Current Events > The worst part about dating is making the first move...damn it.

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Been talking to this girl for a few weeks, and we've gone on two dates which both went really well.

At the end of the second date, I really wanted to kiss her. But honestly, I'm really bad at judging those times and figuring out when the girl wants it. I get that confidence is mainly what you need, and I have a fair amount of confidence. I've been pretty straight forward with letting her know I think she's really cute, and a blast to hang out with.


What's some advice to help with that first physical move, CE? I'm great at the talking and flirting and all that, but when it comes to this first move...I need some help hahaha.


Wait, why am I asking CE anyways? Uh oh.
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Just fucking do it man. What advice do you want?
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Once you get past that fear of making a move, the worst part is weeding the crazies out

If it doesn't happen spontaneously during the date then it's not worth bothering with the end of date kiss, IMO.
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SpiralDrift posted...

If it doesn't happen spontaneously during the date then it's not worth bothering with the end of date kiss, IMO.

Well, when the first few dates are entirely in public at bars and restaurants...I'm not gonna kiss her for the first time in front of a ton of people. That's weird to me.
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Make her make the first move. That's what I usually did and girls ate that shit up.
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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

Make her make the first move. That's what I usually did and girls ate that shit up.

Eh. This girl is fairly shy and I'm not sure she would. I almost think she was waiting for me to kiss her the other night.
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