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The Admiral
05/10/18 2:48:16 PM
#102:


thelovefist posted...
The Admiral posted...
This was the transgender you were dating, right?

TC said they are nb which I assumes means "non-binary"


That's not a real thing.
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butthole666
05/10/18 2:49:14 PM
#103:


Fuck this
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Muffinz0rz
05/10/18 2:53:56 PM
#104:


butthole666 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
butthole666 posted...
LedZeppelin posted...
Nuffinz0rz posted...
butthole666 posted...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

Enough. They are nb. Stop.

Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?

i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit they were non-binary

Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.

Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?

I literally am not.

Why not? I'm not homophobic, I literally don't judge people for their sexual preferences. You can PM me if you like.
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butthole666
05/10/18 2:56:15 PM
#105:


Because it's none of your fucking business what was in my ex's pants you cretin
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Nuffinz0rz
05/10/18 2:59:48 PM
#106:


butthole666 posted...
Because it's none of your fucking business what was in my ex's pants you cretin

butthole666 posted...
what was in my ex's pants

butthole666 posted...
was

Hmmmm

So something was once there, but said thing is no longer there.

I think I get it. Thanks! Like I said, it was just curiosity, I don't judge. Now that I know, it doesn't change the story one bit.
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LedZeppelin
05/10/18 3:03:36 PM
#107:


butthole666 posted...
LedZeppelin posted...
Nuffinz0rz posted...
butthole666 posted...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

Enough. They are nb. Stop.

Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?

i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit they were non-binary

Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.

im not homophobic but thank you I believe that response confirms what i had been thinking
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The Admiral
05/10/18 3:05:49 PM
#108:


Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.

Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.
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Shadowplay
05/10/18 3:28:29 PM
#110:


The Admiral posted...
Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.

Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.
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Sad_Face
05/10/18 3:42:57 PM
#112:


The Admiral posted...
This was the transgender you were dating, right?


Now this explains everything. I TC's posts hard to read with all these unnecessary "they"s and as a result, it was difficult for me to read.
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butthole666
05/10/18 3:46:05 PM
#113:


Shadowplay posted...
The Admiral posted...
Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.

Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.

But this totally isn't homophobia guys!
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ChainedRedone
05/10/18 3:46:48 PM
#114:


Konflikt posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
lesidesi posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.

lesidesi posted...
imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you


I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.


If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all


Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.
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Shadowplay
05/10/18 3:48:44 PM
#115:


butthole666 posted...
Shadowplay posted...
The Admiral posted...
Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.

Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.

But this totally isn't homophobia guys!

No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.

Why not just admit that you're bisexual?
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butthole666
05/10/18 3:55:42 PM
#116:


Shadowplay posted...
butthole666 posted...
Shadowplay posted...
The Admiral posted...
Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.

Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.

But this totally isn't homophobia guys!

No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.

Why not just admit that you're bisexual?

Why are you assuming I'm not? Why are you assuming my ex has a penis? Why does either detail matter?

This thread is fucking pathetic.
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ChainedRedone
05/10/18 3:58:18 PM
#117:


Lmao. This thread is the epitome of CE.
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buffbillsfan12to83
05/10/18 4:13:15 PM
#118:


10/10 topic. Would read again
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Konflikt
05/10/18 4:19:16 PM
#119:


ChainedRedone posted...
Konflikt posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
lesidesi posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.

lesidesi posted...
imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you


I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.


If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all


Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.


I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC
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OpShaft
05/10/18 4:21:05 PM
#120:


I like knowing whether it's a he or a she to better understand the story. It's easier to picture in my head. Doesn't really matter, though.
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Choco
05/10/18 4:21:23 PM
#121:


i read the title as "I just woke up w my partner" and was like "aww :3"
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juicebox4
05/10/18 4:21:31 PM
#122:


Asherlee10 posted...
This topic...

went STRAIGHT to hell
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Choco
05/10/18 4:25:01 PM
#123:


jesus christ ce

i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun

why does it matter
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Axiom
05/10/18 4:25:35 PM
#124:


OpShaft posted...
Doesn't really matter, though.

Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects
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GrandCross6
05/10/18 4:26:03 PM
#125:


juicebox4 posted...
Asherlee10 posted...
This topic...

went STRAIGHT to hell

it did but while it was bad it was hilarious
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juicebox4
05/10/18 4:28:34 PM
#126:


Choco posted...
jesus christ ce

i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun

why does it matter

I mean you're right, but on the other hand, the reason they're dragging it out so long is cuz TC is equally stubborn. like just confirm it was a girl already, why not? afaik you're straight tc, and it'll probably shut everyone up and re-rail the topic lol
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The Admiral
05/10/18 4:41:50 PM
#127:


Axiom posted...
OpShaft posted...
Doesn't really matter, though.

Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.

