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S1nharvest 05/10/18 5:29:48 PM #1:	My GF'S mom in particular is being very pressuring, I didn't care for it, I ignored it/humored it. My GF'S was down too, but about a month ago she started to slip. Recently after asking me why we wouldn't get married she goes "If we're going to be together forever, why not make it official" and "Do you not love our family" and "Why are you afraid to commit, you always need and escape route and things won't be the same forever" she doesn't usually talk like this, so I'm sure he moms is planting those words in her head. Bad thing is she knows how much I dislike marriage, so I can't even brush it off with some we'll see shit, she wants a yes lol. There's no manual for this shit once it's actually in your face, TV and Movies have not helped me out all, or Steve Harvey. We live together, raise our son together, but heaven forbid being called someone's baby mama instead of wife, that changes everything. --- All Hail King Ghidorah, the Monster Zero GT: KingxGeedorah - Psn: Sin_Ghidorah - http://i.imgur.com/k4Mc2.png <cite>S1nharvest posted [p:901129228] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>My GF'S mom in particular is being very pressuring, I didn't care for it, I ignored it/humored it. My GF'S was down too, but about a month ago she started to slip. Recently after asking me why we wouldn't get married she goes "If we're going to be together forever, why not make it official" and "Do you not love our family" and "Why are you afraid to commit, you always need and escape route and things won't be the same forever" she doesn't usually talk like this, so I'm sure he moms is planting those words in her head. Bad thing is she knows how much I dislike marriage, so I can't even brush it off with some we'll see shit, she wants a yes lol. There's no manual for this shit once it's actually in your face, TV and Movies have not helped me out all, or Steve Harvey. We live together, raise our son together, but heaven forbid being called someone's baby mama instead of wife, that changes everything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 05/10/18 5:31:45 PM #2:	just put a ring on it man --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:901129327] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>just put a ring on it man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
southcoast09 05/10/18 5:31:55 PM #3:	Tell her you want a prenuptial contract and then see how bad she wants to get married. IF she doesnt care, shes not after your money --- Stand for the anthem or sit for the game! <cite>southcoast09 posted [p:901129335] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Tell her you want a prenuptial contract and then see how bad she wants to get married. IF she doesnt care, shes not after your money</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkjedilink 05/10/18 5:33:50 PM #4:	JTilly posted... just put a ring on it man --- 'It's okay that those gangbangers stole all my personal belongings and cash at gunpoint, cuz they're building a rec center!' - OneTimeBen <cite>darkjedilink posted [p:901129428] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>just put a ring on it man</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 05/10/18 5:35:11 PM #5:	What a stupid problem. Just marry her, dummy. --- ultimate milf hunter https://i.imgur.com/lCEdce6.gifv https://i.imgur.com/2N1Ezia.gifv https://i.imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ.jpg https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:901129494] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>What a stupid problem. Just marry her, dummy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Konflikt 05/10/18 5:38:07 PM #6:	You live together and have a kid. I'm not seeing a reason not to do it <cite>Konflikt posted [p:901129637] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>You live together and have a kid. I'm not seeing a reason not to do it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KamenRiderBlade 05/10/18 5:40:25 PM #7:	You must have a Pre-Nuptuial agreement. --- Are you a MexiCAN or a MexiCAN'T - Johnny Depp '*Once Upon A Time in Mexico*' <cite>KamenRiderBlade posted [p:901129750] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>You must have a Pre-Nuptuial agreement.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_BlueMonk 05/10/18 5:41:34 PM #8:	well. either a) get over it or b) break up with her . wtf is this shit men are so stupid this is why feminism exists and hilary clinton is president. --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun <3 https://i.imgur.com/eF0cTqK.gifv <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:901129814] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>well. either a) get over it or b) break up with her . wtf is this shit men are so stupid this is why feminism exists and hilary clinton is president.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_Biscuit 05/10/18 5:44:23 PM #9:	Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo S1nharvest posted... We live together, raise our son together Wtf put a ring on it dude --- https://www.bigplay.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/img_6703.jpg <cite>Mr_Biscuit posted [p:901129987] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo <cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote>We live together, raise our son together</quote> Wtf put a ring on it dude</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainedRedone 05/10/18 5:45:05 PM #10:	Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around. --- David Mink. Hero. https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpg <cite>ChainedRedone posted [p:901130024] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S1nharvest 05/10/18 5:53:30 PM #11:	ChainedRedone posted... Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around. Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. Mr_Biscuit posted... Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo S1nharvest posted... We live together, raise our son together Wtf put a ring on it dude Ive never had a married man tell me marriage was a good thing for them, even the happily married ones. Statistics back them --- All Hail King Ghidorah, the Monster Zero GT: KingxGeedorah - Psn: Sin_Ghidorah - http://i.imgur.com/k4Mc2.png <cite>S1nharvest posted [p:901130476] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>ChainedRedone posted...</cite> <quote>Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around.</quote> Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. <cite>Mr_Biscuit posted...</cite> <quote>Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo <cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote>We live together, raise our son together</quote> Wtf put a ring on it dude</quote> Ive never had a married man tell me marriage was a good thing for them, even the happily married ones. Statistics back them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_Biscuit 05/10/18 5:59:49 PM #12:	S1nharvest posted... ChainedRedone posted... Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around. Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. Mr_Biscuit posted... Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo S1nharvest posted... We live together, raise our son together Wtf put a ring on it dude Ive never had a married man tell me marriage was a good thing for them, even the happily married ones. Statistics back them Im happily married Marriage has been amazing --- https://www.bigplay.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/img_6703.jpg <cite>Mr_Biscuit posted [p:901130824] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ChainedRedone posted...</cite> <quote>Be honest with her. Tell her marriage isn't an option if it's not. Don't dick her around.</quote> Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. <cite>Mr_Biscuit posted...</cite> <quote>Dont let her pressure you into something you arent ready fo <cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote>We live together, raise our son together</quote> Wtf put a ring on it dude</quote> Ive never had a married man tell me marriage was a good thing for them, even the happily married ones. Statistics back them</quote> Im happily married Marriage has been amazing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coffeebeanz 05/10/18 6:02:54 PM #13:	If you actually want to be a good dad and raise your kid with the mother, you should marry her. I'd hate to be a kid that has to explain that kind of BS just because dad is scared of responsibility and commitment. --- Physician [Internal Medicine] <cite>Coffeebeanz posted [p:901130958] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>If you actually want to be a good dad and raise your kid with the mother, you should marry her. I'd hate to be a kid that has to explain that kind of BS just because dad is scared of responsibility and commitment.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainedRedone 05/10/18 6:18:04 PM #14:	S1nharvest posted... Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. It's not about what they want. It's about you not being a piece of shit by leading her on. --- David Mink. Hero. https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpg <cite>ChainedRedone posted [p:901131718] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote> Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something.</quote> It's not about what they want. It's about you not being a piece of shit by leading her on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Makeveli_lives 05/10/18 6:23:48 PM #15:	ChainedRedone posted... S1nharvest posted... Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something. It's not about what they want. It's about you not being a piece of shit and leading her on. S1nharvest posted... Bad thing is she knows how much I dislike marriage ??? Either way since you already have a kid I'd say do it just for the tax benefits honestly. And do like my man Kanye and holla you want prenups. --- Switch FC: SW-3917-4425-6106 PSN: PiKappaPhi769 <cite>Makeveli_lives posted [p:901131997] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>ChainedRedone posted...</cite> <quote><cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote> Whew, mah boi if only, women don't care about honesty when they want something.</quote> It's not about what they want. It's about you not being a piece of shit and leading her on.</quote> <cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote>Bad thing is she knows how much I dislike marriage</quote> ??? Either way since you already have a kid I'd say do it just for the tax benefits honestly. And do like my man Kanye and holla you want prenups.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 05/10/18 6:26:12 PM #16:	If you've been living together long enough you're probably married already in the eyes of the law --- https://i.imgur.com/lwkIVOb.png <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:901132106] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>If you've been living together long enough you're probably married already in the eyes of the law</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 05/10/18 6:33:09 PM #17:	You guys have a kid and live together, might as well. You're getting fucked on child support if you split up either way, might as well enjoy the tax benefits and put her and her family at ease. --- Oda break tracker 2018- 3 (1) \| THE Ohio State: 11-2 \| Oakland Raiders: 6-10 Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:901132465] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>You guys have a kid and live together, might as well. You're getting fucked on child support if you split up either way, might as well enjoy the tax benefits and put her and her family at ease.