvs. it's funny in hindsight how worked up people get about their birthdays. who fucking cares lmao the party is still identical to the one we'd have a month later as just another party weekend, difference being you aren't the center of attention all the time
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 4:20:19 PM
#58:


tote_all posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...

Yeah damn me for having a chemical imbalance. And props to you for swinging at the low hanging fruit. Youre a real class act. XD


Here you have a violent transphobe (among other things) who has made actual threats of harm to others playing the victim.

Poor you and your chemical imbalance, doesn't let you control your actions.


You need some French cries and a whaaaburger. Say and I are cool now, I think. Shes fine by me. And violent? I havent been in a fight since college. But you just keep on keeping on, brother. Have a nice day.
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 4:22:04 PM
#59:


HeyPuff posted...
AzureAnihilator posted...
Deadpool_18 posted...
I didnt have the money to plan an extravagant weekend for her birthday until this Friday when I got paid, so I improvised with dinner, a day of floating the local river, and gifts. Suddenly, when the wait is 45 minutes long at the restaurant we were going to, its the whole day ruined because I didnt make reservations on a SUNDAY AFTERNOON. How was I supposed to know this restaurant is short staffed with shitty service?!


You realize you could have made reservations before you'd gotten paid, right? Beyond that, a restaurant being busy does not equal "being short-staffed with shitty service", and if it did you'd have found that out by reading reviews before you made any attempt to bring her there, which I'm guessing you didn't do.

You're mad, but she sees it for what it is. Sounds like you didn't put any real effort in, you just threw money at her birthday hoping it would be enough. Do better next year.


lol dont listen to this guy. Hes saying to let her be ungrateful.

Unless you can sustain this type of relationship long-term, then leave. Itll take a toll on your mental health. You may be happy now, but youll be genuinely happy once you leave, if it really bothers you that much and happens that often.


It really doesnt happen THAT often. Shes just never really sought help and stuck with t until things got better before. Her depression always proved that modern medicine is just a placebo and wont really help when it has done miracles for me. I love her dearly and want to help her get to that other side because the contrast is breathtaking once youre the master of your own mind instead of a slave to it.
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Ki_cat_
07/09/18 6:48:34 PM
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It can be taxing to deal with people who aren't 100% in control of their minds. You can't think with emotions.

Could you have planned better? Yes.
Could she have reacted better? Yes.

Two people with problems generally ends poorly but if she's who you want, you two will make it gel.
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Smashingpmkns
07/09/18 6:56:01 PM
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My girlfriend would have just said "Alright let's go somewhere else" lol
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 6:58:43 PM
#62:


Ki_cat_ posted...
It can be taxing to deal with people who aren't 100% in control of their minds. You can't think with emotions.

Could you have planned better? Yes.
Could she have reacted better? Yes.

Two people with problems generally ends poorly but if she's who you want, you two will make it gel.


We typically dont have many problems. Keep in mind weve only been together 8 months. Were still learning about each other.

Smashingpmkns posted...
My girlfriend would have just said "Alright let's go somewhere else" lol


Thats typically how I handle all of my problems.
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AzureAnihilator
07/09/18 7:09:43 PM
#63:


Shut_TheF---Up posted...
@AzureAnihilator Read my post and stop shitposting thx

Did you really need to mention me and bring me here just to have me explain that your post was trash and not worth replying to? Take your head out of your ass, you're the very example of shitposting right down to your awful username.
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Ki_cat_
07/09/18 7:10:04 PM
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The real hurdle is living together for at least 6 months without any problems. Visiting often for 8 months is still a good test. Most puppy love wears off around 3 months.
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Deadpool_18
07/09/18 7:11:55 PM
#65:


Ki_cat_ posted...
The real hurdle is living together for at least 6 months without any problems. Visiting often for 8 months is still a good test. Most puppy love wears off around 3 months.


We moved in together a couple months ago.
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Tony_Biggie_Pun
07/10/18 8:45:01 PM
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Fucking girlfriends, how do they work?
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Aressar
07/11/18 7:28:13 AM
#69:


If this kind of behaviour is bi-polar, then most women I've dated / gotten to know pretty well throughout the years could be placed into that category.

Personally, I've come to the assumption that this is just how many women are. My gf gets like that frequently, like when I want to do something super nice for her, literally everything goes perfect, until one tiniest thing I say or do is not perfect (or as I call: does not run exactly according to her idealized Disney script), and then literally everything is ruined.

What usually works for us to ease the situation is when something amusing happens, like when one of our cats does something cute.

Tupacrulez posted...
The Golden rule with women is that they get upset very easily if they are hungry.

When I take my wife out for supper, I'll often get her a snack before we go if we're running late,as it keeps the hangry away.


This is actually pretty solid advice, even though it may look small and insignificant. I should add a (long-preservable) snack to my standard going-somewhere-together equipment .
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voldothegr8
07/11/18 7:31:34 AM
#70:


Aressar posted...
If this kind of behaviour is bi-polar, then most women I've dated / gotten to know pretty well throughout the years could be placed into that category.

Personally, I've come to the assumption that this is just how many women are. My gf gets like that frequently, like when I want to do something super nice for her, literally everything goes perfect, until one tiniest thing I say or do is not perfect (or as I call: does not run exactly according to her idealized Disney script), and then literally everything is ruined.

What usually works for us to ease the situation is when something amusing happens, like when one of our cats does something cute.

You are correct, all women are bi-polar to some degree from my experience.
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SavenForever
07/11/18 8:11:12 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
Jacking off


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