The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.
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ChainedRedone
05/10/18 4:47:09 PM
#128:


Konflikt posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
Konflikt posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
lesidesi posted...
ChainedRedone posted...
LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.

lesidesi posted...
imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you


I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.


If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all


Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.


I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC


Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.
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LedZeppelin
05/10/18 4:48:07 PM
#129:


The Admiral posted...
Axiom posted...
OpShaft posted...
Doesn't really matter, though.

Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.

The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.

thank you, 100% this. the way he went about it leads me to believe he was trolling from the start
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Konflikt
05/10/18 4:50:54 PM
#130:


ChainedRedone posted...


Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.


I mean it'll go down in "CE history" but not because of how TC acted. Y'all embarrassed yourselves big time
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Axiom
05/10/18 4:56:32 PM
#131:


The Admiral posted...
Axiom posted...
OpShaft posted...
Doesn't really matter, though.

Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.

The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.

FF_Redux is a well known poster and I was referring to the fact that his partner is nb. The moment that was mentioned the usual suspects IE you belittled him and his partner

Is it really so hard to have a little human decency. It doesn't matter what they consider themselves
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Evthean
05/10/18 4:58:29 PM
#132:


i only read the first post, but it sounds like you made the right decision. the person you were with doesnt sound like they were emotionally mature enough for a serious relationship. dont sweat any shit talk that might come of it - from your post in this thread, it doesnt seem like you did anything manipulative
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thelovefist
05/10/18 5:03:39 PM
#133:


Axiom posted...
I was referring to the fact that his partner is nb


That isn't a real thing
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The Admiral
05/10/18 5:05:51 PM
#135:


butthole666 posted...
Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?
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thelovefist
05/10/18 5:11:41 PM
#136:


The Admiral posted...
butthole666 posted...
Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?

Lol

Also, TC non-binary gender isn't a real thing. I'm not sure why you're taking this out on Admiral.
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Konflikt
05/10/18 5:17:26 PM
#137:


This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing
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thelovefist
05/10/18 5:24:58 PM
#138:


Konflikt posted...
This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing

It appears it has taken that tagent
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butthole666
05/10/18 5:27:57 PM
#139:


thelovefist posted...
Konflikt posted...
This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing

It appears it has taken that tagent

Yeah because you fucking kept on it
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Konflikt
05/10/18 5:28:03 PM
#140:


I guess I'm just not seeing why it's so hard to just ignore that piece of information and keep your beliefs to yourself because the situation doesn't call for it. And you can't say "well TC would've avoided this if he just said that in the first place" because now that its been revealed you guys are doing the exact shit he was trying to avoid.
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Evil_Evil_Evil_
05/10/18 5:31:24 PM
#141:


lmaooooo
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thelovefist
05/10/18 5:34:15 PM
#142:


butthole666 posted...
thelovefist posted...
Konflikt posted...
This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing

It appears it has taken that tagent

Yeah because you fucking kept on it

You've brought it up far more often than I have said it isn't a real thing.
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-Henri
05/10/18 5:38:34 PM
#143:


I can't really tell who's trolling in this topic but either way it was funny as fuck lmaoooo
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Omega Hunter
05/10/18 5:51:56 PM
#145:


Genocet_10-325 posted...
TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC


God this is so entertaining.
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Omega Hunter
05/10/18 5:54:21 PM
#146:


The Admiral posted...
butthole666 posted...
Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?


I love admiral.

I only agree with him 25% of the time but I love him nonetheless.
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inTaCtfuL
05/10/18 5:57:51 PM
#147:


Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")

Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)
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LedZeppelin
05/10/18 5:59:15 PM
#148:


well tc definitely lived up to his username itt
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TheGoldenEel
05/10/18 5:59:58 PM
#149:


inTaCtfuL posted...
Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")

Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)

Generally its someone who puts so much importance on gender stereotypes that they think theyre neither man nor woman because they dont like sports OR shopping
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Joenage
05/10/18 6:37:19 PM
#150:


Konflikt posted...

I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC

Things first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since.

They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc.

Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time".


If this was said in a real-life conversation amongst normal friends, the listeners would definitely think 'wow that's phrased a little oddly'. There's no denying that.
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ChainedRedone
05/10/18 6:42:06 PM
#151:


TheGoldenEel posted...
inTaCtfuL posted...
Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")

Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)

Generally its someone who puts so much importance on gender stereotypes that they think theyre neither man nor woman because they dont like sports OR shopping


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Makeveli_lives
05/10/18 6:46:12 PM
#152:


I have nothing to contribute but damn both sides got triggered by them.
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butthole666
05/10/18 6:51:29 PM
#153:


Joenage posted...
Konflikt posted...

I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC

Things first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since.

They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc.

Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time".


If this was said in a real-life conversation amongst normal friends, the listeners would definitely think 'wow that's phrased a little oddly'. There's no denying that.

I don't hang out with bigoted trash so it's fairly normal actually
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