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S1nharvest 05/10/18 6:51:19 PM #19:	REMercsChamp posted... If you've been living together long enough you're probably married already in the eyes of the law Common law marriage is the devil. She was fine with what we had too, but her mom's been going at her for 5 years now lol. I'm not stubborn enough to thing it won't happen, I can already feel the inevitability of it all. She's got my mom in on it too. They just take turns talking shit about me when we get together. --- All Hail King Ghidorah, the Monster Zero GT: KingxGeedorah - Psn: Sin_Ghidorah - http://i.imgur.com/k4Mc2.png <cite>S1nharvest posted [p:901133304] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote>If you've been living together long enough you're probably married already in the eyes of the law</quote> Common law marriage is the devil. She was fine with what we had too, but her mom's been going at her for 5 years now lol. I'm not stubborn enough to thing it won't happen, I can already feel the inevitability of it all. She's got my mom in on it too. They just take turns talking shit about me when we get together.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 05/10/18 6:53:54 PM #20:	Whats your problem TC, do it --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:901133425] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Whats your problem TC, do it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_OujiDoza_ 05/10/18 6:58:46 PM #21:	Dumb takes itt --- R.I.P. Bilbo-Swaggins: Victim of the CommunistFAQS Regime \|Brian-Dawkins\|http://i.imgtc.com/5yil6xS.jpg. <cite>_OujiDoza_ posted [p:901133634] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Dumb takes itt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Comfy_Pillow 05/10/18 7:06:30 PM #22:	Marriage is only worth it for the tax benefits. Get a prenup if you go through with it <cite>Comfy_Pillow posted [p:901133992] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Marriage is only worth it for the tax benefits. Get a prenup if you go through with it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Laserion 05/10/18 9:27:42 PM #23:	Do you guys live with her mother, or too close by? --- There is no "would of", "should of" or "could of". There is "would've", "should've" and "could've". <cite>Laserion posted [p:901141071] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Do you guys live with her mother, or too close by?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Key 05/10/18 9:34:18 PM #24:	you two are basically married in everything but name idk why you'd be against it --- <:;:;:;:;:;:;:;:;}]\\\\\\O=('-'Q) (>'-')> <('-'<) ^( '-' )^ v( '-' )v <('-'<) ^(_ _)^ (>'-')> ^(^-^) <cite>Key posted [p:901141386] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>you two are basically married in everything but name idk why you'd be against it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 05/10/18 9:41:40 PM #25:	KamenRiderBlade posted... You must have a Pre-Nuptuial agreement. This, and if she gets to be too annoying go to family court and ask for sole custody of your son, then split town with your boy. Better to be happy with your kid then risk being financially fucked. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:901141766] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>KamenRiderBlade posted...</cite> <quote>You must have a Pre-Nuptuial agreement.</quote> This, and if she gets to be too annoying go to family court and ask for sole custody of your son, then split town with your boy. Better to be happy with your kid then risk being financially fucked.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 05/10/18 9:43:01 PM #26:	What that guy said ^ --- See me on Discord! ^.^ Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/V7hzcXd <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:901141835] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>What that guy said ^</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 05/10/18 9:43:32 PM #27:	Meant to be replying to Key, my bad -.- --- See me on Discord! ^.^ Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/V7hzcXd <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:901141856] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Meant to be replying to Key, my bad -.-</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 05/10/18 9:45:09 PM #28:	I love my girlfriends but if either of them tried to pressure me into marriage it would be a "yeah pack your bags and get the fuck out". Marriage should be a choice and agreed upon by all involved not something family, friends or your partner tries to force you into. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:901141940] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>I love my girlfriends but if either of them tried to pressure me into marriage it would be a "yeah pack your bags and get the fuck out". Marriage should be a choice and agreed upon by all involved not something family, friends or your partner tries to force you into.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KamenRiderBlade 05/10/18 9:46:09 PM #29:	Offworlder1 posted... I love my girlfriends but if either of them tried to pressure me into marriage it would be a "yeah pack your bags and get the fuck out". Marriage should be a choice and agreed upon by all involved not something family, friends or your partner tries to force you into. No true-er words have been stated then by this man. --- Are you a MexiCAN or a MexiCAN'T - Johnny Depp '*Once Upon A Time in Mexico*' <cite>KamenRiderBlade posted [p:901141985] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote>I love my girlfriends but if either of them tried to pressure me into marriage it would be a "yeah pack your bags and get the fuck out". Marriage should be a choice and agreed upon by all involved not something family, friends or your partner tries to force you into.