Current Events > How olw were you when you first lost your virginity?

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Zikten posted...

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wtf

A couple of my coworkers said they lost it at fucking 10. Like wtf
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EndOfDiscOne posted...

Offworlder1 posted...

That is nothing to brag about or be proud of, the guy is with an older woman in her 40s who has kids, whos looks will only be going downhill now to the point she needed a nice guy beta male provider. Id bet this woman has been married before and initiated the divorce against her husband.

That 31 year old is likely going to get divorce screwed by her as well and she will be getting double payments in alimony.

That man never should have married her and the fact he settled for that shit is just fucking sad as hell. He would be better off single and trying to improve with women not raise another mans kids with a woman who is post wall.

@EndOfDiscOne

Everything in this post is true. I'm just saying it's possible for 30 y/o+ virgins to lose their virginity.

My brother was about my age(34)when he lost his. He rushed into a toxic marriage just for that. They met and were married in less than 6 months, even with her admitting to him that she didn't care about him and just wanted his extra income and someone to help raise her son.

Between that, and your post. It doesn't seem worth it. Those aren't really very in ticking prospects to hold out for.
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inTaCtfuL posted...

Zikten posted...

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wtf

A couple of my coworkers said they lost it at fucking 10. Like wtf

Yeah I knew a girl in school that said she had consensual threesome with a boy and another girl when she was 9 and they were 9 and 10. I was like what the fuck.
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inTaCtfuL posted...

Zikten posted...

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wtf

A couple of my coworkers said they lost it at fucking 10. Like wtf

I knew a kid who banged his 14 year old baby sitter when he was 8. I was 16 when I lost mine.
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@KogaSteelfang

The answer is to learn how to be good/comfortable with women and then making sure you date one who is YOUNGER then you.

The older a woman is the longer she has had to fuck around, get divorced, pop out a kid or two, and learn how to fuck over men. Not all women are jaded as they get old but a lot of them will use and abuse a man for his money and/or rss.

Younger women still have a positive outlook of the world and are still good, once you find that good woman/women you do all you can to keep them that way. Note suggesting you date or marry a young party girl or one that whores around but its better odds finding a woman worth being with that is in her 20s.
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16th birthday. I must have sucked at it cuz the chick was gone in the morning. I still don't know who she was.
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Offworlder1 posted...

@KogaSteelfang

The answer is to learn how to be good/comfortable with women and then making sure you date one who is YOUNGER then you.

The older a woman is the longer she has had to fuck around, get divorced, pop out a kid or two, and learn how to fuck over men. Not all women are jaded as they get old but a lot of them will use and abuse a man for his money and/or rss.

Younger women still have a positive outlook of the world and are still good, once you find that good woman/women you do all you can to keep them that way. Note suggesting you date or marry a young party girl or one that whores around but its better odds finding a woman worth being with that is in her 20s.

I know, I'd prefer someone younger, just so there's a higher chance of getting to have a kid of my own one day. Women my age already have families.

I don't think it matters in the end, I don't think anyone would ever be with me anyway.
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25. The day before my 26th birthday lol
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KogaSteelfang posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Still a virgin, but I'm over 30 anyway

KogaSteelfang posted...

I'm over 30

KogaSteelfang posted...

Still a virgin

Yikes

I know, I'm a worthless person.

I mean, I like sex and all, but its really a very small component of what a person is about (usually?) so I'd not base a lot of self-worth on that.
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when you first lost your virginity?

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Roshon posted...

SavenForever posted...

Still living that virgin life.

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The Top Crusader posted...

I mean, I like sex and all, but its really a very small component of what a person is about (usually?) so I'd not base a lot of self-worth on that.

It's not exactly the lack of sex part that's bothering me, I mean that does bother me, but it's more that no one thinks I'm worth being with. I want to be wanted, you know? I want someone to love me, and want to be with me, to think that I'm good enough to be with. I want a companion in life.

Yet, here I am, a mid 30's virgin whose never had a date, or even a real friend(only online ones). Everything feels so hopeless at this point, I hate it. I hate myself for being this way. And the only outlet I have to express that frustration is here to you guys, which just makes everyone dislike me here too...
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Dude, I haven't even ever had a girlfriend. #Foreveralone
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Something interesting I noticed when I was in HS is that no males in my grade I knew who was went to college had lost their virginity by the end of HS. In other words, if you went to college, you were still a virgin at HS graduation.

On the other hand, the males I knew who did lose their virginity almost all dropped out of high school, maybe a few graduated, but none of them went to college.

It's like the type of behavior that could have gotten a male to have sex before HS graduation was completely drummed out of the boys who continued on with school.
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@KogaSteelfang

You need to get out of your comfort zone, hit up some strip clubs and learn to be comfortable and confident around women.

Thats what I did, made a lot of progress and now I am living with two people I love and have been for over a year.

I was the last person that youd think would go to a strip club but it really did help me and let me have fun at the same time.
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I agree that strip clubs can help you become comfortable with women. The exposure reduces fear.
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