Current Events > I can't tell if this girl likes me or what....

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>i met her as an extension of a specific social circle i saw every once in a while (friend of friends gf)
>thought she was super cool and pretty and liked her, but i prob would go nowhere
>way later, that circle lives in a new apartment and she lives there too
>i go there almost weekly, she comes out in living room and hangs out with us
>we joke around with each other and get along much better, def seems like girlfriend material

So then, they host a NYE party, and after short time passes, she asks me to sit next to her. She's wearing a nice dress. She's playing with my feet with her own, lying her legs on me, leaning over me, etc. Grabbing my waist. I'm flirting back and it seems good. I'm thinking, oh shit, maybe it could happen. I've liked this girl for a while now.

Later we're standing around talking about all sorts of stuff. I super imply that we should be a thing which she understood, and she had hesitation, because I was friends with a particular person. Her reason for hesitating on the surface made no sense but it was clear that she just wanted just a reason to hesitate, and haphazardly picked that.

Then, somehow she just drifts away and starts being slightly touchy/feely with another mutual friend there.

Once I got home, I sent a message being like "happy new years, hope u had a good time, i know i did", which she responded to quickly being like "yeah it was fun" and stuff.

Based on advice I've gotten, from both that friend and the girl hes talking to is that I should just be patient, and next time I visit, just act like how I was normally acting, and now it's on her to show interest since I've already shown it on my end.

What do I do about any of this, or is it even worth the time.
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You're overthinking like crazy.

You had a shot but blew it by not making a move.

Don't ever "be patient" with a girl.
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Also, she most definitely does not like you. It's not really possible to like someone unless you've hung out with them a few times and gotten to know them.
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SomeLikeItHoth posted...

It's not really possible to like someone unless you've hung out with them a few times and gotten to know them.

eh, what
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