</quote>No true-er words have been stated then by this man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metro2 05/10/18 9:54:08 PM #31:	OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us. <cite>Metro2 posted [p:901142420] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 05/10/18 9:54:10 PM #32:	I however do plan on marrying the two women I am with, we already live together, are very happy, and after we did some number crunching found we have the funds to support 3 kids(I prefer just 2 tbh) without changing our lifestyle or hampering our vacations. With three incomes and how our work days are set up it all works out to be not only doable but does not hinder our finances since I will be up for a promotion soon and the ladies are climbing the ladder of success as well. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:901142423] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>I however do plan on marrying the two women I am with, we already live together, are very happy, and after we did some number crunching found we have the funds to support 3 kids(I prefer just 2 tbh) without changing our lifestyle or hampering our vacations. With three incomes and how our work days are set up it all works out to be not only doable but does not hinder our finances since I will be up for a promotion soon and the ladies are climbing the ladder of success as well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sad_Face 05/10/18 9:54:38 PM #33:	S1nharvest posted... We live together, raise our son together, but heaven forbid being called someone's baby mama instead of wife, that changes everything. Yes, yes it does. Every old man and woman want to see their daughter married. That's a relief off their back that chances are that she's in a safe and comfortable relationship and will be taken care of for her life. For your girlfriend, having a marriage is something she can take pride in, she'll have a guy who gave her tangible proof that he's committed to sharing his life to. There are a lot of women out there would LOVE to have that sense of security. And have you considered looking into why the married men are not happy, and why the statistics are the way they are? Where I live, girls generally pay good money to have their nails done, and a lot of girls travel off island for cosmetic surgery so they can better attract hoards of guys in their direction. But none of the girls I've ever been interested in would ever do these things. The traits I find attractive are practically nonexistent in the types that would do those things. --- imgtc.com/i/4HgTl0ebzq.jpg imgtc.com/i/60CWP2Gtlg.gif <cite>Sad_Face posted [p:901142453] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote>We live together, raise our son together, but heaven forbid being called someone's baby mama instead of wife, that changes everything.</quote> Yes, yes it does. Every old man and woman want to see their daughter married. That's a relief off their back that chances are that she's in a safe and comfortable relationship and will be taken care of for her life. For your girlfriend, having a marriage is something she can take pride in, she'll have a guy who gave her tangible proof that he's committed to sharing his life to. There are a lot of women out there would LOVE to have that sense of security. And have you considered looking into why the married men are not happy, and why the statistics are the way they are? Where I live, girls generally pay good money to have their nails done, and a lot of girls travel off island for cosmetic surgery so they can better attract hoards of guys in their direction. But none of the girls I've ever been interested in would ever do these things. The traits I find attractive are practically nonexistent in the types that would do those things.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MacDaMurderer 05/10/18 10:00:33 PM #35:	No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic. --- @macdamurderer GT: Mac Da Murderer <cite>MacDaMurderer posted [p:901142801] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 05/10/18 10:05:20 PM #36:	Tax breaks for the lose, TC? --- If you're not looking for any honest discussion, agreement, meeting halfway or middle ground, don't bother arguing with me. Selfish narcissists need not apply. <cite>Kineth posted [p:901143033] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Tax breaks for the lose, TC?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 05/11/18 12:04:43 AM #37:	MacDaMurderer posted... No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic. ^ Spotted the white knight/beta male provider or a woman. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:901148872] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>MacDaMurderer posted...</cite> <quote>No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic.</quote> ^ Spotted the white knight/beta male provider or a woman.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 05/11/18 12:10:17 AM #38:	Offworlder1 posted... MacDaMurderer posted... No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic. ^ Spotted the white knight/beta male provider or a woman. Spotted the virgin And tc is an idiot and belongs in therapy. Why the fuck this woman puts up with you, I have no idea. Marriage is a gesture and a contract. But the law already grants her legal rights as you two are effectively married already. So youre putting up with all of the downsides and none of the benefits while disrespecting your life partner and her family and providing your kid with a horribly unhealthy exposure to relationships. Congratulations --- ultimate milf hunter https://i.imgur.com/lCEdce6.gifv https://i.imgur.com/2N1Ezia.gifv https://i.imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ.jpg https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:901149085] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MacDaMurderer posted...