Current Events > i always end up falling for the same type of guy

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- p good looking (skinny, dresses well)
- open minded personality and non judgemental
- anxiety ridden
- can be clingy
- even more anxiety

tl;dr - cute skinny white guys with anxiety

i feel like this is a cycle im not gonna break out of or learn my lesson from

do you guys have stories of getting with people who are similar?
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I was always drawn to damaged girls. No idea why for years, then it turned out its because I was fucked up too. What a twist!
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You should try Black men.
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I heard Indian men are the new bulls
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sounds like you like the gay version of basic girls? :v
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I tend to either go for very "strong willed" women, who are extroverted in nature as they are incredibly thrilling, I've found. Don't really make for long relationships, but I do fall head over heels for them in the time we are together.

If not them, I tend to go for women with various problems like myself, often ones with drug issues I've found and whole kinds of stability issues. And super clingy (just like I am >.>)

The few men I've dated tend to fall in the same categories tbh as well.
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I'm always drawn to girls with large behind.
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There's nothing wrong with having a type. Just find someone who isn't as clingy. If a person is overly clingy, it's a red flag anyway. It can mean they aren't happy with their life and they rely on YOU to be happy at all. You should enhance their happiness.
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Veggeta X posted...

You should try Black men.

i'm into black guys as well

but i like some cultural difference if u get me

BlueMage279 posted...

So what's the problem?

the same issues keep arising lol, and the same negatives

Funkydog posted...

I tend to either go for very "strong willed" women, who are extroverted in nature as they are incredibly thrilling, I've found. Don't really make for long relationships, but I do fall head over heels for them in the time we are together.

If not them, I tend to go for women with various problems like myself, often ones with drug issues I've found and whole kinds of stability issues. And super clingy (just like I am >.>)

The few men I've dated tend to fall in the same categories tbh as well.

i'm p extroverted in nature, but i'm not sure if i'm strong willed >.> but in relationships i guess i'm the one who makes more decisions and more headstrong in choices
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Is it because you share those things with them? The clingy anxiety items I mean.
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BuckVanHammer posted...

Is it because you share those things with them? The clingy anxiety items I mean.

oh fuck...maybe

i've never thought of it that way. i used to be p clingy but i think i've dialled it down now. i'm definitely anxious but not in the sense of everyday anxiety or struggles with mental health (like the guys i fall for). but more anxiety being centre of attn or for big upcoming projects/presentations
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I heard Indian men are the new bulls
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