Current Events > I want to get married. I want to have kids

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I want a simple loving life. Much like the one my family gave me

Is that so much to ask for?
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Yup
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no need to get married

i understand the kids part
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MrK3V posted...

no need to get married

i understand the kids part

I know marriage isnt for everyone. I guess I was just brought up with it. Part of the Italian culture
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REMercsChamp posted...

What
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What's keeping you from working towards that goal?
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Is that so much to ask for?

Not really, it's an achievable aim for pretty much everyone.

FLUFFYGERM posted...

What's keeping you from working towards that goal?

I keep trying

The most recent girl I was supposed to marry, left me for the infamous ex.

I guess the more it happens, the more down it makes me
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Hairy-man posted...

FLUFFYGERM posted...

What's keeping you from working towards that goal?

I keep trying

The most recent girl I was supposed to marry, left me for the infamous ex.

I guess the more it happens, the more down it makes me

Well how old are you? If you're in your 20s you still have lots of time.
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Im not the tinder hook up guy I thought I could be. Hook ups provide nothing for me. I need love. I need passion

Im not a chad. I was a fake chad. In reality Im a bitch

I cant be a poser chad anymore
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FLUFFYGERM posted...

Hairy-man posted...

FLUFFYGERM posted...

What's keeping you from working towards that goal?

I keep trying

The most recent girl I was supposed to marry, left me for the infamous ex.

I guess the more it happens, the more down it makes me

Well how old are you? If you're in your 20s you still have lots of time.

Ill be 28. I imagined my life would already be how I described it. But then stuff happens
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Hairy-man posted...

Im not the tinder hook up guy I thought I could be. Hook ups provide nothing for me. I need love. I need passion

Im not a chad. I was a fake chad. In reality Im a bitch

I cant be a poser chad anymore

I get you, I feel the same way. I really don't know how people can hook up on the regular and not feel empty and depressed.

Hairy-man posted...

Ill be 28. I imagined my life would already be how I described it. But then stuff happens

Hey man, you have a lot of time. Even if you get married at 33, you have a long life ahead of you and that's still a young age to settle down at. For all you know there's someone awesome right around the corner. I missed out on an amazing woman who was into me because I was depressed over a previous one that I didn't get over fast enough. So don't let yourself be blinded by someone in your past. Just get over it and be at your best 24/7 so that you don't miss out on the amazing women out there.
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The hookup game gets gross at a certain point.

Many fleeting relationships are not a satisfying as an enduring love.

The gift of life is more fulfilling than sitting in a cubical all day.

Wake up young people before it's too late.
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Kolibri X posted...

The hookup game gets gross at a certain point.

Many fleeting relationships are not a satisfying as an enduring love.

The gift of life is more fulfilling than sitting in a cubical all day.

Wake up young people before it's too late.

Youth is wasted on the young. :(
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FLUFFYGERM posted...

Hairy-man posted...

Im not the tinder hook up guy I thought I could be. Hook ups provide nothing for me. I need love. I need passion

Im not a chad. I was a fake chad. In reality Im a bitch

I cant be a poser chad anymore

I get you, I feel the same way. I really don't know how people can hook up on the regular and not feel empty and depressed.

Hairy-man posted...

Ill be 28. I imagined my life would already be how I described it. But then stuff happens

Hey man, you have a lot of time. Even if you get married at 33, you have a long life ahead of you and that's still a young age to settle down at. For all you know there's someone awesome right around the corner. I missed out on an amazing woman who was into me because I was depressed over a previous one that I didn't get over fast enough. So don't let yourself be blinded by someone in your past. Just get over it and be at your best 24/7 so that you don't miss out on the amazing women out there.

Thanks man. I appreciate your words. Its just hard to take those blinders off. Especially when you reminisce on all of the good times you used to have. And how you were supposed to get married and start a family.

I thought I was ok for a while. I was on tinder. Chicks were talking to me. Asking me out. Invites to their houses. Whatever, but on a sex basis. I used to think that was awesome

But its just empty. Wheres the love? Wheres the commitment?

I know Im whining and I need to shut the fuck up. This isnt an attractive side to hairy man I know. I just feel so down today.

Im single, in absolutely no situation to meet anyone.
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Hairy-man posted...

FLUFFYGERM posted...

Hairy-man posted...

Im not the tinder hook up guy I thought I could be. Hook ups provide nothing for me. I need love. I need passion

Im not a chad. I was a fake chad. In reality Im a bitch

I cant be a poser chad anymore

I get you, I feel the same way. I really don't know how people can hook up on the regular and not feel empty and depressed.

Hairy-man posted...

Ill be 28. I imagined my life would already be how I described it. But then stuff happens

Hey man, you have a lot of time. Even if you get married at 33, you have a long life ahead of you and that's still a young age to settle down at. For all you know there's someone awesome right around the corner. I missed out on an amazing woman who was into me because I was depressed over a previous one that I didn't get over fast enough. So don't let yourself be blinded by someone in your past. Just get over it and be at your best 24/7 so that you don't miss out on the amazing women out there.

Thanks man. I appreciate your words. Its just hard to take those blinders off. Especially when you reminisce on all of the good times you used to have. And how you were supposed to get married and start a family.

I thought I was ok for a while. I was on tinder. Chicks were talking to me. Asking me out. Invites to their houses. Whatever, but on a sex basis. I used to think that was awesome

But its just empty. Wheres the love? Wheres the commitment?

I know Im whining and I need to shut the fuck up. This isnt an attractive side to hairy man I know. I just feel so down today.

Im single, in absolutely no situation to meet anyone.

Yeah I get you man. Maybe plug yourself into an environment where people are looking for something serious and committed. A church might be a good place to start. Or a book club or some other social activity where singles go to mingle in your city. Definitely not on Tinder.

Or maybe you can try something like eharmony? I've never used it but maybe you'll have some luck there.
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I could try something else sure. Hard to find the motivation though.

I always read on the net or see in TV shows that the easiest way to get over a girl is to sleep with another,

Well that has not worked for me. Sometimes it makes it worse
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