</cite> <quote>No person in their right mind would sign a pre nup that would disallow them from getting half of what you both got during the marriage. Thats just fucking idiotic.</quote> ^ Spotted the white knight/beta male provider or a woman.</quote> Spotted the virgin And tc is an idiot and belongs in therapy. Why the fuck this woman puts up with you, I have no idea. Marriage is a gesture and a contract. But the law already grants her legal rights as you two are effectively married already. So youre putting up with all of the downsides and none of the benefits while disrespecting your life partner and her family and providing your kid with a horribly unhealthy exposure to relationships. Congratulations </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Konflikt 05/11/18 12:23:31 AM #39:	Offworlder1 posted... I however do plan on marrying the two women I am with, we already live together, are very happy, and after we did some number crunching found we have the funds to support 3 kids(I prefer just 2 tbh) without changing our lifestyle or hampering our vacations. With three incomes and how our work days are set up it all works out to be not only doable but does not hinder our finances since I will be up for a promotion soon and the ladies are climbing the ladder of success as well. You plan on marrying two women? <cite>Konflikt posted [p:901149594] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote>I however do plan on marrying the two women I am with, we already live together, are very happy, and after we did some number crunching found we have the funds to support 3 kids(I prefer just 2 tbh) without changing our lifestyle or hampering our vacations. With three incomes and how our work days are set up it all works out to be not only doable but does not hinder our finances since I will be up for a promotion soon and the ladies are climbing the ladder of success as well.</quote> You plan on marrying two women?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_Biscuit 05/11/18 12:26:24 AM #40:	Metro2 posted... OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us. To be clear, this is really more what I think most of us are getting at. I don't think anyone would be like "hey TC get married against your will, great idea", it's more just confusion about what it is you don't like about marriage when you're living together and raising a child together. It's not like it's an issue of not wanting to be settled down. --- https://www.bigplay.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/img_6703.jpg <cite>Mr_Biscuit posted [p:901149701] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Metro2 posted...</cite> <quote>OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us.</quote> To be clear, this is really more what I think most of us are getting at. I don't think anyone would be like "hey TC get married against your will, great idea", it's more just confusion about what it is you don't like about marriage when you're living together and raising a child together. It's not like it's an issue of not wanting to be settled down.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 05/11/18 12:29:56 AM #41:	Wherever it is legal yes, I have lived with them for over a year and we have made a very happy home together. @Konflikt --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:901149827] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Wherever it is legal yes, I have lived with them for over a year and we have made a very happy home together. @Konflikt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
glitteringfairy 05/11/18 12:38:06 AM #42:	EnragedSlith posted... What a stupid problem. Just marry her. --- "How come you can believe in God but not Bigfoot?" V-E-G-Y http://i.imgur.com/AqR3aeX.jpg http://i.imgur.com/vvuUXpp.jpg https://imgur.com/r9xK2NR <cite>glitteringfairy posted [p:901150101] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>What a stupid problem. Just marry her.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 05/11/18 12:40:16 AM #43:	Why not just do a ceremony without actually getting the license and stuff. I mean you both sort of get what you want out of it --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:901150165] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Why not just do a ceremony without actually getting the license and stuff. I mean you both sort of get what you want out of it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S1nharvest 05/11/18 1:00:11 AM #44:	JustMyOpinion posted... Aren't you that guy who wasn't that good at FFXI, but got a kraken club in a BCNM? Hey, that was me, to be fair, I got really really good at FFxi, sold my account for 5k, lots of e drama. Good times Kineth posted... Tax breaks for the lose, TC? Marriage just doesn't make sense to me, and seems yo end badly in most cases. Why can't I just be with my fam. Metro2 posted... OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us. I assure you it's not a good reason --- All Hail King Ghidorah, the Monster Zero GT: KingxGeedorah - Psn: Sin_Ghidorah - http://i.imgur.com/k4Mc2.png <cite>S1nharvest posted [p:901150807] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>Aren't you that guy who wasn't that good at FFXI, but got a kraken club in a BCNM?</quote> Hey, that was me, to be fair, I got really really good at FFxi, sold my account for 5k, lots of e drama. Good times <cite>Kineth posted...</cite> <quote>Tax breaks for the lose, TC?</quote> Marriage just doesn't make sense to me, and seems yo end badly in most cases. Why can't I just be with my fam. <cite>Metro2 posted...</cite> <quote>OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us.