Current Events > My crush just quit his job at my workplace

(+) Yeah! (+)

Imma miss him, but it's probably for the better :(
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He thinks he's too good for Walmart now?
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Good, hopefully you will be able to get over that asshole now

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Kanaya413 posted...

Good, hopefully you will be able to get over that asshole now

Cleo_II posted...

Kanaya413 posted...

Good, hopefully you will be able to get over that asshole now

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You need a new crush.

Someone on CE perhaps!
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Feline_Heart posted...

He thinks he's too good for Walmart now?

He'd been at there for a year and a half, and from what I've heard stocking is super draining.

Zodd3224 posted...

Cleo_II posted...

Kanaya413 posted...

Good, hopefully you will be able to get over that asshole now

Lol hopefully

JustMonika posted...

You need a new crush.

Someone on CE perhaps!

You? :o
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Wotswayla posted...

You? :o

I didn't say that but that's a good example :P
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In what way is he an ass?
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Twin3Turbo posted...

In what way is he an ass?

I don't think he's bad, but basically we made out, after months of friendship, and he completely ghosted me afterwards
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Wotswayla posted...

Twin3Turbo posted...

In what way is he an ass?

I don't think he's bad, but basically we made out, after months of friendship, and he completely ghosted me afterwards

Dick move on his part, but he's gone now, so you're free to not worry about him anymore. This is certainly only a positive from the looks of it. Maybe now they'll hire a nice Chad to replace him and he'll fall in love with you.
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TheCyborgNinja posted...

Wotswayla posted...

Twin3Turbo posted...

In what way is he an ass?

I don't think he's bad, but basically we made out, after months of friendship, and he completely ghosted me afterwards

Dick move on his part, but he's gone now, so you're free to not worry about him anymore. This is certainly only a positive from the looks of it. Maybe now they'll hire a nice Chad to replace him and he'll fall in love with you.

Chads are incapable of love. They use women and then move onto the next one. They are pure evil.
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Pepys Monster posted...

TheCyborgNinja posted...

Wotswayla posted...

Twin3Turbo posted...

In what way is he an ass?

I don't think he's bad, but basically we made out, after months of friendship, and he completely ghosted me afterwards

Dick move on his part, but he's gone now, so you're free to not worry about him anymore. This is certainly only a positive from the looks of it. Maybe now they'll hire a nice Chad to replace him and he'll fall in love with you.

Chads are incapable of love. They use women and then move onto the next one. They are pure evil.

Not true. I've actually known some decent ones. Some suck, but the same could be said for any demographic.
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Zodd3224 posted...

Cleo_II posted...

Kanaya413 posted...

Good, hopefully you will be able to get over that asshole now

This this this this
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Were you crushed by this news?
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Wow.

I texted him.

And now I finally have closure. We talked about what happened and it was amazing. Basically he apologized for how he acted, and how he's been ignoring me. Explained himself, why it didn't work, and where he's at now.

I'm so happy. It's bittersweet tbh because I still want him, but now I know why. I'm not left in the dust.

I could cry omg
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That's awesome. It really seemed to stay with you, and it's gotta be a relief to unload that burden.
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That's good. I wish the girl who ghosted me four months ago gave me closure. I'll never know why she did. I'll never know, what, if anything, I did wrong. And it makes me really sad.
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Pepys Monster posted...

That's good. I wish the girl who ghosted me four months ago gave me closure. I'll never know why she did. I'll never know, what, if anything, I did wrong. And it makes me really sad.

They say a rebound is bad, but honestly, it's really not if you actually have fun with the person. Maybe try that?
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TheCyborgNinja posted...

That's awesome. It really seemed to stay with you, and it's gotta be a relief to unload that burden.

Yeah, I think it stung a little more than it should have was because he was my first real kiss. He was the first person I really kinda fell for.. hard. And it hurt when he just sort of ignored me afterwards and didn't give any explanation. I dunno. I'm glad it's over.

Pepys Monster posted...

That's good. I wish the girl who ghosted me four months ago gave me closure. I'll never know why she did. I'll never know, what, if anything, I did wrong. And it makes me really sad.

For me, what seemed to help was me telling myself that it's okay it didn't work out. Real life is messy and that's okay. Maybe they weren't into you but it's okay because that's just how it is. I dunno if I'm making any sense but I tried to normalize it and concentrate on the fact that they're human and they don't know they're hurting you.
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Wotswayla posted...

TheCyborgNinja posted...

That's awesome. It really seemed to stay with you, and it's gotta be a relief to unload that burden.

Yeah, I think it stung a little more than it should have was because he was my first real kiss. He was the first person I really kinda fell for.. hard. And it hurt when he just sort of ignored me afterwards and didn't give any explanation. I dunno. I'm glad it's over.

Pepys Monster posted...

That's good. I wish the girl who ghosted me four months ago gave me closure. I'll never know why she did. I'll never know, what, if anything, I did wrong. And it makes me really sad.

For me, what seemed to help was me telling myself that it's okay it didn't work out. Real life is messy and that's okay. Maybe they weren't into you but it's okay because that's just how it is. I dunno if I'm making any sense but I tried to normalize it and concentrate on the fact that they're human and they don't know they're hurting you.

Yeah, that makes sense. My buddy and his first love had a weird back/forth thing going on for a while. Everyone deals with it differently. I crushed on so many girls so hard starting at like age 12 that by the time anybody was willing to date me years later, I'd sort of gotten a lot of "lingering feelings" issues out of my system by about 14 or 15 and was pretty good at dealing with relationships ending as I got older (and actually had some, to varying degrees)... You'll probably find somebody else a lot easier now that there's closure.

The one thing I never understood was how anybody could be "just friends" with somebody they were more than friends with. It happens and seems to work, but that would be the thing that'd ruin me because there was obviously a reason to like the person in the first place and you don't want to see them doing stuff with other people. That's sort of a tangent, I know, but my brain does that...... Clean breaks (with a reason) are best. The worst feeling is when likes don't line up (as in you like somebody, but they like somebody else, and somebody you don't like likes you. LIKE - I say it a lot lol)
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What was his reason for ghosting you?
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Wotswayla posted...

For me, what seemed to help was me telling myself that it's okay it didn't work out. Real life is messy and that's okay. Maybe they weren't into you but it's okay because that's just how it is. I dunno if I'm making any sense but I tried to normalize it and concentrate on the fact that they're human and they don't know they're hurting you.

I guess the part that makes it hurt is how she made me feel really special. When I met her, she gave me a massage, then we sat across from each other and talked. She said she thought I was very attractive. She kept smiling at me and hugged me a couple times. Then she moved in for a kiss. She asked if I wanted to go on a date sometime and gave me her number. Everything was so magical. But she was with her male friend and didn't want to make him feel awkward, so we said goodbye to each other. Eventually, she stopped replying to my texts. We never went on that date. I've been getting friendzoned by other girls ever since.
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