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Ive always had it easy with women even though Im not particularly good looking. Ive never understood why people think its so difficult to get a girl. Few basic rules...

1. Lay down the law:

Women respond to leading and confidence. Dont ask her where shed like to go, tell her where you want to go and say it decisively. Your voice inflection should go down when you speak, this is what makes a good persuader in general. Dont force it, obviously if she says no back off, but youll more often get the green light if you say things in this manor.

2. Be curious:

Problem with most guys is they dont give a crap. Women will respond to you if you care about their experience and where they came from etc. if you really dont care , then just fake It. Point is, be interested in them. If youre interested in them then naturally youll have questions to ask which will keep a conversation going.

3: Listen

She doesnt care about you. She wants to talk about herself. Its a psychological principle that the more someone talks, the more they feel comfortable around you. So when youre asking these questions to girls, listen and dont interrupt.

Peace out
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How to pick up 4s and 5s: The Topic
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einegutePerson posted...

How to pick up 4s and 5s: The Topic

All women are the same. Youre making things hard for yourself by thinking like this
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You really just said in this topic "be confident and be into them"
amazing advice really

lmfao
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Not very PC of you
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Honesty like 90% of "pick up artistry" cones down to "be confident "

Thing is just saying it to far lonely anime fans doesn't actually help them be confident
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UnfairRepresent posted...

Honesty like 90% of "pick up artistry" cones down to "be confident "

Thing is just saying it to far lonely anime fans doesn't actually help them be confident

What do you think would help them ?
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It also helps to be funny and tall.

1. Lay down the law:
I want to go to the anime convention today

2. Be curious:
Do you like anime?

3. Listen
"Not really."

And this is why CE will fail given your advice
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I love that the problem with most guys is they don't give a crap, yet they need to shut up because she doesn't give shit about them and just wants to talk about herself.
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Dubman017 posted...

UnfairRepresent posted...

Honesty like 90% of "pick up artistry" cones down to "be confident "

Thing is just saying it to far lonely anime fans doesn't actually help them be confident

What do you think would help them ?

1. Money

2. Lower standards

3. A hot girl saying she'd blow them if they lost 50 pounds
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I get that its easy to bag on tc but the fact is, hes right. Especially on 1 and 3. However there is more to it, (for example, being a great conversationalist is something that takes a lot of practice and it helps to read up on how to deep dive with people and to get them continuing to talk about themselves).
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What are some of the better questions you can ask, though? Ones that might not be so obvious. And how about some of the worst? Again, that wouldn't necessarily be obvious.
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Dubman017 posted...

einegutePerson posted...

How to pick up 4s and 5s: The Topic

All women are the same. Youre making things hard for yourself by thinking like this

Right. That's why only the ugly ones approach me. It's all a fucking coincidence.

AceAttorneyist posted...

What are some of the better questions you can ask, though? Ones that might not be so obvious. And how about some of the worst? Again, that wouldn't necessarily be obvious.

One that I always ask that typically gets them talking a lot is if you could make a comfortable living doing anything, and lets keep it legal here (wink wink), what would you do

And then shut up and let them talk and go from there.

Also Its important to try to relate to them about their experiences and DONT JUDGE, EVER.
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Ask people questions that make them actually think.
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shnangyboos posted...

I love that the problem with most guys is they don't give a crap, yet they need to shut up because she doesn't give shit about them and just wants to talk about herself.

you're taking the advice too literally. What I mean is listen when she is talking, pick the hooks out of what she's saying, and then ask her something back. You're demonstrating that you're listening to her and caring at the same time.
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1 is becoming outdated but will still work on a good amount of chicks.

3 is just ignorant. It all depends how interesting you actually are. Im a good listener so I don't have to worry about that but if your responses actually have substance and are relevant than people usually listen to them and respect the input.
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