</quote> I assure you it's not a good reason</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 05/11/18 1:18:52 AM #45:	weird how society has trained most people to 'just do it you're already doing stuff gawd' i support your hatred for marriage, tc. don't let them force you into it. deal with it in your own way, but eff that pressure shit. if she needs marriage and you don't want it, then you two aren't compatible. you're starting to see that now, i'm sure. --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:901151396] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>weird how society has trained most people to 'just do it you're already doing stuff gawd' i support your hatred for marriage, tc. don't let them force you into it. deal with it in your own way, but eff that pressure shit. if she needs marriage and you don't want it, then you two aren't compatible. you're starting to see that now, i'm sure.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Konflikt 05/11/18 1:20:49 AM #46:	If it was just a regular relationship it'd make sense that you'd fear marriage, but you've got a kid. It wouldn't make a difference if it 'ended badly' whether you were married or not <cite>Konflikt posted [p:901151443] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>If it was just a regular relationship it'd make sense that you'd fear marriage, but you've got a kid. It wouldn't make a difference if it 'ended badly' whether you were married or not</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GigaSPX 05/11/18 1:41:59 AM #47:	S1nharvest posted... Metro2 posted... OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us. I assure you it's not a good reason This is CE. What do you have to lose here with just an explanation? --- My sig is here. Yup. <cite>GigaSPX posted [p:901152049] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>S1nharvest posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Metro2 posted...</cite> <quote>OP, you still havent explained why you avoid marriage. Tell us.</quote> I assure you it's not a good reason</quote> This is CE. What do you have to lose here with just an explanation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Biofighter55 05/11/18 2:07:32 AM #48:	If I'm reading this right.... it sounds like it might end no matter what. If you tell her absolutely no marriage, she might just end it, or back down, but then if her family keeps the pressure, she might just resent you and end it anyway if you get married, and it's as bad as you think.... well you break up anyway, or nothing will changed besides a piece a paper that says you're together. @S1nharvest yeah this doesn't look good --- This is my sig. Don't like it, then don't look at it. <cite>Biofighter55 posted [p:901152727] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>If I'm reading this right.... it sounds like it might end no matter what. If you tell her absolutely no marriage, she might just end it, or back down, but then if her family keeps the pressure, she might just resent you and end it anyway if you get married, and it's as bad as you think.... well you break up anyway, or nothing will changed besides a piece a paper that says you're together. @S1nharvest yeah this doesn't look good</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kolibri X 05/11/18 2:25:20 AM #49:	You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard. --- Platinum GameFAQs Member http://i.imgur.com/VgwI8qO.gif <cite>Kolibri X posted [p:901153167] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Konflikt 05/11/18 2:31:21 AM #50:	Kolibri X posted... You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard. What a dumb post. <cite>Konflikt posted [p:901153298] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kolibri X posted...</cite> <quote>You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard.</quote> What a dumb post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S1nharvest 05/11/18 2:40:38 AM #51:	Kolibri X posted... You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard. How rude sir Biofighter55 posted... If I'm reading this right.... it sounds like it might end no matter what. If you tell her absolutely no marriage, she might just end it, or back down, but then if her family keeps the pressure, she might just resent you and end it anyway if you get married, and it's as bad as you think.... well you break up anyway, or nothing will changed besides a piece a paper that says you're together. @S1nharvest yeah this doesn't look good I'm going to end up married ain't I. This shit seems unfair. It feels like I've been robbed of a choice here lol --- All Hail King Ghidorah, the Monster Zero GT: KingxGeedorah - Psn: Sin_Ghidorah - http://i.imgur.com/k4Mc2.png <cite>S1nharvest posted [p:901153529] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kolibri X posted...</cite> <quote>You've already disgraced her family name by having a child out of wedlock. Man up, for the little bastard.</quote> How rude sir <cite>Biofighter55 posted...</cite> <quote>If I'm reading this right.... it sounds like it might end no matter what. If you tell her absolutely no marriage, she might just end it, or back down, but then if her family keeps the pressure, she might just resent you and end it anyway if you get married, and it's as bad as you think.... well you break up anyway, or nothing will changed besides a piece a paper that says you're together. @S1nharvest yeah this doesn't look good</quote> I'm going to end up married ain't I. This shit seems unfair. It feels like I've been robbed of a choice here lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Konflikt 05/11/18 2:47:14 AM #52:	Can you answer me why you decided to have a kid with the woman if marriage wasn't in your best interest <cite>Konflikt posted [p:901153681] in My GF'S fa... [t:76596016]...</cite> <quote>Can you answer me why you decided to have a kid with the woman if marriage wasn't in your best interest</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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