Current Events > Is it normal to be in your late 20's and not plan on dating ever again?

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That's where I am and most tell me it's weird to not be interested in dating or girls really in general. I notice girls and find them attractive but all I want to do is work, play guitar and discover music.

That's basically any successful person in music ever. Congrats.

One of our evolutionary programmed urges is to find a mate and have sex with them, so yeah a little.

But ultimately, if you're enjoying life, who cares what anyone else thinks?

Now that you've stopped trying, you're gonna get so many chicks

That's how it always works
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I wouldn't say it's exactly normal, but I wouldn't say it's a bad thing if you have other things that you care about more and would rather do.
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eston posted...

Now that you've stopped trying, you're gonna get so many chicks

That's how it always works

I've rejected something like 6 girls this year >_> I think because I'm naturally shy but I don't feel the pressure of impressing to get girls they take my kinda shy but smartass nature as flirting or something.

Godnorgosh posted...

If you're legit uninterested in women, I'm pretty jelly tbh. That might save you a lot of hardship in life.

I have no interest in dating but I always want to have sex, but makes my life very very difficult seeing as I'm almost 40 and no woman my age wants to "just mess around"
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eston posted...

Now that you've stopped trying, you're gonna get so many chicks

That's how it always works

That's certainly not how it worked for me lol
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The only women I've ever attracted were crazy and gross, anyway.

You'll find your rosechu someday.
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Romance is not for everyone.

In fact, I see a lot of people who try to force being in a romantic relationship when they're clearly happier on their own.
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It may not be normal, but normal is not for everyone. I've been in the same situation. I'm a musician and composer myself. I love days when I can just discover good music for hours,

If my current relationship ever fails, I think I will follow you TC. Only 25% of my adult life has been dating/in relationship anyways.

Turbam posted...

You'll find your rosechu someday.

And complete the love quest.

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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do whatever the fuck you want. who cares about normal anyway? Sounds like you have a passion for music, focus on that if you want to. You are responsible for all your decisions though just remember that not anyone else, its your life. Stay up, player
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If you find yourself dwelling on it and feel like it's a problem, then fix it.

If you're content without it, then fuck what other people think. Other people don't live your life - you do.
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you'll want someone one day. i guarantee that
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ArchiePeck posted...

One of our evolutionary programmed urges is to find a mate and have sex with them, so yeah a little.

But ultimately, if you're enjoying life, who cares what anyone else thinks?

Its abnormal, but you do you.
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